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Hey, the names Jasmina. I'm 17, & a senior. I have 6 months left of school, & then will be attending UMSL. I love sports, & cheering. I love my boyfriend

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jasmina, me and my boyfriend bad unprotected sex and his penis went inside it vagina but we didn't use a condom. and he didn't cum either. but could I be pregnant ? help me please cuz I'm super scared ;(

There is no way that you could be pregnat unless he did come, so if he didn't then you're not, & that's a good thing (:
Make sure to use a condom next time, it's a very big risk.
But don't worry as of now you're not pregnat :-]

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Hi.I am in middle school and I am worried about getting my period for the first time. I am too shy to talk to people. How do you know if you are about to get it? What do I say to my mom when it happens? Also, what do I do if it happens at school or at a friends or something?

Awww, i'm excited for you ! (:

And I totally understand the fact that you're kinda shy to talk about it, same here. I hate talking about it, IDK why, makes me feel uncomfortable.

Buy anyways, There really isn't any signs for when you're going to get it for the FIRST time, there might be some craming, and you might have a bigger appetitte then usual, also you may get dierria. But after the first time there's usally the same symptoms, and you know after that when exactly you're going to get it.

When you get it, just tell your mom, I mean it's harder for the girls that have to tell their dads about it. She'll understand you perfectly, I mean she had to go through the same thing, so it'll be alright if you just tell her you need to talk & just tell her you started.

If it happens @ school, just put paper towels on your underwear and then go to the nurse and tell her exactly what happened, she'll most deff. send you home & give you a pad/tampon.
If you get it at your friends house, they'll understand, well if it's a girl. & if she's on it, it'd be even better because then she can tell you what to do, don't hold back & not tell her. If you do get it @ a friends that is on it, just ask her for a pad/tampon & also tell her it's your first time. If she's not on it, then just call your mom & tell her what happened, she'll understand, once again don't worry, it's nothing bad (:

Goood luck, hope I helped.

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okay. I need help. well I think but I'm not sure but I hunk my boyfriend penis went inside but he didn't cum. do you think I could be pregnant ? I don't even know if it went in but it felt like it. I'm just so scared.

Sweetie calm down, first of all.
& As far as I know there is no possible way
that you are, I mean if he didn't cum, there
is nothing to make a baby, so then how would
you be pregnat, you know. It's okay, I know
how it is, expecially if it was your first
time, don't worry anymore, you're 100% not(:

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okay I am freaking out !!! me and my boyfriend tried to have sex. and he didn't cum or anything but he tried to put his penis inside me but instead it went on the side. but I'm just so scared that I could still be pregnant. we didn't use a condom either but even if his penis didn't go in it vagina but near my thighs, could I still be pregnant ?


p.s. this only happens because we landed on the wrong spot and it didn't go in but I'm just making sure.

There is absolutly no chance you could be pregnat, he didn't cum and plus he didn't even go in, so don't worry.

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And i repeat DO NOT want to lose weight haha.
i jus want to lose my small belly that wont go away!!
and my love handles,
I have a treadmille
But the thing is i dont know HOW to lose my stomache and make it flat
can someone tell me how much times to eat a day
what to eat and stuff because i really dont know what to do, i dontwant to lose weight, cuz i dont need to.
Thank youuuu.

One thing you can do is stop drinking sode; if you do.
& then if you want to loose your belly you should just do some ab workout: crunches, sit-ups, and so on.
& then for your love handles, you do something similar to a sit up, but instead of going straight up, you would go up & to the side, and every time you go up, you'd switch sides.

Hope I helped !

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what brand of hair removal cream is best for down there? you can list a few! thnx

I only know one; Nair.

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Where can you find real uggs that are like orange,yellow,purple etc? i see them on ebay all the time, but what store do they sell them at? i can never find them.

Nordstorm.

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my boyfriend used to finger me for how many times, ang im wondering if im still virgin? am i?

Yes, because there is no way he can pop your cherry with his finger.

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i'd really like to do something nice for my boyfriend, just because. something that doesnt cost a lot but means a lot.
i've made him a cd for him before of all the songs that remind of us each other.. and for the front and back cover i custom designed it with pictures of us. he loves it.. he listens to it everytime he's in his car.

i really want to do something else like that for him because he's such a great boyfriend and i want him to know how much he really means to me.
any ideas?
thanks a bunch! :)

A calender, with a picture of you guys in every month (:

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when me and my boyfriend both have no shirts on and are making out or dry humping...what things can i do to spice it up?

