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I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!

I've been in this situation before. Alot of people have. It's awkward because there is that nervous feeling inside of you: what if he doesn't like me? If you don't feel comfortable telling him all at once then don't. Maybe drop a few hints or flirt a little. You could even have one of your other friends ask him if he likes you. Be careful with that though because I know from personal experience that guys don't like it when girls bombard them with questions about them liking someone. Just be yourself and try one of the things above. Also, be aware that if he doesn't respond to you the same way you do to him, that's normal. He's a guy and they are kind of slow! lol! Good Luck!!
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*emily*

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my boyfriend has like a problem with calling or something....i mean whenever he says hell call he forgets...and ive talked to him about it bc it really hurts my feelings! and he says im sry and he loves me and stuff and he ALWAYS has an excuse and hes lkie im just not good with the fone i dont kno....but i mean im so sick of always having to call him...i love him and i love talking to him but im so sick of it!...is there ne thing i can do to get it through to him that it hurts me when he doesnt call...ive told him straight out b4 "u hurt my feelings when u say ull call me and u dont" n he gets all sweet n stuff....and i kno 4 a fact he isnt cheatin or nothing we r reallie close n stuff....but idk...today we sed we wer gonna do somthing and i havent heard from him all day same with yesterday so i called him up at nite and we talked but idk.....=\

first of all you need to stop calling him so much....i have a twin brother and he says that the most annoying thing ever is when a girl keeps calling you and is bugging you about him calling you. but..an occaional call is ok every now and then...once you stop calling him he will want to talk to you and he will understand that you arnt going to call him first....it sounds like yall really like eachother and i think that yall wil last a long time GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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I have a friend and she has changed so much since last year. I want to know how to tell her what I think, with out being rude. There is no nice way to say "you've changed and your headed for the worse" so I need your help on this one. I don't know what to do???

~Baffled~

OMG I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT!! i had an awsome friend who all of a sudden started hanging out the wrong ppl and then became another person (a worse person) the best advice i can give you is to just tell her...let her know how you feel...be gentle tho, say things like "im only saying this because it conerns me" and "i just want the best for you" tell her how you feel and why...hopefully she can understand you and consider your feelings and thoughts.......*my freind and i are more of best frineds than ever since i told her how i felt....* GOOD LUCK
i hope i helped
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*emily*

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I am a 13 year old girl. I have a really good guy friend who is also 13. i am starting to develop stronger feelings for him everyday. I drop hints alot, but he just acts like nothing happened most of time. Other times he will flirt back. A few days ago he put his arm around my waist but I don't know if it was a friendly gesture, or if its because he likes me. We have a really close friendship and don't want to ruin that. Should I keep on flirting, or just be firends? If he does like me, what are the hints I should be looking for?

Well Its hard to develop feelings for friends because its hard to tell if they feel the same. But your best bet is to just bring it up. But you dont have to be too obvious about it just be like "What would happen if we were together?" or "Have you ever even thought about us being even closer that friends?". And if you two do get together if you find he does like you and you break up at some point, it could really ruin this great friendship. So you have lots to think about. Is it worth even working for if you two may not be friends anymore. And hints to see if he does like you are very hard to find since your good friends! GOOD LUCK
*emily*

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written by friend :


Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP

love can blind us...it sounds like this guy likes you ..but you never know if when he is drunk one night and he may try to take you somewhere and make a move.....your friend is trying to look out for you! if he has done anything bad to any of his previos girlfriends i would be VERY careful! GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on)

get to know her first. sit by her in classes and make her laugh! GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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well first i lie with my step gradpa and stepgrandma. bc my mom and my stephdad don't wnat me.. anymore. and my g-parents have 6 cats and 4 dogs.. well one day my g-pa was playing with Pimpsey.. which is one of the dogs. and my g-pa trough the ball in the street.. (on accsitdent)!
and.. pimpsey ran after the ball.. =( then the un thinkable happend.. i think you can guess! a yellow car came by and hit pimpsey. and we saw all of her guts fly everywhere! please help me get over this tragity! signed!

NEEDS HELP FROM YOU! BC .. I MISS PIMPSEY

don't make fun of his name please my g-ma named him from her , old parrot that she had when she was a young girl so don't think that its like a pimp thing bc really it ist't.. so anyway. PLEASE HELP ME!

you have to accept that every one and every thing has its time pass on....remember the good times you had with Pimpsey....i know that another dog could never replace your old one...but Pimpsey can live through another dog that you get. GOOD LUCK AND I AM VERY SORRY!!
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*emily*

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I'm 13 years old and a girl, and I'm about 4'1'', and i think 77 lbs. is this average or what? And also, is there anything I can do to help myself grow faster? or 'mature'? I'm not very large chested; I'm about a 32AA, and fairly skinny.
thanks
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you are average for a girl your hieght! as for the boobs thing..you should be comfortable with who you are! if you really feel that you are way too small and it hurts your self of stem....buy a paded bra...GOOD LUCK be happy with your self!
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*emily*

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Im a 13 year old girl. I really like this guy but the only problem is that hes kinda popular and im scared that it would be embarassing if i asked him out and he turned me down. Can you tell me what i should do? Should i flirt with him...or not?

first of all..you should be friends first or have some sort of socail relationship with him..then start dropping *SMALL* hints!!! dont be to obvious ..i wouldnt ask him out if you are sure that he dosnt like you...but if you think that he may..go with your insticnt!! GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP

this is seriousyou need to go to a coucelor or a friend or someone who can help you and him...whatever you do ..dont have sex with him if you dont want too...just try to delay it until you can find help! i hope everything works out!
GOOD LUCK
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*emily(

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im 14/f i have a LOT of blackheads all over my nose and they won't go away does anyone know how to get rid of them?? because i have a formal coming up and my pores are pretty big so a lot of people notice the blackness of my nose everyday!!!!
please dont delete this!!!!!

well you can try using those nose strips i think the best kind or BIORE....but what gets them away and keeps them away..is washing your face in the morning and ant night! first wash your face with really HOT water...this opens your pores..then use either soap or facial soap to wash your face..(sill with hott water) then when you are done ..wash the soap off with cold water..this closes your pores so that no dirt can get in! GOOD LUCK!
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*emily*

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aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened???

that all depends on if you felt some thing when you and your *guy friend* madeout... if you did fee something then you should let your boyfriend and guyfriend know...either way i think that you should tell your boyfriend....b/c if he finds out from someone other than you than he wont know if you havnt told him other things or if you have lied to him before.

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at school i have no freinds...i am not popular eitehr...all i want to be is popular... i try really hard to be like a popular person...but i still dont become popular...how can i have friends and be popular?

first of all... you shouldnt act like your someone else.. be yourself and people will love you.""its better than to be loved for who you really are, than to be loved for someone that you are not""---- being popular dosnt matter....im sure that some people in your school are just dying for a freind.. try to go up to those people and talk to them. all that matters in life are your friends and family. it dosnt matter what thier social status is or what they look like...all that matters is that they are your friend..and they will be there for you no matter what.
hope it all works out and remeber.. BE YOUR SELF!!
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*emily*

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