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Hi, I'm Sabrina and I'll try my best to give the community here the utmost advice :) If there are certain mistakes involving the way I convey the words, do pardon me. "If something is normal doesn't mean we have to accept it."
"Either you run the day, or the day runs you."
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Hii, So from past few months I've been so addicted to my cell phone that I just can't keep it away from me. I'm constantly on it using facebook, twitter and checking random things on google. I have my exams like in 20days but I can't concentrate. In back of my mind I know that I shouldn't be doing this but I can't stop myself. I get really uncomfortable if I stay away from it like 10 mins. I spent min 15 hrs on internet either on my phone or laptop. I feel like it has also started to affect my mental abilities. I'm really scared. what to do??? :(
I know i don't have the right to say this but dude , you need to change from this moment on . What i've been reading is no laughing or small matter ! It's time for you to break yourself from these social networks or gadgets and nothing is ever impossible . What i did last time was , i locked those things , turned them off and gave all of them to my mother because it was really hard with the mind keep on thinking about what was happening . Remind yourself that you need to concentrate really good in your studies because that's what important nowadays . Not the friend requests , postings , updates or videos . Also , make a change , like i said and doing that requires real sacrifice and consistency , and be able to control your activities . In this life , you're still young , alive so you must have a purpose and dreams and you got to live them , and trust yourself that you can do this . Sacrifice all those things for your own good mate ! Remember , success requires 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration , meaning that life has its obstacles and you are the one who needs to kill them ! Love yourself first and life is too short to be spent on pointless matters . Sorry , no offence but it's the truth :))
About 4 years ago I cheated on a guy I know, it was wrong of me but ever since then I've been labled as a 'playa', and I have a boyfriend now for 2 years and people keep telling him I'm gonna cheat on him and just wait and see he'll get his heart broken, but that's the furthest thing from the truth I love him and would never want to hurt him, but what hurts me is that he never defends me, when people say these things he just laughs and takes it and when we fight he says 'yeah I should have listened to those people' is it wrong that he never defends me?
I'm 19 and he's 21
Trust your heart . To me , past is past and the people around who don't have any right to tell your man that you're gonna cheat on him and I don't know why , it's kind of unfair for your man also to bring that up . He should've given you comforting words that he trusts you or whatsoever but sometimes , we just don't know how a guy thinks . On the outside , they may not even utter a word but deep inside only God knows . However , if you're in a trouble and your guy still won't defend you , then you need to tell him how you feel honestly . For how long will the question disturb you ? So at certain times , be brave and stand up for yourself as long as you're sincere and truly loving :))
Hello! My Name Is Maci And I Recently Started Junior High.
In My Elementary Years, I Played An Instrument And My Family Has Been Really Proud Of My Success. I'm Not Planning (And Never Was) To Go On In My Life Playing That Instrument (Like A Proffesional) And My Family Knows That. But There's A LITTLE Problem..
I Love Singing Even More.
In The Beginning Of The Year, I Did Both (Sang AND Played The Instrument) But I Got Tired Of Doing My P.E. After School So I Just Quit Choir. And I Was In Advanced Chorus, Too!
Well Anyways.. I Want To Go Into Choir Instead Of Me Playing My Instrument. I Enjoy Playing That Instrument, But Honestly I'm Getting Bored Of It And I Love Singing Even More. I Don't Want To Let My Family Down. What Do I Do? Help Me!
Honey , life is not about pleasing others including your family :-) Do what you love to do because it will never bore you and it'll be worth it ! Just sing if that is what you really want ! It's not wrong to try new interesting things , right ? Eventually , your family will understand and they will be proud of you too ! They might be down at first , but whose problem is it ! Not yours of course . Just chase your dreams ! Follow your heart ^_^
I know this sounds superficial and snotty have this dream of being wealthy. I don't want to be super rich but I want to have enough money to buy what I want when I want it. I'm also not talking about jets or mansions but things like purses that are a couple hundred dollars or lots of small things like multiple pairs of $6o jeans in one purchase.
