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whats consider cheeting? i just wanna know thanks.. im a 15 year old girl!! (link)
Cheating like in a relationship is when lets say your boy or girl friend flirts, kisses, or goes out with another person besides you. Pretty much the same as two timming like when your going out with someone and there not only going out with u but someone else. Hope I helped(:


Resetting as in it would delete all of your current documents and programs. Basically the computer would be like when you 1st bought it. (link)
yes, mine messed up once it dont have to be though. All you have to do is take it to the company like if you have hp take it to them and tell them u want everything errased and nothing will be there its like it's brand new(: Hope I helped!!


so this summer I'm turning 17, and every year I've had a party. I can't spend much money so I'm hoping to keep the party at my house -- I have a trampoline and a pool, but I'm starting to think that parties like this during the day are getting too.. old.

Any suggestions? (link)
I think u should have it at night thats always fin like play music in your house and so people can hang out in there and then have ur pool and trampoline. It always makes it more fun at night(:


so i just met this boy and i am really infatuated with him.

we hav been texting nonstop for a couple of days and today he didnt text me ONCE

im so upset.
clearly if he liked me he would of texted me or something

y am i not on his mind??

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Hey, well first off don't take it so seriously lol i know its hard not to but he is probaly just busy trust me you probaly are on his mind like I said he could be busy or anything(: Hope this helps don't feel bad I'm sure its nothing its just one day.
(: :)


Hello (:
okkayy so i have a girl kitten and her eyes sparkle and glow they're so pretty! what can i name her? (link)
Trixie and Roxy or Bella are really cute names for kittens in my opinion(:


well they is a guy that i like and he is always giving me hug when he hugs me it doesn't feel like they mean anything what should i do and is they anything to help me please (link)
If any guy does that to u trust me he likes you!(: If he is flirty guy anyway it may be as a friend but likely he likes you as a gf he is trying to flirt no matter what kind of guy he is! so is he a flirty guy or regular I know its either as a really good friend or probally more! hope I helped(: I've used this from my expierences its worked out both! ways it would help if you could tell me his personality, anyway I hope I helped if you have any questions feel fre to ask(:


My earing is stuck in my ear. I can twist the earing and its fine, but my problem is the back won't come off!!!! I can twist the back but i can't push it forward or pull it backwards.

The earing as been in my ear for a while but I have never had this problem with other earings. Yea i should know better but i'm busy with work at the moment so some times i forget to change my earings.

What should i do? I tried babies oil but the back still won't budge. Should I keep twisting the back to see if it'll come off on its own? Or should I try some other liqud product? HELP!!!!!!!!! (link)
This may sound gross but it is probally gunk caked on their or it could be rust one of my earings did that ince and I couldn't get it out either, try running hot water on it in the shower/bath and then twist it and I think that will help abd if it don't come off with just the water try putting soap around it too, to make it more slippery and I think it will come out!(: Hope I helped!


My kitty is ridiculously obese. Not even exaggerating, he looks like one of those photoshopped fat cats. I think he's like 27 lbs or something. Is he at risk for disease? My mum works at an animal hospital so.
Thank you (link)
Yes if your kitty is that big yes that is really biig!! you should try making it go on a diet you can really do that for pets your should look it up about dieting for your pet, so it can be healthy(: hope I helped!


what are the pros and cons of a belly button piercing? (link)
The cons would be it gets infected easily and hurts bad for a looong time trust me! and then the pros they are cute and if you really like it you should get one!(: hope I helped(:


What would you say are some classic books that no-one should go without reading? I recently bought The Count of Monte Cristo, any other suggestions?
thanks :) (link)
Hey There(: these aren't classic books but they are the best books I have ever read I fell in love with them. My suggestion is The book Found by Margeret Peterson Haddix. The books go in order from Found, Sent, and Sabotaged. Which of course are three books in that serious. You should look them up. I think you would love them they are great!! hope this helped(: -Sara


