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I have dirty blonde-ish/light brownish hair and its a little bit passed my shoulder. Last summer, I used Sun In only once and when I went in the pool, the chlorine made the highlights stay in. Now you can see the highlights growing out. I really wanna dye my hair but I dont know what color I should dye it. I don't want to go dark. Can someone please help me with my problem?

Thanks

baybe a really light brown or umm.... im not sure... orange? expeirament but dont make ur hair fall out!!
hope this helps,
chynna

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whats a good icon site.

iconator.com

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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!

-signed help my friend out!-

I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ask her why she dose it. have a heart to heart conversation and explain to her why she shouldnt.
hope this helps,
chynna

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Hi im 14 yrs. old and well.. sum1 please help me. i have a boyfriend and we've been goin out for awhile. I tried so hard to get him. I finally have him..well this summer i met this boy steven. his step-brother Erik goes to where i live but Steven lives 2hrs. away and comes to where i live every weekend. Well Steven likes me a lot and i like him a lot too. He's my type..but i really like kyle ( my boyfriend)..and i dont no if i should give steven a chance? or not dump kyle? Im so confused and strssed and dont no what to di!Some one please help..thankyou

pros and cons, pros and cons. weigh them.
hope this helps,
chynna

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I'm always getting really horny, how do i stop myself? like...I've been horny for like 20 minutes, how can I stop? is there A food i should eat? or think about something?

i have no idea sorry
hope that helped, probably didnt,
chynna

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ok...i know i just asked a question but stay with me here...im mean this ones been bugging me...im a low budget and i have a couple of old shirts ( some plain some with stuff) what are some cute DyI ideas that can give my tee's and new look!?! without spending a FOURTUNE!! haha!! thanks much!!!its really helpful!!

XoXo Lexi

cut them up, get creative
hope this helps,
chynna

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I love to be unique when it comes to hair,make-up,and clothes..hahah especially clothes but i need some cute unique back to school make-up ideas i could do to go with my look? ideas with cool shadows,lipglosses,ect? it would be very greatly appreciated!!

P.S-and funkyhair ideas too!! ILL TRY ANYTHING!!!

XoXo Lexi

black eyeliner on bottom, bright pink eyeshadow on top
hope this helps,
chynna

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My friend is having her own problems...should i tell her mine? She says I can though..

a frind is there for u.. thats the point.definatly tell her yours so that she wont feel like shes the only one having problems
hope this helps,
chynna

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HI! my parents never gave me any privacy at home not even in my room, they never gave me space for anything, they never let me go to the movies with my friends and they always go throught my stuff. wat should i do?

talk to them but make sure u dont give them any reason to not let u do the things u wanna do
hope this helps,
chynna

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Hi! okay i like this guy, but his friend says that he likes me but i dunno if it's true. So if i tell him i like him, and if he says that the rumor was not true, should i tell him?

ask him straight foward urself. but tell him that ur friend told u so that he dosnt think the questin came up in your mind for no idea
hope this helps,
chynna

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please give me a list of ways to lose weight FAST! i need to lose alot by august 30th. and keep in mind i am 14 and i WILL NOT get lypo. i will rate!

exercise and diet are my only ideas. sorry
hope this helps,
chynna

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im going to the beach soon, and i was wondering what were some good ways to make friends? (im 14)

go to a shop u have interest in. if u see anyone that has the same intrests start up a converstion
hope this helps,
chynna

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Well i puke whenever i eat sumthin or drink something..Sometimes i totally just do it on purpose..My mom thinks im bulimic..I think im fat and i want to become anerix or belimic or both..What should i do to loose weight and if i should do that..?

a diet and exersize is waaaaaaaay better than becoming anorexic. doing that can only cause u pain and suffering
hope that helped,
chynna

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hi,
my friend is 13 and she's going out with a 17 year old and she really really likes him and he supposedly likes her alot too but the other day she told me they were thinking of having sex and she said that the crazy thing was that she had brought it up but i mean she's 13! i think that that is just too young and i'm worried about her and i kind of told her not to but i don't wanna seem bossy i mean it is her life-what should i do?
-"kiki"...me...yes me

hi kiki. i know u might think ur friend is too young but u shouldnt tell her what to do. obiously its her choice.make sure you dont become to bossy or mom like. that can be annoying sometimes.maybe to help your worries you should think of what kind of guy shes with. if she trustes him enough to bring up the idea of sex then maybe u should go with her opinions.
hope this helps,
chynna

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i like a guy, but i don't really know if he likes me,,, what should i do?

definitly ask on of his friends first. dont make it obious either. also its a good idea to tell him so things wont et akward in your opinion. but my idea is to ask him for fake advice.tell him u like a guy but your afraid to tell him because he might freak out. depending on his answer tell him.
hope this helps,chynna!

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Hi, im a 13 year old girl that is doubting herself.
What do guys generally find sexy in a girl? and What kind of clothing and apperence is a turn on? i will rate you, check your feedback.

well what a guy notices mostly, to be honest is a girls boobs and butt. hard to say, but its true. also it depends what the guy is into i.e.: if hes into hip ho he probably likes a girl who has the same sence of style. a good way for a girl to make a guy notice her more is by hanging out and taking more... also maybe if u show new or different intrests or also if u have something in common with him
hope this helps, chynna!

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how do you cyber? like wut do say to tha guy? help me plze

well basicly its like having sex... just in words and on the internet...
hope this helps!

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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =)

emm.. advil works for pain?
hope this helps,
chynna

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i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled!

call! always take a chance!
hope this helps,
chynna

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What should i do if my friends are in a fight???
What side should i go to?

real friends never ask to pick on a side.if they ever do tel them ur not on anyones side. try helping them solve their fights instead of making it worse by picking a side.
hope this helps,
chynna

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