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my parents are being soo mean to me and i cant stop crying.! i havent gone anywhere on a friday since june 7 and they say i always ask for everything.. its not true and i cant stop crying..please sont say talk to them! i dont know what to do.. they wont let me go to my best friends surprise party and he is moving in 1 week help me please (link)
heyy .. uhh if you cant talk to them there is really nothing else to do that is the only way of comunitcating and telling them how you feel maybe you should try family concelling or even like a plan like you can go out on a friday everyother friday or there always sneaking out but i dont recomend that im just letting you know your options cause sneaking out could probably get you into trouble and then you def. coudlnt go anywhere

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what does it mean when you get 3 D's on your report card?? .... did i pass??? please help and i need a serious answer!! i rate high!!!!! please! (link)
heyy .. uhh it really depends on your school and more importantly your other grades are they a`s are they b`s i mean if you have all a`s besides the 3 d`s you got then you probably did pass and chances are if you didnt pass they would have told you

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OK, i am 14, and just going into highschool.I am going to an all girls school. I have never been boycrazy, i havent even gone out with a boy or anything. I do have a lot of friends who are guys. I really want a boyfriend, but going to an all girls highschool will make it harder. I am also an EXTREME tomboy, and i'm not really fat, just bulky and muscular. How do i get guys to like me? And what can i do to get a bf when im going to an all girls school? help me, i rate high!! (link)
heyy .. it doesnt matter what school you go to you can still get a boyfriend you just gotta kinda be at the right place at the right time have your guy friend or girl friend introduce you to some cool guys and maybe you`ll learn that one of them is boyfriend material once you get to know him and since your a tomboy i think you would go best with a skater boy

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i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
heyy .. okay DO NOT kill yourself or hurt yourself 1st it solves nothing a perfect example is this quote i found for youur problem : -->>

&& as the blood ran from her veins
she realized he wasn’t worth the
. xX p a i n Xx .

okay just think about it after he called you all those hurtful things you really want him back? tehre are better people out tehre for ou and your dont deserve him or his shit he is putting you through read this quote -->>


" yeah,there will be people in your lives that will play games with your head, they will say one thing & then do something completely different that makes you change your mind on everything you ever thought of them. Sometimes you feel so alone even when your surrounded by people, deep inside you feel hurt but can't describe the pain.. the ones who really do care about you will show it. Don't assume they care, if they do things to show it then they proved they do. Don't tollerate things people do or say to you that you know you don't deserve. Lifes too short to put up with peoples bullshit basically"

that is so truew for you and everyone so just basically dont put up with him and just find a better man then him have a guy friend indrouce you to some new boys

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Okay I'm like really bored and passing the time by looking at pics but I need some other site to go to. Can someone please give me some websites?

I'll rate five if you give me at least three good sites! (link)
heyy .. go to www.wittyprofiles.com and look at some quotes thats always sorta fun and uhh go on a clothing store website like www.kohls.com or whatever store you like also try going on www.myspace.com and look for some peoples myspaces that you know

i hoped i help

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Okay I sweat really bad under my arms.ALL the time. And I've tried every deoderant there is! Nothing helps.And it doesn't smell it's just sweat. Help? (link)
heyy .. try certain dry its the best thing there is out there and umm what i do is buy a good smelling body splash at bath and body works and i have sweet pea byy the way and just spray it with the certain dry and it works wonders trust me i do it

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good luck
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Ok, i'm going to a soccer camp, and it allows u an hour ansd a half for free time. since were not allowed to bring electronicts, i'm going to be so bored. I'm new on the soccer team that's hosting the camp, so what should i bring or do that can include some of the girls at the camp?
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heyy .. umm uno is always fun you could bring some magazines like cosmogirl or j14

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At the moment, I am studying for my math exam. my teacher was nice enough to give us a study guide to fill out. I have a few things that I dont understand:
What is 39% of 500?
What percent of 64 is 3.2?
60% of 85 is what number?
What percent of 85 is 1.7?
What number is 150% of 26?
What i 40% of 400?