I have brown hair (to the darker side), green eyes, and I'm very light-skinned. What color would look best on me for prom? (link)
I think that it should be your fav. color but light. But actualy with brown hair blue looks great! and with green. So I would choose a baby blue or like an aqua color would look great(: I hope this helps!!
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i am getting my cartdilage peirced, and i want to know if i should get my tragus done too? Im aasking because i really dont want an infenction. and i heard it alot of times gets infected. and im not afraid of getting it done, not at all. but i dont want to get an infection. I heard it is normal for the pericing to get sore after a few days after getting it done. But the thing is it would be a pain if i got an infection. I heard for the peircing to full heal it takes anywhere from 7-12 monthes for it to heal. and i have spring soccer in abut 3 monthes, and we always have to take out our peircings even if they are studs. (hopefully they will make an exception :) lol) but i really, really want it done. But is it worth it? and how do i clean it? can i touch it? HOW DO I KEEP IT STERILE (IF I WANT TO GET IT DONE) SO I DO NOT RISK AN INFECTION? and should i get a stud or hoop? thankkkkkk you xoxo (link)
When my mom got her Cartdilage pierced it hurt her like crap, which its good you don't mind but she has had hers done for 2 years and everyday it hurt her and it stayed infected, she couldn't sleep on that side for the two years she had it because it hurt so bad! So she finaly had to take it out and let it grow in. Hope this helps(:!


How bad would it hurt for me to get a tatoo of a butterfly on my arm or hand?
On a scale from 1-10, how bad would it hurt?
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It depends,everyone that I know says that it feels like when you get your ears pierced 1,000 times with the stud/needle still in the whole time! but it varrys for different ppl! hope this helps(:


Okay, well I found out today by my teacher that we have new Zodiac signs, and my boyfriend is upset because his birthday is July, 30th which he was a Leo, and he doesn't want to be a Cancer like me.(July, 22) haha So, is all this true? I believe in the zodiac completly, but I've dated a cancer and he cheated on me and he wasn't a good boyfriend. :/ Well, and leo's and cancers are a perfect match because I study this stuff..so will anything change because I don't want my boyfriend to change. Will these new signs change there personality? (link)
Oh yeah I actually heard about that this morning they said that it would be fine to keep your old zodiac sign and that it would still be accurate!! hope this helps(:


Soo I'm really interested in this guy but I've never actually had a conversation with him. He's everything I'm looking for in a guy, and I'm extremely picky. I really want an excuse to talk to him but I feel like if I just messaged him on facebook it'd be kinda weird. One of my good friends is friends with him but I'm kinda scared to just ask her to set me up. I don't want to sound desperate and I don't want her to think I'm using her. I know where he works cause I see him there all the time but it'd be weird to go to his work and like randomly start a conversation..idk...and I guess it doesn't help that I'm really shy haha. Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks. (link)
The easiest thing is to judt text him, all teens text right :P thats what I would do and that isn't akward or wierd! :) I do that all the time thats what you gotta do get out there yourself it would be wierd for your friend to do it he would think something is going on and may get wierded out so like I said I would text him :D hope this helps!


Okay, here's the dealio. I'm in tenth grade and the guy I like is in eleventh. We've known each other since I was in sixth grade because we're on the same bus. We only ever talk on the bus, but I really like him.
Nearly a month and a half ago now he told me that he likes me and I told him that I like him, too. But now he hasn't done anything. He still talks to me, but he acts like it nevet happened. Sometimes he says something that makes me think he's about to ask me out, but he never does.
If he really liked me, wouldn't he have asked me out by now? Was he just saying that, or maybe he meant that he liked me as a person, but not like THAT, even though he was shy to tell me and made me guess?
Or maybe he changed his mind?
What do I do?

I'm 15/female, going on sixteen and he's seventeen.

Also, does it mean anything if sometimes he acts like he's so much older and wiser, or his he just kidding? (link)
Hey there, I just wanted to let you know I am in the same possition as you, and as you know it is really tough I agree, it was actually me that told the guy I liked him first so I did and he said he liked me too. Now he acts like it never happened and he never talks to me anymore:( it is really sad! I know and well I answered or wrote back to your question because I am in the same position as you and I may not have the best advice for you sinse I am in the same position. I wish you the best of luck and I guess and I thought maybe he canged his mind too. Well like my guy said he doesn't want a girlfriend right now. Maybe your guy don't either and he is just scared to tell you. Well I hope this helps good luck:) if it don't help I hope it was a little encouraging sinse we both have the same situation! :D :P :)


So there is this cute boy that I am attracted to. We don't talk because we don't really have a reason to. However, one day I was around him in the class he was in and he kept glancing at me and days after, he would constantly steal glances at me, in passing in the hall or when I'm with other my group and he's with his I will notice him quick look over at me. Sometimes they are even long stares, to the point that one time he almost stumbled over the person walking in front of him because he was to busy looking at me. Now, today, my friend (she's in his class with his best friend) and I was talking to her outside of their class as he and his friend were sitting there waiting for the bell. She later texts me and said that the boy's friend had said "poor (my name)" and they started cracking up laughing. I don't know why they said that and she didn't hear any more of their conversation. But that just proves to me that maybe this cute boy isn't attracted to me. I don't know what to do. I am 16 band female, he is 17 and male as is his friend.

