Hello everyone!!! sorry it's been so long since i've been around to help. to let everyone get reaquainted with me i am a 33 year old mother of 4 kids and 2 stepkids. I work 2 jobs cuz i know how hard it is out there!! i have experience with teen pregnancy, domestic abuse, mommy issues, and just plain old troubles in the world!!! Just remember your every day trouble will always be there- don't let it get you down- try to figure out a way to cope with it!!! Have Faith!!!
Gender: Female
Location: tennessee
Occupation: assistant manager retail
Age: 33
Member Since: January 9, 2006
Answers: 103
Last Update: November 13, 2007
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okay so i went to the doctor and i have a problem with my knee and have to wear this huge ugly brace over my pants, its big ugly and soo bulky looking. i want to know if people will like point and stare? and will people think its ugly? and is it stupid to be like nervous to wear it in front of people? (link)
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trust me they will get over it. they are the ones with a problem you are trying to correct yours. ask them if they want to walk around with a bum knee all the time
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hey! well i need to lose as many pounds as i can in about 3 weeks. any suggestions besides running and situps? i need detailed details! plz plz! thanks! (link)
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At your age you really don't need to lose too much too fast because your body is still in development stage. Exercize is always a good place to start along with a healthy diet
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I stopped dressing up for places but now I want to but I dont know how to put anything together now. I'm tired of wearing a sweater and sweatpants. I need help. I dont know what colors would look good on me. I'm light tanned. I have dark brown/black hair. I'm short and not really chubby. Any suggestions of colors/clothes (certain color shirt/jeans/skirt) ? Pictures of outfits would help. I can't ask my friends because they aren't interested in fashion. (link)
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bright colors (not neon!!) light weight fabrics. blue jeans are always classic. you can use them to dress up or down. mess around with some stuff in a dressing room and see what you like!!!
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Does anybody know what stores sell Chia Pets?
Any type of chia's would be great.
Or does anybody know where I can get movie chia's like scooby doo or shrek or something. (link)
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walgreens, cvs, walmart kmart. you can find them just about anywhere. some stores carry them seasonally
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when you wear your hair down straight, is there any product that you can put in it to keep it shiny and smooth and not-frizzy? what do you use (if you use anything)?
thanks!!!! =] (link)
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everybody's hair is different so it's all trial and error. salon products work really well if you can afford them. i use garnier's smoothing milk and leave in conditioner. try those they are a little more affordable.
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okay...well i have been having discharge really badly lately, since i think about 6 grade ive had it, but lately its been getting bad....sometimes it will cool off and not be so heavy...but then sometimes it gets thick and i can't stand it, is there any reason why? and does anybody know of any good meds. for it? all answers and ill rate 5's
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see a doctor. over the counters aren't going to do you any good if it's that bad.
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I just inserted my very first tampon. I felt fine for the first few minutes but every few minutes I can feel my tampon like when I walk. I was expecting pain, so idk if its just my mind playing tricks on me or what but what should I do? Any things I should know about using a tampon. (link)
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just be careful. there is a risk of toxic shock syndrome. not everyone can use a tampon. check with your doctor if things get too serious. or maybe you just used the wrong size. sometimes that happens.
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My mom just kicked me outa the house ... what am i suposed to do to get back?? or just do period?? (link)
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you didn't give us much to comment on. no one knows what is going on there. maybe you should try having a civilized conversation with her and discuss the problems that you are having. see where that takes you.
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for some reason, ya'll keep deleting my question.
anyways, at the top of my legs, on the fleshy outer part of the vagina lips, between that and the top of my legs, i have these sores(i guess you could call them). they look like little bumps with a "pin-prick" hole. for some reason, when you let them air out, they scab over. but they hurt and itch at the same time. i don't know what's wrong.
i know its not my husband, we're both 19, and were virgins when we got married. if yall could help me, it'd be appreciated. thanks. (link)
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this may sound silly but do you shave that area? I had the same problem once before and my gyno said that an infection can set in from shaving. call your doctor and make an appointment just to be safe.
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i used to give head to some guys and i quit because i thought i might have caught something. could there be a chance i could get something? or i would have to get that checked ..since some stds show no syptoms?
i also heard that if the guy had some std and i swallowed the std or whatever would die cause of the acid in my stomach or something? is that true (link)
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no matter what use a condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i can't stress this enough. whether it's oral or vaginal or even anal, use a condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they make flavored ones you know!!!
