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Q: my boobs are normal
but i dont have nipples like normal girls
they are some how.. inverted?
is this normal
lots of peoples are like that, so yes, it is completely normal. hope I helped.

Q: how do i get rid of bags. i dont want any lotion or like make up... just like little easy things. you get it. thankss =]
Take two spoons and put them in the freezer. Then when you take them out when they are cold you put them on your eyes when they are closed and it takes down the puffiness. Hope I helped.

Q: im 13/m nd i talk to this chick on msn, she was in my grade last year, she knows i like her, ive asked her out but she said no, that was atleast half a year ago, now she likes some1 thats not me, and i really wanna b wit her xcept she wont allow me to do dat, shes coming over to my house next friday and i wanna do something for her that will make her change her mind about this other guy and go out with me, but i dunno how to,
can you please help, thanks


This post has been in another catagory, but i just realised it was place in the wrong one,

Sorry for any inconveniance
She doesn't like you. There isn't anything you can really do but flirt, except if you've already done that you don't really have a chance with her. Why don't you invite her to the movies or something? Hope I helped

Q: whats the easiest way for a 13 year old to make money when she cant really babysit (I already have a baby bro.. and babysitting other babies like regularly is prety much out of the question). thanks! this summer i plan to buy an ipod nano with the money i get!
Well the only thing I can think of is that you can do yardwork for people such as mowing their lawn and stuff, or volunteer to clean there house. I couldn't think of much. Hope I helped.

Q: I'v heard about these vitamins or pills that make your hair grow faster. Does anybody know what they're called and if they're safe to take.
Well I searched on google, and I'm not quite sure if this is what you are looking for, but I found this.

http://www.hairenergizer.com/

I'm not sure if they are safe to take, I've never heard about them before. Not the best info, but hope I helped anyways.

Q: I want to have a custom left side on my xanga site. I already have a custom right side. I've tried every code I can find. Do you know of a code?

Here's my website if that helps xanga.com/glitters_icons_and_more
You already have a right side on your xanga.

Q: This wouldn't be a "love" question if it didn't involve a boy. So it does.
So Jack is my best friend. We get along great, and the whole shebang. And I like him. A lot.
I guess I'm a really shy person. Is there any way to tell if he likes me back?
Also. When I get to be good friends with someone, when I say goodbye, for the day, afterschool or whatever, I hug them.
Is it weird that I don't hug Jack? Should I? Would that be awkward? Would he be able to assume that I like him?
I really don't want to tell him that I like him because I don't want him to think that I'm weird, but I really want to know if he likes me too.
And my school has this thing going on next week called "Twirp". It's like Sadie Hawkins. The girl has to do everything, as opposed to the other way around. Should I say something then?
Well, if he likes you back you can tell if maybe he treats you a little differently, he does stupid things to get your attention, and flirts with you.

If you suddenly start hugging him, then it would totally show off that you like him, but it will also be awkward since you just randomly start hugging him. So yes, he would be able to assume you like him.

If you really like him, go for it! If you are scared to do it in person, write a post-it or IM to him like "will you go to twirp with me?" You might find out he likes you too, or maybe nothing will happen at all. :( If nothing happens, don't tell him, but invite him to a movie! If that goes well, continue inviting him on dates (not too close to each other though) Flirt with him - joke, laugh at his jokes, poke him in a playful way, make sure to be interested in what he's saying. If there is no progress, he probably just doesn't have feelings for you. Hope I helped!

Q: No videos anywhere on the internet will play on my computer anymore. they used to but not anymore. and there was nothing added to my computer to mess it up. whats wrong with my computer and what can i do to fix it?
It might be that you flash was not upgraded whenever they made a new version.

You can get it here

http://www.adobe.com/shockwave/download/download.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash

Hope that was all the problem was and that I helped

Q: my skin gets irritated really easily! Like I was blow drying my banks and thne i was working on every where else and when I was done I tied my hair up and my whole for head was red!

And I ate like all these stuff that's good for your skin for my student card and my face was clear and every thing and thne right nefore my picture got tooken, in the mirror I could see a lil red area beside my mouth!

Anything I can do?
Okay. Well, if your skin is irritated easily, then some cleansers and skin products might irritate it more. You also said no makeup but makeup probably wouldn't even work in this case. Since I'm not a skin expert what I can tell you is to ask your mom to see a dermatologist for it. They are experts on this kind of thing (obviously) they most likely will have something to help! Another advice I can say is don't keep switching skin cleansers or anything when you have acne because that will irritate your skin big time! It wasn't the best advice but I gave it a shot :) Hope I helped

Q: I'm 14/f/tn
Okay well recently my best friend pretty much dumped me as a friend.. it was really stupid. I didn't really do anything to her, she's the one who told my secrets to people, chose her bf over me, ect. Anyways so I really miss her.. But i dont know how to approach her to fix things. She's about a year younger than me and is acting like a total brat but is a really awesome person most of the time and i miss talking to her. Like i dont want to be bffs again, i just want to be friends. I know you'll probably say 'why would you want to be best friends with someone who tells your secrets and chooses her bf over you' but she's better than that, she just changed this year. So any advice on how to talk to her? (I already tried flat out calling to apologize.) Thanks.