Do you think he is and if he is, why do you think his friend said that?

Thanks! (link)
I really believe he likes you:P one because that happened to me! The guy I like used to stare at me every, well lets say less then a minute. I would look at him outta the corner of my eyes and look up when he looked at me and we would smile at each other. Then everyone at my table would say he liked you!. So then I started falling for him, so I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too.!!! So from my experiences ya! he likes you. Also one more thing is happening to me too, is this really wierd boy woun't stop staring at me every class and ohh gosh he gets on my nerves and I asked one of his nerd friends if he liked me and he said oh ya allott. Now about you saying what your friend heard, well I saw in a movie and it was really realistic cute movie called Flipped, and the boy stared a lot at the girl and he liked her, but his friend thought she was wierd, so he talked wierd about her and she over heard it. So don't let that make you think he don't because if he likes you it don't mean his friend does too, so they could say anything and sometimes the boy could agree just to avoid pressure on himself infront of his friend. So like I say I think he likes you!(: good luck! hope I helped! :D


Hey all!
Im sixteen..i have a huge dream of making it big in acting! Ive been serious about this for 6 years,its all i want to do. I literally cant imagine myself doing anything else. Demi.L..SelenaG..Mileycyrus.. Are my idols! I always watch disney channel imagining myself there! its my only dream.But Most people,,even my family! Say that im too old! Am i ? is sixteen really that old to do acting? Like this sounds sad! But its true, i cant even watch tv/disney channel without crying. i just literally watching sonny with a chance, or hannah montana or wizards, and i just begin crying because III wanna be in that position. It depresses me.
thankyou. (link)
No way I is defintly not!!! Don't let them keep you from your dreams(: You know sweet life on deck when debby ryan came on she was around sixteen when she started out! Demi Lavato her too when she started out (not counting her barnie days with selena gomez) but both of them trust me your never to old! Go after your dream! - Hope this helps

ps. You can look for acting adds a lot on the news and tv! :P


ok, so i have this guy friend and i guess you could say that we're good friends, but i really like him and i want to know if he likes me in the same way but i dont know how to ask him without actually asking him. none of my other guy or girl friends are good friends with him so i dont want to get them to find out for me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

if it helps at all i am 15 yrs old, almost 16 (link)
I had the samw problem as you!! what I did was flat out say it because I drove myself crazy so I finaly did it and he said he liked me too(: I think you should do that he is your good friend he woun't get mad!! - Hope this helps(: Good luck!


well i havent seen him because there has been alot of trouble between our parents. i live with my mom & he lives with his dad. his mom & my dad are married but lately they have been fighting & are separated at the moment. its not like i would see him all the time but its never gone as long a a year. its just aggravating me that i cant see him at all... & on top of that he's graduating in june & he'll be leaving for college then i might never see him again.. ugh. Idk i just want to see him one last time... (link)
You seem like a really nice person(: so I really want to help you does he have a facebook or myspace? If so contact him on that and maybe arrange to meet him somewere even if your kind of far away! Also has he shown any signs of actually liking you or anything? - let me know when you read this so I can continue helping you(: Heyy this is me again I read what you put in feedback and I didn't know how else to contact you other than this. So now what you said about facebook, he is your step brother he is going to feel like your a stalker I am friends with my step cousins and all my family that has one so go ahead ask him to be your friend(: Also I know right noone uses myspace lol what is your name maybe I can look you up on fb!! I think you really should try to arrange to see him. Trust me he isn't going to think your a stalker! and exactly how far apart do you live from each other maybe you could invite him top maybe go on a walk with you thats normal!!(: and then maybe you could let him know how you feel!!! -Keep me informed(: Please I hope I can help getting you two together! (:




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