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Can someone explain all of the denominations of Wicca, and whats the difference between wiccan and pagan?
Right now I'm just doing my research but I've considered becoming a wiccan or pagan but I'm skeptical about the magic part because I don't believe in that. I was raised in a non-religious/christian home (celebrate christmas/easter but was never forced or asked to go to church unless i wanted to which I have with friends and for Christmas Eve mass and that sort of thing).
Also I don't know if I'd want to become a pagan or wiccan because (at least where I live) its associated with some really really weird people. And I'd consider myself a preppy person (Abercrombie, American Eagle, typical prep). If you lined all of my friends up in a row I would not be the one that you would guess to be the wiccan. I know that shouldn't matter but all the sites I found are really gothic looking.
Anyway, any advice or information would be appreciated. Like I said, I'm still just doing research. (link)
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ok All pagans are wiccan, but not all wiccans are pagans.
wiccan is like witchcraft, and pagans worship nature.
they dont all use magic, but they believe in the forces of nature and believe in multiple gods that are presented by nature.
they dont have to be gothic, it all depends on the person and what they believe. a lot of people do like gothic colors. lol.
I was raised catholic. im only 15, but i have researched paganism and wiccam and i plan to get into that when i am older. i would suggest keep researching, go to the library or keep researching on the internet.
i hope i have helped, and good luck.
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what is a hj?
and what does prude mean? (link)
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hj is a hand job. (you know, rubbin a dudes penis.)
And all i know is that prude is an adjective... but i cant think of what it means.
hope i helped!
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14/f 9th grade
Ok so we are doing this research paper on shakespeares life kinda thing and I have to make a visual aid of some sort. I was thinking maybe making a cake. But I don't exactly know how to do that. Like what to make the cake look like. If you have any ideas it will be greatly appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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if you have researched shakespeare, you should know that he owned a theatre, called globe theatre, and you could represent that on the cake.
i cant think of anything else, but i hope that i have helped!
good luck!
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14/F
I'm five feet tall and weigh about 117 lbs. It's not that bad, considering I have muscle on me, but I also have partially larger thighs, upper arms, and a gut.
My question is, any tips on losing weight?
I want to get a flat stomach, or mostly flat stomach, by summer and I want to lose at least 7 lbs. I know you have to do aerobics, running, etc. etc., but is there any other way to make the process faster?
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diet. it doesnt have to be serious, just dont eat as much junk food (i dont know if you eat any now, but just saying it helpes if you dont eat any)
Do some v-sits (put ur legs in the air and reach, like crunches)or get an excersice ball and do crunches on them.
do alot of running and stuff.
and do weight training. that helpes your arms and legs by putting some muscle on it. and can help fat go away.
I hope i have helped, and good luck!
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Okay so I have the initials of my ex boyfriend tattooed on my wrist (RS) and well he is my ex so no longer. I really like the tattoo though and don't want to cover it up anytime soon. I know I will never forget what it really means, but I was wondering if anyone knew of words or a phrase with the letters "R" and "S" that I could tell people it means. I'm just tired of saying what it really means and then having to get into the whole story about it. thanks! hope to hear something soon! By the way the phrase has to start with R so ya... (link)
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the first thing i have to say, is dont put someones name or initials on yourself , because you dont know if you will be with them forever.
Heres some ideas, and i know they are stupid, but its ideas... and i dont know how old you are...
REALLY SUPER
RADICAL ...
rainbow ...
.... sex
..... sexy
i dont know, thats all i can think of. hope i kind of helped.
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How do you make a peach cobbler? (link)
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i am not really sure, but i would suggest go to food network, or other websites and look up recipes.
I hope i have helped and good luck with it!
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i saw two girls and one cup and now i'm thinking of suicide! HELP!!! (link)
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i have no idea what your talking about, but suicide is not the answer, i know that you think it will never get better, but whatever it is it will.
I used to be suicidal, and now im a happy person.
I hope i have helped and please dont think of suicide.
