about

I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.



Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.

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can u do me a hugeeeeeeeee favor will you go to hco online and pick me out a cute outfit like skirt and nice shirt i no you got good taste so fill'r'up

I love this skirt:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_383042_-1_12595_12552 with leggings.
& this http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_387192_-1_12628_12552

or http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_379528_-1_12597_12552

hope I helped !
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which website is better and safter myspace or facebook i've heard both but i no u prob have both advice woudl be lovelly !

Heres my sides to both of them-

facebook- goods
- easier to find people
- easier to write on walls
- more people your age will have them.
- picnik is involed with them.
- groups are easier. faster.

facebook- bads
- can't hide friends/comments
- can't have song.
- wayy to many applications.
- can't have a layout.

myspace goods-
- can hide friends comments pictures blogs
- layouts are fun and noticeble.
- less people have them in your age

myspace bads-
- stalkers from what I hear.
- groups are bad.
- goes really slow


I think facebook is better for highschool/college, but why not get both? Delete facebook after college, keep myspace. Many older people have them. :] I personally like facebook better since more people I know have them, but Myspace was my first website so I like that one, to. [ ♥ ]
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i rele wish i was like you
everything about u is perfect
your life ur social life . you , urself
your an amazing girl
- annoymus.

Okay thanks for that but this is for advice. But really my life wasn't amazing, I turned things around. I have good friends and I made the right ones who I know and trust and If they backstab, I just walk away I don't start anything with them I leave them. I'm not anywhere near perfect if you knew me. I'm not that prettyy or skinny, I'm loud and annoying & I'm not in with the cool kids most of the time because I don't enjoy getting drunk/high every weekend. But , think whatever. You probably are to if you would tell me who you are.. [ ♥ ]

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my mom has lung cancer shes smoked for over 20 years im not telling ne of my friends becuz my mom doesnt want me 2 my best friend smokes a lot and how can i tell her i want her to stop without making a fool of myself and embarrsing myself im scared for my mom and now my best friend.. plz help !!

First off, sorry about your mom. Just pray if you believe in God. I can't help you with your mom but I can help you with your best friend. Why don't you ask your best friend if you could tell her something private and not tell anyone then tell her about your mom. Or even just tell your best friend that you know someone who could be dying just because of smoking. Telling somehow you feel about smoking ISN'T embarrsing, you're proving a point, I myself think that they are complety disgusting. Talk to your friend and let her know that smoking isn't helping her with strees or depression or whatever she feels. If she can't stop, talk to her mom I'm sure her mom doesn't know or even tell her you don't want to hang around that stuff so you don't get problems with your lungs in the future. Stay strong with your mom I'll pray for her! Best of luck [ ♥ ]

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you got ne good pic editing websitesss ? u r a veryyy pretty girl !

Picnik.com
FotoFlexer.com
Blibs.com
dafont.com - good fonts for pictures.
pixer.us

those are ones you don't have to download.

your camera probably comes with one on your computer.


then you can also use google, to download anything like a 15/30 day trial. [ ♥ ]

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i have to get braces march 25th i get spacers the 4th of march im scared shitless of spacers what can calm me down

I'm getting spacers by March also :] I'm scared to but their isn't much things you can do to not be scared, people will tell you they hurt but I mean just think of the great teeth you will have next by next year. :] Also, ask your school nurse to bring in tylonl or advil or motron, I heard that helps also. Best of luck! [ ♥ ]

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how do i convice my mom that im old enough to travel on a plane with my cousin w/o an adult, my cousin is going to italy and its my dream how can i convice my mom or have my aunt convice her

First off, I'm complety jealous of you. Go to lunch with your cousin aunt and mom, each of you talk with her and tell her the rules and ideas for this trip. Let your mom know nothing bad will happen , and whats wrong with bringing an adult? Why not ask your aunt and mom to both go? They'd probably really enjoy it. Have your aunt talk to her with just them to if you don't want them to go. But I do hope your going to meet realtives their because 12-18 years old who don't know how to speak italian, might come along a few big problems. Hope I helped.
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i love him
he loves her
how do i movee on

... Don't be to specific now? Their isn't anything you can do if he is going out with another girl or even if he likes another girl. If you're in highschool their is about 500 kids per grade level, It's really easy to find someone else you think is cute. But why do you have to have a boyfriend right now you're either in middle school or highschool, you still have college then you think about getting married. Quit rushing childhood. [ ♥ ]

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how do i hide my friends and comments on myspace



Add Crash codes, they have almost every code you will need. :] [ ♥ ]

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my bff this year [8th grade] turned into one of the hot popular girls we had our own click and now she leftus she even made fun me w/ them one day caling me a loser and other things how do i talk 2 her private and ask her wtf her problem is ??