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im a girl 14 in 8th grade and im 215 pounds and 5"8 and im ugly wht should i do i have and ab lounger but i can resist junk food i always try to go on a diet is they're any way for me to stop craving fat food because i relly wanna be pretty for my semi formal and summer 2006 (link)
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honey, please don't feel that you are ugly. i'm sure you are a very beautiful girl. try eating healthy junk food. i know it sounds strange but there really is such a thing. try checking out the food network or some healthy web sites and see what they have to offer. or you can ask your doctor or school nurse if they could help you get on the right track.
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when you are pregnant, how soon will you feel the stomach cramps? and what part of the stomach do you feel them in? Thanks so much for you help. (link)
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you shouldn't have stomach cramps until you are in labor or at least false labor. usually they are in the lower abdomen. I am concerned if you are having cramps at all during your pregnancy you should consult your doctor or health clinic. please don't wait too long the baby or your life can depend on it.
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okay. like. i guess you could say im skinny. or normal. but in my opioionn im fat. i always pinch my stomech or w.e and its gross. i have thoughts about being annerexic or belimic. and i dont want to be annerexic cause like i love to eat. and if i could like perge or w.e i sware id be belmic in a heartbeat. and its like i cant stay on a diet im tempted too easily and i exsersize but i mean im sick of the fat on my stomech and i dont do any sports. what can i do. i know my thoughts arnt "healthy" and i want to change it. but the fat on my stomech has GOT TO GO.
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diet and exercize!!!!!!!!!I've been there sweetie. Love your body and treat it well and it will reward you i promise
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ok. me and my best friend use to be completely in love with each other. then we kinda just ended it cause he got a girlfiend. but now he dumped her. and i think im falling for him again. what should i do? (link)
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take your time. Dont ruin your friendship over something your not sure of
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i like this dude but im scared to tell him. i wrote him a message but then i chickened out and said srry wrong jesse...anyways i go to church with him and we always set by each other...and i cant take it anymore ...pleze help (link)
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tell him. what could it hurt?????????
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okay like im really skinny but i have like a baby face and when i look down i have a little double chin is there any way to get rid of that (like exercises) without going on a diet cus im skinny enough as it is? (link)
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honey when anyone looks down they all have a double chin. It's the way that the muscle and tissues fall with the movement. You are fine.
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Today I decided to completley put my faith and trust into God, I really took him into my life today. However, I just started going to church last year so I was never baptised and never confirmed. Can I still expect to go to Heaven? What exactly does being confirmed or baptised mean? (link)
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follow God. follow your beliefs. God knows what you know in your soul. If and when you are ready you will go to Heaven if you believe in your heart that you will. Being confirmed or Baptised just means that you have devoted to Christ. A lot of people have done this without going to church and maintaining the Christian lifestyle on their own. You will be fine if you believe.
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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks (link)
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yes. Are you sexually active? Have you been sick or on medication? If you are really concerned about this see a doctor or visit the nearest health clinic or just call for some advice. I have heard that being active and involved in sports can cause your body to react in such a way.
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My parents won’t let me go out at night or with my guy friends. And this is what all my friends are doing so night after night I’m finding myself at home playing chess with my little brother. This is not how 10th grade is supposed to be. How do I get my parents to loosen up? Also they won’t let teenagers drive me places. How do I convince them that this is ok? And how do I get them to trust me with more freedom? (link)
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no matter how old you are you will always be their baby. I'm sorry about all that, but as a mother of a teen too it takes alot for a parent to let go. try bringing some of your guy friends over to meet the parents. or try to loosen them up with you voluntering to have a safe sex and I know to say no discussion with them. Maybe they will feel a little more comfortable knowing how responsible you are or can be. I know it worked for my son and I.
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ok to start im 13/f
the other day in school.. i wrote my boyfriend a note... i had my bestfried give it to him.. she told me that my x said that me and my boyfriend are over.. so i wrote my boyfriend another note saying that we are over (since i don't want to be the one being dumped!) well my boyfriend said that he wasn't going to break up with me and now im totally upset! i really regret that i broke up with him! i love him so much!
but the day i broke up with him he goes and asks out this slut! (how desperate!)
I CAN'T BELEIVE I BELEIVED MY XX!
idk what should i do? should i tell my boyfriend how i feel and how i think i we should go back out?
or should i just wait to see what happens when he breaks up with that slut?
PLEASE HELP! thanks! (link)
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there is a saying that my grandmother used to tell me growing up. If you love it set it free, if it comes back it's meant to be!!! Usually this is very true. Honey, you are young and there will be other loves. Don't make your self crazy. Make him jealous!!!!!
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