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this is embarresing to ask but ive never seen like anyone elses vagina before and i feel like mines not normal. im probally just overthinking or whatever but is it normal for fluids to come out liek whenever?
and i jsut dont think mine looks right also.
can someone tell me what a normal vagina looks like or something i just feel like im not normal :/ blehh help please. (link)
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that fluid stuff is discharge, its extremely normal, as long as its kind of clearish. just wear pantiliners so ur undies dont get kinda icky.
Vaginas have 2 "lips" and a hole inside. haha, thats all i can say. every person is different, im sure its fine.
Hope i helped!
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okey so im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend.
ive made out with two boys in my whole life. and its not like im ugly or weird or anything. alot of guys have flirted with me and shit but its like they just movee on. what should i do and act around boys im interested in and stuff? too bee more flirty and outgoing? no onee has asked me out yet its pathetic rawwr lol help pleaseee. (link)
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Be yourself, and dont be desperate. im 15 too. i have had 2 bfs, tho both were total retards (not litterally, but pretty close.) and they are just sick. well anyways, embrase your singleness, your independance. you have your whole life to fall in love and find someone. try to focus on school and friends, and a guy will find you. im sorry if this isnt what you want to hear, but i've told many of my friends this, and eventually a guy finds them.
Just be yourself, and i hope i have helped
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Wrong category . sorry /=
It says charges may apply . So , most likely it will right ? And its not alot if so right ? (link)
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i dont think it does. it doesnt cost on yahoo, they dont have your credit card, and i believe that it comes to your phone as a regular text, and if you have unlimited or whatever it just comes as a text. i dont think it costs anything. it shouldnt, i have never been charged anything.
hope i helped!
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what do girls like a guy to wear (link)
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It depends on the girl.
If it were me i would like a dude in a polo and khakis. or a rocker dude... it just depends on my mood, but if they are clean and are themselves it wont matter.
but just be yourself, dont try to be someone you arent. women dont like that, believe me.
I hope i helped!
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i've been going tanning for my prom..and my body is really dark..but my face isnt..it's like..a light orange kinda. i use a tanning maximizer when i go tanning..and i dont wanna be orange at prom. it's THIS saturday..and today is thursday..
so..incase my orange face dosent dye down by then..should i get a foundation that matches the rest of my body? or maybe a shade lighter than my body color??
i dont want to tan my face anymore..incase it get's even more orange..so i'm gunna cover up my face when i go tanning.
what should i do? (link)
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I have never been tanning, but what i know about make up, is if you get a foundation, you are supposed to get one shade lighter than your skin. i dont know why, but thats what your supposed to do.
Then after the foundation, if you want use some bronzer, and that might make it how you want. I would suggest trying it to see how it looks, before you need it, just to make sure its ok.
I hope i helped!
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i have videos on my camers (i downloaded them to my computer, they save in my pictures though) is there any way to get them from my computer to my ipod as a video? (link)
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ok. well you have to convert them to MP4 or MPEG format. there is a good site for that.... Zamzar.com
and then put it into itumes and then onto your ipod! i hope i helped, and if you need any more information just ask!
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whats better bare miinerals or sheercover makeup?
why and why not?
thanks
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I have never used sheercover makeup, but i have tried bare minerals, and it is amazing! It makes it look like you have no blemishes, or moles/frekles and it is very soft and doesnt have much weight.
I hope i helped and im sorry that that is the only one i could tell you about.
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i randomly told my mom that i bought make up at an online store in the interenet and she immediately just FREEEEAAAAKKED OUT AND YELLED AND SPEECHED ME OUT
like what am i supposed to do shes making me feel guilty and like have doubts about my buying online
shud i continue to buy or is it really dangerous
she said there are identity theft online
is that true?
pleasae ansswweer all of my questions i know its all over the place but please. IM SO WORRIED
is there nothing to be worried about?
have you esperienced any of the identity theft online in ur credit card?
how about ..do you continue to buy online?
tell me stories or speeches on anything ADDVIIICCE
please and THANKS. :(
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There are some very trusted websites, that are safe to buy offline. But some websites are unsafe and are known for identity theft. I wouldnt feel guilty or worried but have some cautiion when you buy online.
you could continue to buy, but its up to you. Some people get identity theft, but some dont get their information stole. Its up to you what you want to do.