8th grade/highschool will do that to your friends, people come and people go. You let people out so new ones can come in. Don't hate her with a strong passion, just stick to your other friends and stay the same. No one likes people who change over a year just to become "cool." If she makes fun of you, your best choice would be to just walk away and ask her when shes by herself what is the mater with her. Ask her to just go up to a local park , or mall and ask her why she is doing this to you and why can't she make time for two kinds of clicks. As soon as you see her/ meet her don't start to chew her out, be clam, it will get you farther. [ ♥ ]

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mi mom and dad alwayz fite but when i ask if theyre gona get a deviorce they tell me no i dont believe them how can i get the honest answer ? i was reading your other post and your one of the best advice ppl ive seen your rele good !! loveeee gaby

Just believe them, if your old enough to ask and know about them fighting I'm sure they are willing to tell you the truth. Ask your mom just when it is you two; and let them know you don't want them to get a divorce. Ask your dad the same thing you ask your mom. Thanks, I try. :]
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I take parenting as a junior in h.s & i took thatbaby home t his weekend and IT WONT STOP CRYING ne ideas to make it slow down ?

.. All babies cry their isn't really anything you can do. Don't get frustrated with the baby or you won't do so good in that class. If you get mad ask to your mom/grandma or even dad to help you out for a minute. [ ♥ ]

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ne ideas on how to get more active an lose weight i need tro lose about 15 pds.

Walk a mile everyday
get off the computer and phone go kick a ball
don't eat in between snacks
cut out soda; drink water.
if you have to have a snack; apples are good before bed. :]
join a workout place with a few girlfriends.
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i found my moms vibe . and i wanna use it i no she doesnt have std or anything but i want one but i cant see to find one ne where i live in missouri but i rele want oneee.. help !?.

This is a pretty nasty question. No don't use your moms it doesn't matter if she has stds or not, think of that it's been on your mom, go buy your own. and if you live in MO then south county mall, spencers I know for sure has them. [ ♥ ]

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DUDE HELP MEE OUTT HERE. MY BEST FRIEND iS TURNiNG SO WEiRD SHE WON'T DRiNK SODA AND SHE WONT EAT AROUND ME NE MORE THEN SHE CALLS HERSELF FAT AND SHE WEiGHTS LIKE 20 POUNDS LESS THEN ME iT PiSSES ME OFF! HOW DO i GiVE HER A HiNT

Haha, your post is really funny. I have the same thing going on with one of my friends. Just let her go, maybe she thinks she is fat. Diet soda doesn't put pounds on you either. I'm sure she e ats just maybe not around you. Go up to her and ask her why won't you eat and drink around me it annoys me. She should get the point if you don't act as close to her to. If it bothers you, you start to excerise & eat healthy with her. [ ♥ ]

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u got a nyceee azz

.. Thanks ?
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my grades r horrible im a sophmore at skool but i do all my homework i might not always try but i do it but im always talking and texting wut do i do to fix them before report cards and how do i study 4 test btr

You answered your problem yourself. Do your work in class before you start to talk and stop texting. Texting makes you confused in class and half the time you just get caught. Have your mom turn texting off, wether you like it or not. It will help you in the long run. Make a deal with her you have to get above all c's and then you get texting back.

& for the test part-
don't cram it in all at onenight. start a week before an study for about 30 minutes a night. Stay after with a teacher for help. Stay for turtoring, make a study group of friends. [ ♥ ]

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i need a job by summer im 15 i need ideas

- Fast food place.
- Day care.
- Mowing lawns
- Lifeguard [CPR classes though.]
- Nursing home.
- Babysitting.
- Grocery Store.
- Summer camp jobs.
- Store in the mall.
- hospital.
- at a zoo.


but also remember during school don't get to caught in your job, school is more important. [ ♥ ]

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I always babysit my neighbors. they have 3 kids and theyre really fun and stuff but i dont get paied a lot. but then again last summer i went to mexico w/ them and had tons of fun and didnt have to pay for a thing besides my own suvionrs. should i ask them y they dont pay me or something or do u thin kthey will take me somewhere with them again they always take family trips over the summer

Why would you ask someone why they don't pay you a lot? I think thee answer to that would be the trip to Mexico. Or maybe they think they pay you enough. You can ask but you're probably going to lose your job. Just wait and see if you go somewhere this summer, I bet you do. [ ♥ ]

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my boyfriend has a drinking problem every weekend he thinks its rele cool to go out and get drunk with his buddies he never spends time with me anymore and this past weekend he called me drunk saying he wants 2 have fun w/ me should i just levae him weve onlyl been going out for a month , not even a month.

I find nothing cute or atractive about drunk men. It isn't cool, once in a while is fine okay but not when you're growing up. He's probably just looking to impress someone of the guys he hangs with. I bet one of two of them is older then him so hes trying to look cool. Don't leave him yet just talk to him about it, if he keeps it up, leave him because it isn't worth your time to put up with that. [ ♥ ]

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