17/f

Try & make-out like with more ugh into it. You know where like you go fast and you're breathing hard & stuff, Guys like that. Also touch him, and like rub your hand against his penis, it will really help for him to get hard, he'll like it trust me ;)
Hope I helped.

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okay so the first time i gave my bf a handjob i realized that his dick was like pointing up so high it was legit like pointing to his bellybutton...so it was so high you couldnt tell he had a boner unless you actually looked under his boxers...is that like the hardest you could get? and then when we were done dry humping he said it hurt alot cause he didn't cum, so i gave him a handjob....does this really happen to guys when they get hard? this was pretty much my first time and i could use any advice possible

I don't really see what your question is but i'll try my best.
Yeahhh, as you described it he was really hard, like woah. & Yes it usually does hury because he's just keeping it insdie him & it should get out.. It does happen to like every guy, when they get hard, they'll usually jack off or they'll have sex so there is a way for him to cum, & that's like the BESTTT feeling for a guy. So it'd be much better if he did cum. I hope I helped, (:

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I always get asked if I've had braces. I did, I had them for a few years in middle school. But I never feel the need to ask anyone if they've had braces. I mean, my teeth aren't THAT straight, because I don't wear my retainer anymore. But I'm starting to wonder if my teeth look different or something... why would they be asking me this?

Well they don't ask because they look bad or anything. Usually people that have braces, their teeth are STRAIGHTER then just people that have staight teeth in general. Idk, but I can just tell when someone has braces, also you smile differently after braces.
Hope I helped.

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if you are at a mall and you shoplift and the shop person catches you what happens?

do they call the police and send you to jail or just ban you from the shop or something??

thanks!

Well it depeneds, if it's someone nice they will usally stop you & tell you to give whatever you stole back, & then tell you not to come ther anymore.
But others will call the cops & you get arrested & that other stuff you don't want to get into.
Hope I helped.

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my boyfriend always calls me beautiful and gorgeous and i never know what to say back except "aw" or smile... what do guys like being called by girls? i asked him and he said he didn't know...but theres gotta be something.

were both 16

Babe, or even come up with like a nickname for him.
For Example:
Cookie head, studmuffin. (:

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I know a lot of girls think that their vaginas smell kinda funky but I actually heard that guys like the smell and taste. Also, i always have like white kinda chunky stuff on the sides of my vagina where the labina minoras are(i think) and it smells really bad. any idea what that is? it doesnt hurt or itch or anything. any comments/advice is appreciated. thanks

That's just discharge, & it's normal. Every girl has it, it's just something you vagina gives out. You can wear a little panty liner on your panties to prevent it from going onto them. But don't worry much about it.

Hope I helped.

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Does anyone know where i can get leather boots (black* or brown) with a heel thats about 3 inches but that ISN"T like a stiletto heel...but no like super fat either. And that go to like a little bit below the knee?

A lot of the boots i have found are like cheap looking, or they look plastic. I am looking for boots that cost under $200-ish.

Thanks so much!!

Nordstorm. (:

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how does a girl eat out a girl

Theres no difference between a goy eating a girl out & a girl eating a girl out. It's the same. You use your mouth & eat her out.
Hope I helped.

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I was just wondering if it hurts when you "pop your cherry"?

It just depeneds, for some people it hurts & for others it doesn't.
It also depeneds on how 'big' your partner is.
Hope I helped.

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Okay, Me and my boyfriend are thinking about doing it in a hot tub or a bath. How does this all work? Does he put a condom before he goes inside me and then we go into the pot. Me and him both want to use protection. He doesn't want to make any risk. But what if he is inside me without a condom, and when he is about to ejaculate , he pulls it out and ejaculates into the water? What happens then? Is there a risk of getting pregnant or?

Have him put it on before he goes in the water, because if he does cum in the water, that's a big risk, because yes there is a slight chance that it might go inside you.
Good luck, :)

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What to get My boyfriend for Valentines Day. I was thinking of a personalized mug or bowl but he lives with his parents and that wont really have much of a meaning cuz it wont actually be his. I might get him boxers but What else can I get him. Something cute and small we dont want to spend too much money on each other? What do you think?

It's not really about how much the gift cost, it's more the thought that counts. Mabe a calednar for this year of like different picture of you guys for each month, I think that a very cute & creative present. If not that, then just get him boxers from like a store he likes, & cologne.
Hope I helped.

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