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For all poetry writers. Can u help me? i'm a writer but i cant seem to get a poem out (yeah aka writer block)...i was wondering if u could help me by writing a poem for me plz?

i wanna tell my friend, that he can sometimes be fun and crazy and how he isnt always on the sweet and caring side and sometimes can be a complete idiot at some points, without saying that..I also want to get to the point that i may like him as well. Can you help me whip up a poem plz?- THX

you can be really fun
making me laugh once the day is done
you can be crazy
and sometimes a little bit lazy
you are my friend
and that'll stay til the end
you aren't always sweet
but if there wasn't any, you'd offer me a seat
you aren't a;ways caring
but you could be pretty daring
sometimes you're an idiot yet i still hang out with you
and when we're bored you always know what to do
i may just have a crush on you which may sound weird
this is probably what we always feared
you're my friend
and whatever i need you'll be the one to lend
i think i like you
but i don't know what to do
yeah i hope you like this poem. it didn't really come from deep inside my heart so it's not as good.

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but for the redness and swelling..does using salt water in your mouth help?

yes, when you go to school take a water bottle and put a little salt everyday and drink it and it will help because that's what the doctor told me to do, did they pull out any teeth?

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help!! okay i dont know what to do, for about three weeks now my hair has been falling out in like little clumps and when i wash it or brush it so much hair falls out, i dont know what to do because about half my hair is already gone! its not really noticable that its been falling out though cause my hair was really think to begin with. i eat more than the required enough amount of protien so i was wondering what could be causing this?? could it be my medicene...amitriptyline? please help i will rate 5s for anyone who can help me!

are you eating enough? i know anorexic people lose hair. i lose clumps of my hair to and yes it is scary. i think it is just a part in growing up but just in case buy a certain shampoo or ask a doctor.

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i have braces and theres a sore spot on my gums but it hurts...my dentist says its bcuz of my braces and to keep brushing it hard so i can get it clean..but it hurts! what can i do to get the redness and swelling down?

-Cierra

i have braces and i had that exact same thing. take advil, that helped me and my pain went away in like 2 weeks though

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okay well, my best friend and i, we just got super close, and well yeah. He has a girlfriend, but before they hooked up I told him i liked him like 3 weeks ago, and things got odd, but then got better. Anyway. So everyday he sits with me when the lunch periods almost over, and we talk, and even though his friends sit at the table right next to us and theyre right there, he wont talk to them and he talks to me. So a couple days ago i went to his house with my friend and he just payed more attention to me. Like when we were playing basketball he passed the ball to me every time and never to her. Then today, he was sitting with me and we were looking at pictures, and we could have been far appart but he leaned in really close. And then my friend dom told him this sixth grader didnt like him anymore, and he's like, okay i dont care im not cheating on my girlfriend, i dont think, and he looked me directly in the eye and we made eye contact and he stared at me for a minute and then some one started talking to us. So then at this assembly thingy, 2 of the people he sits with said something about stabbing him, like joking around, so i told him, and he was like, what nicks not my friend. and so i told nick and hes like, shut up bitch, in a playing way, but i told him anyway, and he was like, Yo, WHAT DID YOU CALL HR? WHAT? and then later today he was like, i would have said something but our reading teacher was right behind us. and i we kept talking and anyway im just wondering if he thinks were more than just friends??


and i have another question. today he had a break down and he was like, i dont have any friends, the only people i have is my girlfriend and you and my other friend, and me and his other friend are REALLY worried that he's going to like kill himself, because when we told him to hold on he said he'd held long enough. What can i do to help him?

he considers you his best friend most likely if he pays that much attention to you. you need to talk to him personally either you could tell him how you feel or you could spend a fun day with him at the movies or something and if none of that works if he pays that much attention to you then he must like you. tell him privately "i know you have a girlfriend but ithought i should get it out that i really like you" he might feel better about himself after that.

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i want to dye my hair out of a box as opposed to getting it done professionally. is this a bad idea?

no this is not a bad idea. that's what i do everytime and it still turns out great just make sure you get good shampoo for hair color

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Hi. Tonight I am babysitting an 11 year old girl at my house. I was wondering some things I could do with her to keep her accupied. Any ideas would be helpful. Thanks.

i know a lot well you could play outside like a ball game or something. then talk to her about school and watch movies. i babysit a lot of 10 year olds. close enough. you could walk. play with a dog if you have one

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I really need some help i am so confussed. Okay well me and this guy started messing around and he ended up cheating on his girlfriend with me then they ended up breaking up. We've been hanging out for two months and we have done everything. And now he tells me that he just wants to keep it as friends and nothing more cuz he wants to hang out with other girls and keep his options open. But really he is like going places and hanging out with these girls that r ho's. But he still trys 2 talk 2 me and everything and i duno if i should talk 2 him and let it all go n 4get about it or shut him outta my life completly. But what he is going to et from these others girls is nothing that he couldn't get from me so i mean whats up with him? He say's he single and he has his whole life, but i kno he still got feelings for me what should i do?

all i can say is you could still be his friend but do not hug up on him, kiss him, or whatever else you guys do. treat him like a brother or a best friend just don't treat him like you like him because pretty soon he'll think of you as "one of his hoes"

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okay.. me and this boy.. used to be good friends.. my mo and his mom are best friends... the thing is i sthat we both uses to have a thing for each other.. and we used to play spin the bottle.... and then i d him b/c our sisters were teasing us... we even went to the beach together for spring break... but now i have deciede that i lik ehim again.. i dont know what to do.. because of our families.. relationship... like if i ask him out.. and he says no.. then we will still see each other.. what should i do? he has never had a friend.. i wil rate high

well my advice is to first try and talk to him in private. then ask him some simple questions like "is bobby still bullying you" or something then when the conversation starts to get a little more comfortable ask him if he likes you. ask him so it throws him off track. if he says yes then ask him on a date or something if he says no then just act like you don't like him. whatever you do do not tell him you like him first.

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