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my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months now. he has a lot of girl friends and has never cheated. he's absolutely perfect and i love him in everyway. whenever he hangs out with his girl friends i get worried. i dont know how to shake the feeling. i trust him, i know he is friends with them but i get jealous a lot. what should i do? i dont want to make him not see his friends. (link)
i know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend has tons of friends that are girls. and i always get nervous about what hes doing if he hangs out with them. What i suggest is, maybe ask to come with him some of the times. Become friends with his friends that are girls, then maybe you can learn to trust them too. Or just talk to him about it and tell im it worries you, and when he does hangout with his girl friends, just ask him what he did so your reasured. hope i helped


my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think (link)
do NOT forgive forget about him and move on. Any guy who is your boyfriend and who kisses another girl infront of you is not worth your time. You are so much better than that. Even though it might hurt you NEED to move on. If it makes you feel better you should tell him straight up you treat me like shit and i dont need you in my life. and if he says hes sorry be like good you should be i gave u a second chance but you screwed it up. But its for your best not to go back to him. Hope i helped.


Oook, I know I sound like a foolish idiot by asking this but what does "fo shizzle my nizzle" mean? People say it all the time and I say it too, and I know people say it to "try" to act gangster but thats about it. Help ? (link)
fo- for
shizzle- shore
my- my
nizzle- N*

why would u ''try'' n act gangster??


hey! well im 15/f and ive had some boy troubles lately. well theres this guy and hes actually my cousins neighbor. ive always thought he was adorable but this summer ive been more outgoing and we actually started talking and i wasnt shy around him or anything! im always over at my cousins because we are like best friends. well you see this guy "kevin" (my cousins neighbor) and me started flirting alot like we'd wrestle just any kind of flirt! until i knew he liked this girl but me and him were talking and how ive never had a boyfriend and hes like yeah thats a good thing though because then you dont have to worry about things. and hes like i like this girl tara and i want to go out with her but then im scared if i go out with her that i will like someone else too. well at this point i was thinkin hmmm...does he maybe like me? or whats he thinking. well the next day i find out that they are going out. im a little jealous because now i know we cant flirt like we use to!! but guess what? everytime i see him he kinda starts flirting with me. i do it back i know i shouldnt because he has a girlfriend but i just cant help it!!! like tonight i was over there and me and my cousin came back from our friends house and him and my other cousin (nick) were sittin in his garage and i start playin basketball in kevins driveway. well we all start kinda playin a game but then its my cousin and her brother (which would be my other cousin) and then me and kevin guardin each other. well we forget about the game and kevin like grabs me from behind and like holds me...like sayin ohhh i got you now you cant get out and all this stuff! i was like "Ahhh :]" i love this! haha. but then in the back of my mind im like whats he doing..whats he thinking..he has a GIRLFRIEND. :[
i just dont know! he is so confusing and please dont tell me not to stop talking to seeing him or hanging out with him because thats never gonna happen i can tell you that. him and his girlfriend havent hung out much because there so busy with baseball so im not sure whats goin on. hes so nice adorable just everything i can talk to him so easily! but i dont get how we can flirt so much like touchy flirt and he has a girlfriend. hes not one to cheat on a girl or anything either trust me plus we were talking and he said he would never cheat on a girl.

soo what do you think he is thinking?..what would you do in my case..when im around him?!

i think i like him =p but just dont want to admitt it to anyone or anything since i shouldnt even try since he has a girlfriend.

well THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME (link)
He could be flirting or being just friendly. But i suggest that you tell him how u feels.. so then maybe he feels the same way back, n you could have a chance with him.You should ask him about his current relationship n ask him if he feels you guys could be more than just friends.Its ok for you flirt back even tho he has a girlfriend,your not the one with a boyfriend n youlike him also if he wants to its his choice but dosnt that say a little about him maybe he wouldnt be the riight type for you if he thinks its ok to flirt when u have a girlfriend well i tihnk you should tell him how you feel n let i carry on from there. hope i helped




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