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i like this girl who is at my school. But she is more popular than i am. what do i do to get her to notice me iv'e tried everything (link)
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You say that you've tried "everything" and she still hasn't noticed you. "Everything" is a broad term, so this is a broad answer to your question. If she hasn't noticed you by now, reflect back on any responses she has had to you. Does she smile back or reply when you talk to her? Is she purposely ignoring you or does she not realize that you want more than a casual bit of contact in the halls or in class? When people are popular, they literally seem to know everyone. Maybe she sees so many faces that she can't keep up with them all, so next time you speak to her, make sure that your name comes up. When you see her and greet her by name she should call you by name, too. When that finally happens, then you are a bit closer than before! Build on this a little at a time, finding different topics to approach her with so you'll be prepared for a longer conversation if it should develop.
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okay i am an 12 year old male. and i like this girl at school and i keep on having sexual fantasies about her am i to young is this normal (link)
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"Normal" varies from person to person, depending on when they start puberty. There is certainly nothing wrong with you, but don't rush into becoming sexually active just because you think about it. Television, movies, and song lyrics pressure young people into feeling like they have to "do" something about their feelings. Maturity is controlling your impulses and learning to grow into experiences at the right time. Talk to the girl and be friendly. If she seems interested in you, exchange phone numbers and TALK. Get to know her and enjoy her company.
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what do you do when your are tottaly flirting with a guy one day and then the next day he pretends you don't even exsit it like really confusing? i'm not sure if i sould forget about him or go after him (link)
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Flirting is an age old form of entertainment. Often, both males and females enjoy the chase far more than the follow up connection. It is a way of exploring the time before dating and serious relationships begin. If he cools off to you, don't fret, just smile and continue on to the next flirtatious challenge. If he becomes interested, fine. If not, don't become a man hungry stalker, dear, because it can be a turn off to guys!
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i'm 14 and this older guy likes me he's 16 and i've known him for like forever but now he wants me to be his girlfriend and it's weird because of parents and friends so i'm not sure if i should go out with him or just still be friends (link)
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If he is 16 and interestd in a 14 year old, first find out why he is not looking in his own age brackett. While he may be genuinely interested in you, he may think it easier to impress or heaven forbid, manipulate a younger girl. I assume you and your family know his family by what you have said about it being "weird". If your families are acquainted with one another, let your parents know he has shown an interest in you and tell HIM that you have mentioned it to them. He will be more likely to behave if he knows he is being watched. Take it one step at a time and start with a solid friend connection. Good luck.
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my cat snores....is that normal??!?! lol
(btw she has asthma) (link)
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My hypothesis:I have asthma and snore, too, therefore it must be normal.
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Ok so My sister is totally alaways ranking on me because I've never had a b/f!I am a female 13 year old ! I get all depressed too. My friends alaways brag about there boyfriends and either I'M GETTING TIRED OF IT OR IM JEALOUSE!!! I dont know what to do! Boys just think of me as a friend and nothing more! My mom says its embrassing to ask them out but I am soooo confused! Tell me your oppinion!!!
*Double_B* (link)
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When I was 13 years of age, I too, had no boyfriend nor a prospect of one. It seemed as though all of my friends had boyfriends and I only had male chums. I listened and watched, learning much from the experiences of my friends, learning what mistakes not to repeat. I also had close male friends and learned to tune in to what they were saying about girls. Be yourself and don't try to get attention with outrageous clothing or behavior. Keep it simple and you will attract someone who is interested in YOU, not who you seem to be. As for your friends, they are not being true friends in the sense that they are ignoring your feelings. Sisters, on the other hand, will always be sisters!
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