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Q: If ive only had mine for like 4,5 or 6 months and im 13 yrs old ..how many days should my period last.?
its different for every girl but it usually ranges from 4-7 days

Q: I listen to pop/rock and I was just wondering if snyone had any good artists for these genres. Anything would be helpful! Thanks!
blue october, fall out boy, cute is what we aim for, paramore, brand new, the killers, the spill canvas


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Q: I am virgin, and i Have not come on my period for nearly 2 months. The boy didnt ejacuate cum on his finger and he didnt have pre-cum.. people said it is normal to miss some months of menstruation as i only started my period in june.. CAn i get pregnant?
if the guy didnt have any cum on his fingers then you cant get pregnant.. and it is normal to miss some months when you first started your period so dont worry

Q: If you're wearin a condom and you cum and it goes into the woman is it possible to get pregnet?
yah if the cum goes into the girl then the girl can get pregnant

Q: when someone says i.e
its just another way to give an example

Q: ok this is for girls i guess.

what is the right way to shave the vaginal area? becuase some people have said shave in the way the hair goes...so like down i guess? but then the area isnt smooth. so then if you shave the other way you can get cut and really bad razor burn? is there any way to get it smooth with out any or little razor burn?

and is it ok to use nair for down there?
well what i do is shave it sideways caues i found out that it doesnt hurt as much as going up and if its still not smooth then try going up ..it wont hurt as much though because you shaved most of it off when you went sideways and the hair will be shorter

Q: If you try one cigarrete do you automatically get addicted to smoking?
im pretty sure you wont get addicted the first try but if you keep on smoking like every once in a while or so.. you will probably become addicted and smoke one everyday

Q: do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥
honestly, i kinda think its slutty and you wouldnt want stuff going around about you saying that you are a slut.. i made that mistake once and a lot of people take me as a slut and it goes on with you throughout your school years. so just think twice if you want to do it but if you do want to do it, its completely fine

Q: im not sure weather or not to shave below .. i know ill be doing something soon becuase im kidna getting close to this boy and everytime we see each other we make out but it never got any further. but i think hes going to be going down or something and i wanna be ready .. and i dont know if i should shave all of it off.. help please ... rating
i would say just shave it all off because most guys like it better when its shaved and it would be kinda wierd if you had hair down there and you guys were doing stuff like sex.. so i would just say shave it off

Q: 15.f

Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..

But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?

What do you think?
Also..
When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active

Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!
im pretty sure you wont be pregnant cause even if that small dot was from your boyfriend, it couldnt have gone into your vagina, you could only be pregnant if he cums inside of you and i dont think he did.. so dont worry, your probably not pregnant

Q: I'm just wondering if any of you have tried Vitamin Water and if it tastes really good? And if it's good for you or can harm you. Any info. you have on it will help. Thanks :)
ive tried vitamin water and personally, i think it tastes good and im pretty sure it wont do you any harm if its VITAMIN water

Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have never had sex with different partners before. do you guys think we have a high chance of gettting a sti? we have always used condoms but now we want to stop using them because i started taking birth control pills. we plan to be married in the future, but i am afraid of getting an sti or something like. he got tested and nothing was wrong or anything. but i was still wondering how high of a risk i have to get a sti?
if he got tested and he doesnt have any std's or sti's, then you cant get them from him

Q: the subject pretty much explains it all...
pluck it when you see unneeded hairs growing ..so basically whenever new hairs start growing

Q: I cant figure out how to delete my myspace!! Please let me know how..
1. log in to your myspace
2. click on account settings
3. under where it says "note:" there are three options, click on cancel account
4. then follow the instructions

they will send u an email and u confirm it so your myspace account has to have a real email

Q: hey
i was wondering where you can buy soffee shorts at? (for girls or women) because i go to the mall and almost everyone is wearing them with the top part of the shorts flipped back so you can see Soffee on the tags.. thanks !
i got mine at khols.. they have them there

Q: uhmm everyone always says like dry sex and i dont exactly know what it is and whats the difference between normal sex?
dry sex is like humping.. like with your clothes on and normal sex is when you have sex

Q: how do i know if he's with me 4 sex or not
hes in for sex if hes always asking to do sexual stuff with you most of the time when you both hang out

Q: I'm 16, female, 4 feet 5 inches, 157 Ibs...am I fat? Be honest...
to be honest.. yes.

Q: about how much are digital cameras? thanx in advance
all digital cameras range in price but i would say around $200-250 for the good cameras and about $150-200 for the not so good ones

Q: Everytime I wear my bra it annoys me sooo much because the straps always fall down and I have to keep pulling them up every 10 seconds litarlly! I have to wear a bra and I don't like strapless ones that much. How can i feel the strap to stay up ?
usually the straps have these things on it so you can make the straps longer or shorter.. so what you should do is adjust the straps so they are shorter

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