It's just like my whole life my dad was really poor and never bought me much of anything to the point that he hasn't seen me in months because he doesn't want to spend the money on gas. He didn't even see me on my 18th birthday and it's been months since then and he's only even called twice.
My mom is okay. She buys me things when I really need them and I give her props for paying for a lot of the work clothes I needed (even if she expects me to pay her back).
I'm just really tired of going to a store and seeing multiple things I like and having to pick just one. For example I went to Bealls and I saw a purse for $30, wallet for $27,necklace for $22,bracelet for $15 and perfume for $30. Well I wound up not getting a single thing because I just couldn't deal with the idea of buying just one thing and I was scared of giving up even $15 at the time. My aunt gave me a $30 gift card for there and I thanked her and acted super happy about it but I got there and realized that wasn't even enough for a single pair of jeans so I still have it unspent because I'm afraid of not having that little bit of money on that giftcard anymore.
It's not like I'm poor but I'm sick of having to save for everything and really stressing over medial amounts of money. Like I saved up money from graduation and other money on the side and bought myself an iPad for a birthday present for myself. I love love love my iPad but now I keep wishing I had that money back (though I would never give up my iPad).
I had $130 from a smartphone I sold and I spent it on a replica chanel purse because I couldn't afford a real one but even the $50 for the replica is hurting because I keep seeing more things I want. Like replica Louis Vuitton sunglasses for $27, a $40 leather Louis Vuitton iPad case, $20 for a replica chanel wallet,$25 for replica Chanel sunglasses. I want to be able to know what it's like to be able to buy things like that and not feel scared about it.
I'm not saying I just want the money given to me. I would do anything to be able to be wealthy but I keep thinking the only way to be wealthy is to marry a wealthy man but wealthy men want sex toys with double D's and I just want a husband that I can truly love and cook for (I love cooking) and take care of the house and such.
Right now I have a job I start Monday making $800 every two weeks but that's not enough to ever get me anywhere in life. I understand I'm only 18 but I'm already tired of feeling the burn of money. It's just so stressful.
My friends say just to forget about meeting a wealthy man who loves me and that I can love back because they only want sex and I'm still a virgin looking to save my first time for somebody special.
Do you think my dreams of being wealthy are stupid and out of line? I don't think it's a bad thing to want to strive for...
Realistic indeed :-) It's never wrong ! Even someone who was an orphan is now being very rich ! But you need to work for your own dream . There's no shortcut to success ! In the beginning , you might suffer a lot pains and setbacks but in the end , it'll be worth it . Being wealthy and rich is not impossible , in fact nothing is impossible and you need to remember that always ! Don't let yourself down , and trust yourself because it's your life and you are capable to accomplish anything i promise you ^_^
I feel like dying.I don't know what to do.So many responsibilities and i am not able to support my family because i have not achieved my dreams so that i can support my family financially.Sometimes i feel no body in my family cares for me but i know they love me.My attempts in building my career is falling again and again,I try to console myself by saying that may be i did not working hard like others.But how many times will i console myself.Nowadays i am asking god to take my life away.I am loosing my self day my day.
Don't say that ! God has given you this life for a purpose that's why you're still alive until now . It's never wrong to pursue your dreams but keep in mind that to go for the better , you got to make sacrifices for yourself , and be independent . Be able to stand alone and God is giving you all these tests and He would only give tests based on His slave's ability and you are strong enought to handle them , remember that . Things might be upside down and extremely bad , but time will pass . Break your problems into smallet components and solve them one by one with courage . Pray to God to give you enough strength and most importantly , love your life and be smart handling it and let your mind control your soul . Otherwise , you would be following your heart all the way through and nothing gets better . Stay strong , mate . I trust you .
Im 11 im dating a 14 year old am i old enough to have sex with him if so can i get pregnant cuz he says he wants to have a family with me rite now
To be honest with you hun , it's not your time yet . The world is moving fast and you got to realize things can't always go the way we want them to be . I don't know about your sex and all , but really you need to be at least 24 years old to lead a family or be a wife , i promise you that . You are still too young for this , and you need to remember you still have your parents and you haven't entered college yet ! Don't go tooo fassttt :-D