*Nikki*
Well, if you want to be her friend you have to resolve things. You said you called to apologize to her - Why? You don't need to say you are sorry, you said you didn't do anything. If anyone should be saying sorry its her, because of getting mad at you for no reason. And you also said that she is acting like a total brat right now but yet she changed. I know you aren't looking for this but it doesn't seem like shes worth it.

Anyways, if you want to work things out with her you should find out why she's mad at you anyways. Maybe stick a note in her locker saying "Hey ___ i really want to work things out with you. i don't know what i did and i miss us being friends" or something like that. But you might need to give her some time, because she might not be ready to make up with you yet... but if she holds a grudge for a really long time she's really not worth the friendship.

Q: http://youtube.com/watch?v=nv6yCrBe0co


what's the song playing in the background??
CKY - 96 Quite Bitter Beings

I found that in the comments thing.

Q: to add insult to injury
from rags to riches
Those are cliche's and you probably shouldn't use them in an essay- your teacher is probably looking for original things and those are unoriginal.

Q: What are some songs that are about someone who doesn't care about you, but you just really wish they did? I need quite a few, thanks!
One song you could use is Unfaithful by Rihanna.

Q: When there's hair products that are sold in threes (shamppoo, conditioner, leave in) Is it ok to just buy the leave in and not the whole threes? I'd just buy the leave in since it'll leave in my hair like all day and im very poor but if it really works great in threes then..
Whether you buy it in the threes or alone it doesn't matter. :) So its perfectly fine if you just buy the leave in, especially if it saves you money. If you are low on shampoo and conditioner though too you might as well just buy that in the threes because that will most likely save you money. Hope I helped!!

Q: is it Jenkins' or Jenkins's
jenkins'

Q: i died my hair to day and my best friend thinks i look kinda of ugly what should i do??????
helppp
Your bff hates you because you died your hair? She doesn't sound like a good friend. You need to move on and find someone better.

Q: Ive been having a cramp like feeling for about a week now. My boobs hurt off and on, My lower back hurts all the time. and after i eat i get a sick feeling and im having lots of dieriah. Ive had a loss of appetite am i pregnant?
Hey, well, you could, did you have unprotected sex? You can buy a home pregnancy test kit to check it out. You should also go to the doctor to get a test after that to confirm the results.

Q: I did 1 thing in my past that I regret...lets just say im not really a virgin. But It wasn't my fault. And I wasn't raped, so. When my friends ask me "are you a virgin?"...I'm like stuck because I don't know what to say. If I tell them I am a virgin i would be lying, and if they find out i don't want them to get mad. But if I say I'm not they will think I'm some kind of slut and they will ask what happened, and I do not want to tell them....its personal.So?
We don't know what it is that you did so we can't really tell you if you are a virgin or not. You don't have to say you aren't a virgin. Just say you are so they don't think you are a slut...if they find out, tell them it was an honest mistake. Everyone makes mistakes, and from what you said, you regret it, and you made a mistake. Its no big deal. Hope I helped

Q: there's a few main websites i like for porn.
13/f
i think i might be addicted...
i watch it almost every night when i sneak my laptop into my room!!
is there a way to forget about porn if i'm addicted?
does it sound like i am?
i don't ditch school for it or anything
twice i had a dream i was asked to be in porn movies
problem here or am i normal?
i don't have accounts but..i'm scared i'm addicted!!
Yes, you definatly sound addicted if you need to sneak your laptop in your room just to see it.

If you don't want to be addicted, you need to set limits. Such as you can only look at them for about 15 minutes each day, or you can't look at them until the weekend for an hour, etc. And if you have trouble try blocking the websites. I'm not sure if you use internet explorer but here is how on that since thats the only browser I know how:

Tools---internet options
Click the privacy tab
and click on sites. Then you can type in the porn sites to block them.

Now I know it may be hard to make sure you DON'T unblock them, and sometimes you may just really need to. But if you are willing to work to break the addiction then over time, you eventually might not even care to look at it that much at all. Its not the best advice, so I hope I helped lol.

Q: can you get music codes off of limewire?

on xanga theres a ton of music codes sites, and i want to be able to get my own, because it's a pain to go from site to site to find a working code.

if you can get them off of limewire, can you let me know how? thanks.
You can't get them CODES off of limewire, but if you have a song on there you can upload the song onto a website that will host the type of file your song is. Then you can take the code for the song and put it on your page, and it should work. Hope I helped.

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my name is Jay and I'm only 13 years old but I've been through a lot. I might not give the best advice but I still try. I don't sugarcoat my answers but I'm not mean. you can drop a question in my inbox any time you'd like, and I'd be more than happy to answer because I love to give advice and I try my best to help people.

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