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Is suicide the only way out? Please, no one word answers. (link)
of course not. yeah suicide seems like the best way to avoid problems, but the victorious feeling once you got over that problem is much more worth it. plus there's nothing that can compare to life's little gifts. sit by a park and hear little children's laughter while they play, the soft breeze, the beautiful sunlight... if you commit suicide, all of these will be gone. dont worry about your problem. you'll find a way to get over it :)


Hi.. I have asked a few questions before. I am a teen and pregnant, I have almost no friends now. Nobody really talks to me, I have a best friend and She did not try to help at all after I told her I was pregant, but she had been way out of it for a bit but I don't know what is up with her. Then I had a boyfriend. The baby is not his but he said he would be there and then got really obssesive and controling so I told him let's just chill for a bit.

he got together with my friend after that.

How am I supposed to stay friends with them and talk to them and help her if she is pregnant?

They mean the world to me but they really broke my heart... but I don't know if I can give them up. They are the only two people who really talk to me still. Do I drop my social life because they did something I find unforgivable, or keep them around becuase they have been good to me in the past? Even if they hurt me now?

Seeing as she is my best friend I know that I should help her with the baby because I am already pregnant I know everything she would need, but it would be my boyfriend well ex now's baby. How do I manage that? (link)
i would say screw your best friend and your ex for hurting you like that. but as a cool person that you sound like, you should help her as much as she needs. she will definitely remember you after this and would never think of hurting you like that ever again.
btw, you should expand your horizons and widen your social circle. dont get stuck and dependent on a friend you cannot count on. stay positive in finding new friends. good friends are those who dont judge you by your past, so those 'friends' who ditched you in the past are clearly not friends at all. good for you for being rid of them! be happy and do what you think is right and nice :)


I love him sooooooooooooo much! I dont want to! I want to forget he exists. I know if there was a way I could see him more we could be together because the times I spend with him are INCREDIBLE! The thing is I never get to see or talk to him barely ever! I love a guy I know I could never be with and it hurts not only mentally but physically! I sit at home and do nothing but sleep, eat, watch tv., and sit on the computer! I turn down all offers to hang out with anyone but him. I feel like if I cant have him I will eventually die. I used to dream about him now I have nightmares. I used to smile when I thought about him now I cry. Its so hard wanting something so bad when you know you will never have it. Is there anything I can do? (link)
i know it's lame but seriously, the only thing that is eternal is energy. *dang my physics class*
the real point is, even people who have been in love for 40 years can get over each other after time. it's hard to believe when your love for the guy is overwhelming (i know the feeling), but just be positive that you'll get over it somehow.
1) if you're positive there's absolutely no way you can get him (aka he's brad pitt), just believe that you'll overcome that feeling one day. trust me, you'll forget about him soon enough.
2) if you think there's even a slight chance of you getting him, GO FOR IT! if it goes well, good for you. if not, try step 1).
but you'll be fine. trust me. good luck! :)




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