Q: I have a boyfriend which every girl seems to like. I've been getting threatening phone calls from girls. What should I do?

Q: I've talked about this before on here, but i seem to get the same answer everytime. "Go to therapy, take meds, switch your meds, talk to your doctor/psychiatrist/therapist about it, switch your doctor/psychiatrist/therapist", which I have already done all of this, none of which helped, obviously. Is there anything else I can do? It's either helped or i just end it.

Q: how can you ask a guy for his number without making it seem like you're hitting on him? you just like talking to them and they are funny, but still kind of like them. i don't want to go up to one of them and be like can i have your cell phone number. also i don't even have a Facebook to communicate with them. i feel so out of touch with my school.

Q: I dont know if this is the right category but I couldnt put it as abusive relationship because he has never purposely hit me.

Im 18 and female. now please no one judge me but im with a older guy hes 31 and have lived with him for nearly 4 months everythings been great and happy. Til last night he had a bit of beer to drink and we had a little coke and were having fun. Until we went to "bed". Half way through he tried putting it in my ass. we do get a little rough like i was handcuffed and tied down but iv never had a problem saying stop or no. Except last night he wouldnt take no for a answer next thing i know hes in my ass and im yelling for him to stop. He wouldnt til he finished, i was almost in tears. I barely was able to sleep in the same bed after. i dont know what to do. I dont want anyone knowing especially my parents. and i dont want to lose what we have together by leaving. so please help i just need some advice of what to do.
-sleepiesheep

Q: I go to a small high school with mainly white people and indians, and I'm a black girl, but I feel like I can't date anyone because it would be a catch-22. I have no racial preferences, I'd just like to be with someone I can connect with, and am attracted to. but I feel like the only pairing I could be a part of at my school, without being scrutinized, is with another black guy, but I don't like any of the few other black guys at my school. I'm actually really attracted to a white guy, but idk if anything could even come from it, because even though I get the feeling he may like me, he may not try to pursue anything because of how others at school would react to it. it's a very small town in the south, and people are still racist and ignorant, even though they'd smile to your face. the type of place where an interracial relationship would be questioned and looked at strangely, like "how did those two ever get together!" I just wouldn't want to be scrutinized like that. that would freak me out. I wouldn't want people to question my pride in being black, or of my culture or whatever, cause it's just stupid. I know that race is irrelevant, but I can't change others' minds. And the guy I like and I have quite a bit in common, more than I have with most of the other black people at my school actually, so I don't see how different the "cultural differences" are, from being different races. I mean I'm not even from this town, I've lived in several countries, so I know to be accepting and how to relate to others and what not. I realize that people really aren't too different from each other, at the core. but i'm just really frustrated because I feel like I can't get into any relationship pretty much because of this. it makes me sad to see other couples, of the same race, just going about with each other and what not, cause a relationship feels so out of reach. why should I have to settle for some guy I don't like, just so I don't get scrutinized? hopefully it's better in college.. I just don't understand why high school has to be this way. it makes me want to just GTFO of the south, if it's like this everywhere. If someone asked me if I hated this town I'd smile and say no, but in my heart I truly despise it. I've never lived in a place this closed-minded before

Q: Hey 13/F. There is this boy in my class we became best friends and now he ignores me on bbm but chat with me in class. He is not mad at me. And he is not busy do j think he likes me? I asked him whay he ignores me then he just said I don't know. I really catch his eyes a lot looking at me. And then he smiles. Does he like me?

Q: I am a 12 year old girl who lives in a small town i Alaska. My parents split up this previous summer but I still see my dad. I'm not depressed but I just don't know who I am. I dress fun with alot of different colors I act stupid but I'm not and I just don't know what's going on. I'm VERY lazy I am obsessed (and I mean OBSESSED) with Harry Potter and I like to write stories. I think I'm mental and my brother always jokes about it. I think this because I have a crush on a fictional character, and I'm not doing my best in school cause I'm daydreaming or writing about my relationship with that person. And when I think that I'm never going to be able to go to Hogwarts I feel so empty like I'll never be happy again. I also stay up till around midnight on my iPod either reading fanfictions or cheaking Facebook. I also cuss alot when I'm at school and none of family knows it. I just wanted someone's input on my life and what you think I should do about my identity crisis and possible mental disorders. I just feel jacked up. (I also like brokeNCYDE which is music I probably shouldn't listen to but I do anyways. Oh well. Thanks! I guess

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