Not only do I not understand them, I dont know how to do them! So could someone PLEASE EXPLAIN ot me how to do them? (link)
heyy .. im not sure how to do those myself and most people wont on here unless they have the same carriculum as you do but you could try asking your parents or guardian for some help or you could tell your teacher your not understanding a few questions to well and you need some help or you could search on the internet for some help like you know homework help and there is a calculater on computers that you can use to solve them

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i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference? (link)
heyy .. umm you should ask your parents for permisson to invite him over to meet him and see how nice he is thats the 1st thing you have to do and then maybe ask your parents if you could all go out to like dinner and then a movie have them sit a bit away from you too and have them watch your actions so they can see that he is nice and then maybe they will understand your point of view then but dont nag them

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umm i'm kinda bleedin' downstairs right? and i thought it wazz my period but its now the 8th day or 9th day i 4get buti'm really scared and i just lost my virginity a couple days ago so idk could i be pregnaunt??

smooches xoxo (link)
heyy .. no your not pregnant but im not sure what else it could be you should consult with your gyno and ask whats going on

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Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do? (link)
heyy .. my dad was abusing my mom a long time back but she consulted with the police and they arrested him for one night but then he got out but no matter what if you call the police saying someone hit you they have to go to jail even if they have no proff for one night and next time he hits you just take a picture with a camera or a camera phone and then show them the proff if you decide to call the police and if he abuses you even more after he gets out call again and then they will realize he is bad and hopefully get dss on him and come check it out

hope i helped
try to stay safe
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What exactly does it mean when a guy gives a girl his jacket? Does it have any significance because you see it alot in movies & stuff. Is it "guy code" for anything? (link)
heyy .. he is just showing a girl that he cares about her its just a kinda flirty thing

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hymen??? I have no idea what it is. people say u can break it horseback riding or riding a bike??? what's it mean if u break it? (link)
heyy .. its this layer on your vagina and it breaks when you have sesual intercourse but when you are riding it horse it might bleed a little but nothing serious so if you broke it on a horse dont worry about it consider yourself a virgin but it you broke it during sexual intercourse then your not a virgin

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If I am renewing my drivers permit in another state (I moved to Arizona and its expired now), do I just go to the DMV and renew it (meaning they'd just take a new picture of me, etc) or do I have to take the drivers permit test all over again? Ive already checked their website, and I cant find any information. (link)
heyy .. no you dotn have to re-take the test because my cousin who is 22 used to like in new hampshire and then she moved to florida and she didnt need to re-take the test

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ok so my bestfriend (whos a guy) who lives 2 doors down and me have been best friends forever..well we always mess around and like wrestle and play fight. ive knwon him since i was 5. well anyways im talking to him on aol right now and hes like "last time you were at my house i almost when down to kiss you but i didnt know if you would like it so i didnt" wtf. i do not like him like that @ all. hes really cute and alot of girls like him..but i cant hlep it...i just dont see him that way..
help..i feel way weird now.. (link)
heyy .. sounds like me and my best guy friend eric he did the same thing and i just told him that i like him only as a friend and he dealed fine and said ill just wait until you might be interested and we are still the best of friends

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I've always had long nails but they've always been shaped roundly but now I changed my mind and want them to be more square.
Loads of people have told me that if you want your nails square it's better to have acrylic nails then your real nails.
Is that true? (link)
heyy .. just grow them out long and then file them down in a square shape or get acyrlic nails

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SORRY I MISS READ THE QUESTION SO MY ANSWER IS KEEP YOUR OWN NAILS THEY ARE BETTER AND ACYRLIC NAILS ARE HARDER TO DO EVERYDAY THINGS WITH AND THEY RIP OFF YOUR ACTUAL NAIL SOMETIMES THAT HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND SORRY I MISREAD IT AND I HOPE I HELPED THIS TIME AND THAT YOU WILL CAHNGE MY RATING


Does anyone know of any NATURAL teeth whitners?
I've heard strawberrts help. Anything else? (link)
heyy .. uhh try whitening toothpaste and chewing gum and if you want anything else just search on google

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I've seen a few people buy these hand mask things, basically like face masks but to moisturize your hands and stuff.
Is there a homemade hand mask I could make? Someone gave me the recipe for one but I lost it =| (link)
heyy .. i never heard of it but im sure if you search on google something will come up

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Can anyone give me the recipe for a homemade face mask?
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heyy .. uhh search under google for that kind of stuff

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for stores like aero, abercrombie, hollister, etc, when your on the websites, where do you click to get to swimwear? I can't find it anyhwere! (link)
heyy .. aero and abercrombie i dont know but for hollister swim suits would be under bettys

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