And personally, i've never bought anything online, seeing as im only 15, with overprotective parents, but its all up to you!
Good luck, and shop with caution!
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Any creative advice on how I can spice up the walls in an apartment?
I can't paint them and I'm going to put up pictures but I need something bigger.
I like bright, vibrant colors and I really want my apartment to reflect that. (link)
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you could get those door things, that hang down, but instead of putting them in the doorway, put them on the walls.
Also you could get some colorful rugs from the dollar store and hang them up on your walls.
One more thing, although i have not had the best success with them, are those wall stickers. They claim they can be taken off, but not used again. Well.. they dont take off too good. But if the apartment is just white or whatever, you can get a small amount of paint, when you are ready to move and just fix up any little spots of paint that comes off with the sticker.
Some other things i can think of, are get some thumb tacks, and then hang up Cd's and cd covers on your wall. (if you have itunes, and have all the cd's on your computer then i think that it is ok. But they dont really get scratched anyway) I just did that to a wall in my room, and it looks really cool.
You could buy some acctuall sized flags, with some cool stuff on them, and hang them up,
or just get some material and hang strips of that up. I think that would look cool.
That is all I can think of at the moment, but if you have any other questions, message me!
I hope I have helped, and good luck.
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Well im really scared because i was drunk on this night and this lad i really liked i kept going over too him and sayin i love him and i only wanted to meet him but i didnt know what i was doing and he took me in a bush and fingered me but i dont know if he did anything else and i havent started my period but blood came out a week later and i was on for a week but ive not come on for four months how do i know if i started or something is wrong with me? (link)
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I would ask the guy, or some other people at the party what happened.
If he denys having sex or anything else other than fingering you, and your period is this late, i would take a pregnancy test! And well.. even if you dont talk to him, or if you do and he says he had sex with you, take a pregnancy test!
And then if you are still worried after that, go to a doctor.
And with the blood, that could be blood from getting your cherry poped, or he could have knocked out some extra blood that was left from your last period.
I hope i helped, and good luck!
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I have been waiting about 5 weeks to get my period, and i finally got it, but my blood is brown and very light, is this my period? and is this normal? (link)
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if you were sick, as the last person said, it could be because of that.
it could be your hormones changing and it caused you to have a late/light period. if you got your first period ever, in the past couple years, this is probably more normal, because it takes a while to get regular, and evry woman has an irregular period sometime in their life!
Hope i helped!
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almost 16/f please read whole thing before answering:
I have only had boyfriends. I have had many times. I don't find men attractive. I think they usually have something about their faces that make them unattractive. I look at s a lot more than I look at boys. I love the feeling of a man's arms around me and I like to cuddle with them and stuff. BUT: I don't enjoy it doesn't do anything for me and I giving head/handjobs and stuff. Male genitals do not turn me on at all. I would much rather m@sturbate with my vibe. I also like being eaten out.
As a young child I was only attracted to men. At age 12/13 I started to notice s and I would develop crushes on them. By the time I hit 15 i was completely turned on by the idea of s3x with a woman. That is what i think about when i m@st. Does this make me bis3xual? (link)
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It could mean you are bisexual, but that would be if you were attracted to men, and it seems like your not.
You are most likely a lesbian. You should try being with a woman, and see how you like it. If you dont likke it , you are straight, if you do like it, you are lesbian, and if you like both men and women you are bi.
It eally sounds to me that you are a lesbian, but you have to try being with another woman and see how you like it. Try with a few, and figure it all out.
I hope i helpped, and good luck!
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is there a site where you can get a barbie to look like you? (link)
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I remember hearing about it a few years ago, but that might have been american girl, or something else. I would recomend checking the barbie website, where you could ask a question to the makers.
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