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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!
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I have a 6 month old beagle and he bites me all the time..and only me and sometimes my mom but not my dad or brother..he never used to to this! It started about a few weeks ago and I don't think he's mad because half the time he's around me and happy..and then the other half he just starts chewing on me and I tell him to stop and I move away and he get's even more mad! I don't know what to do it really bothers me and it hurts! I know he's not teething because he's past that age and he chews his toys too. If I try to stop and disiplin him he doesn't listen..but he listens to everyone else in my family! Please help! I'll rate high..thanks!!
Ok, my dog is the same way until one day, I was walking in my home and my dog was following me, and I was grabbing a instrument, and to my surprise, I shaked it and my dog backed away, I know this isn't the nicest thign, but I ran after him with the thing giving him a taste of his own medicine. and If it helps dog's don't like it when they tapped on the noe, you just have to yell "NO". He's your pet and he can't be the boss of you. Hope I helped!!
Ok, here is my situaton. I am a 14/f and in 9th grade. Well, i take a foods (cooking) class and there is this guy AJ who is in my group. Well the other day Garth, also in my group, asked me who I was going to the X-mas dance with and I said no one and that I wasnt even sure I was going. Well, AJ, an 11th grader said he was doing the same thing. He then asked me if i wanted to go with him. He said he would pay for it (It is $35 to go as a couple)and he would pick me up. He also said that he wouldnt ditch me for someone else at the dance b/c I was his date. Well, AJ is a really nice guy but he isnt the most attractive guy if you know what I mean. Also, he is really immature...he acts like a lil kid a lot. Anyway, he said he didnt want to go as boyfriend/girlfriend. Just so he'd have a date. So now, I dont know if he wants go with me b/c he wants to or because he wants a date. I don't know what to do! I dont know if i should tell him yes or try and find another date. My friend Kayla said she was going to ask her friend Bunion if he would go with me. But she said that if he didnt want to go then to go with AJ and then ditch him at the dance just so he can pay and so i'll have a ride. I don't want to do that but maybe i should? I dont know. I dont want to hurt him but i want to go. I told her i wasnt going to go if i didnt have a date b/c I didnt want to pay $20 to go by myself.
Should I go with AJ or find another date? Im confused about what to do! Please help
HEC
Ok girl, first of all I was baffled at the fact that you were going to ditch AJ and go with that kid when he told you he wouldn't do that, in my opinion anyone who does that doesn't deserve any kind of date. It will hurt his feeling's and you will lose a friend. You say that he isin' very attractive, well I know tons of kids who are not attractive and have the best personalities in the world! But one thing is that you don't want to seem shallow also, not everyone was blessed with great looks, ya no. And I think that if he is asking you to go with him that means he really wants to go with you. But trust me on one thing, it's better to not go than to lose a friend...
ok well.. i am going out with this guy... hes really great... we have had a few problems but we are totally awesome now... so ne way... we have been going out for a little while now and i really really like him... we have gone pretty far and are started thinking about have sex... we have always talked about it even before we were together and i kind of want to but i am afriad of regret.... i hate regreting things and im worried that if we have sex i will regret it... the thing is, before we did everything we have i thought i would regret it but i totally dont... is it just a 'virgin thing'?? i trust him completely... im just scared im to young (14) although (and i swear im not bragging) i am way more mature than the 'average' 14 year old... (if it makes a difference he's 16) i guess im asking all those 'non-virgins' out there... do you regret it? and do you wish you had waited? what do you think i should do? please answer!!!
...claire
Well Claire, I think that if you really, truly trust this guy than you should go for it. Because if he liked you as much as you say than he should be happy with anything u say. Never speed up to things too, plus, you can have pleasure without having sex. But if you feel comfortable around him and you feel like he's "the one" then go for it! I can't tell you that you won't regret it but I can tell you that protection doesn't always work so be careful if you so, but most of the time it does just make sure he's right for you before you do anything with him. Hope I helped! =)
-Bianca