I'm Dominic Mayfield. I'm 6'1, green eyes, black hair. Around 200 lbs, thin but got meat on my bones. I've been through many situations in my life, which is why I can understand most other situations. Ask away and I'll help as best as I can.
E-mail: dmayfield87@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: MD
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Age: 23
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Dear Dom,
I have a major problem. My best friend of about four years is ditching me for a guy who is a druggie, four years older than her (shes 16), and has a girl on the side. I tried to talk to her, but she told me I was jealous and that I could basically take a hike, which pissed me off, but I worry aobut her. So what should I do?
~Desperate~ (link)
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What you need to do is try to get someone that has went out with the druggie and let em talk to your best friend...and if that doesnt help...hopefully she will find out how bad he really is before anything gets any worse...and also you can always get a girlfriend and then go and tell her so she doesnt think your just jealous:P i hoped i helped even a lil
~Dom
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Hmm.. Say your boyfriend gets in an accident and supposedly gets put in a coma because of it.. Now you find all this information that points to he might be lying and cheating about it.. What should I do? Forget about him, Or get revenge? Cause believe me, I'm all about making him pay! ^_^
-Karin-
*15*F* (link)
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Hey...sorry it took so long for me to answer this question....but so to speak ive been out of it these past days myself:|........lol so im sorry....but what you should do is go ahead and try to find out and see if hes really in a coma if he is then worry if you will...if hes not in a coma and just lying about it i would just forget about him or something....because if you go out and have revenge alls it will do is just create more problems than what they already are.
~Dom
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Whats a G spot and how do you find it? (link)
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About the Female G-Spot
What is been popularly but erroneously called the G “spot” is the area on the upper wall of the vagina through which the urethral or “Skene’s” glands AKA prostate can be felt. The media picked up the term “G spot" from the book, The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries about Human Sexuality and has promulgated the notion of a “spot” on the upper wall of the vagina itself.
The search for a “spot” on the upper wall of the vagina, as opposed to searching for the prostate or urethral glands through the upper wall may be contributing to the difficulty of finding a single G “spot” and the controversy as to whether it exists at all.
Originally, it was thought that women only had clitoral orgasms. Now we are finding that one can experience an orgasm in just about any area of the body. The G-area orgasm is best described as a vaginal orgasm, which means it is generated and experienced mostly within the vaginal area. However, with practice and patience, the orgasms generated from this area can expand to include the whole body. Lovers playing with the G-area regularly have also expanded the woman's orgiastic response from the average of 10-15 seconds to minutes and even hours!
To access it, a finger can be inserted inside the vagina, with the fingertip pad facing the clitoris, past the vaginal entry muscles, and follow the curve over the pubic bone so that your finger ends up on the other side of that bone. Your fingertip would be crooked, just over the bone, with the pad on this tissue.
The tissue has been compared with the male prostate. It feels a little like corrugated paper, with a ridgey texture. It is possible to stimulate this area with the penis as well. Once the woman knows how it feels (a little like the pressure when you have to urinate - it is best to evacuate the bladder before you begin G-play), then the two of you can experiment with positions and angles that work for her. An average or longer length of penis that curves back towards its owner's body when erect has the easiest time accessing it. There have also been various wood and acrylic-type wands that have been designed just for this purpose for those who like extended play sessions. When choosing one of these wands, it works best if the wand is curved, like the one Nectar Products™ offers.
Now, in approaching the G-area, it is important to be aware of the special nature of this area. It has been realized in our bodies, that our cellular/muscular/organ structure also holds memory of past traumas, if they have not been properly and completely released. Have you ever heard of sexual healing? The G-area provides one of the most efficient and easiest ways to get there! The G-area is notably a place where a lot of emotions may be stored. Just as regular prostate massage is recommended for men to avoid prostate problems, it is actually a good idea for a woman's sexual and emotional health to make time for special, health massage/healing G-area sessions on an ongoing basis, outside of the lovemaking arena. Then she can feel total permission to explore and release any tensions and traumas she may be holding there.
Therefore, whether you are with a woman who has never experienced this type of stimulation, or with someone who has, it is important to remember that if you choose to stimulate this area, you never know what type of response you may experience. She may jump into sexual ecstasy, she may feel nothing, or it might even be uncomfortable, even painful for her. Persistence on the part of both lovers will pay off in earthshaking dividends and profoundly, deeper intimacy, that we all crave, if they understand how to approach and surf the experience, whatever the response
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Well I already asked a question on my depression. But yeah... I'm scared to tell my parents' about it. It doesnt seem like they would take it seriously or do much about it. I'm so scared. I don't feel very comfortable telling my parents either. Its so severe though I feel I really need help. I cry at night and I can't get to sleep, I'm so insecure about myself (looks and everything else about me), I don't like kids my age so I don't have many friends (and the few that I have are older which sucks because I can't be with them much). Basically I just hate life in general and I never feel like doing anything... all I do is sit arounf the house all day. And my depression is not like i just get it sometimes... I'm like going through it (a year and a half almost ago is when my really trajic depression started). I don't know what to do... help? Thanks so much (link)
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well what you should do is try to make friends your own age perhaps maybe not even around you but maybe go out and make friends else where to where you can have fun and to talk about the troubles you have or you can get online friends and talk to them about it even its just that you need to get some friends and talk to them about it is all and the friends you have now is to where you can talk to them too dont think that since they are older you cant talk to them you need to so you can help you with your problems. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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ok my family is catholic and theyre really religious and the other night they were all out and i didn't think they were gonna be home for a while so i was watching porn and i was kinda wacking off and my mom walked in to tell me goodnight and she saw me and now when i try to talk to her she wont even talk to me or even look at me i dont know if she has told my dad yet and i really dont know how to tell my mom should i be like mom everyone elce is doing it why cant I i mean how do you put that in a way she would understand and that she wont get even more mad at me adn should i even tell my dad??? (link)
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well im not sure how really what she is thinking maybe she is embarrassed cause she caught you masterbating im not sure but what you should do is probably go and tell your mom that you need to talk with her and that you were just trying out new things maybe she will understand maybe not but you need to tell her something cause if you stay seperate long enough and not talk to each other it may complicate things even more but you need to say something to make her understand about yourself and your trying new things i guess and maybe you should go and sit down with your dad and talk about it it will make things much easier for you and your dad to understand other than him finding out later on and catch you doing it as well. im not sure if i helped much but i hope i helped you.
~Dom
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hey dom my name is JOn and i have a gf adn she is one of them types of girls that love to be touched(if you know what i mean)and one night we were well you know going at it and she just sat up and left i dont know what i did i was woundering if i there was anything i can do that would make her want to you know still do stuff with me well i really need some help you know. well ireally hope my girlfriend Megan dont find out i asked this question or she will kill me so please dont say ne thing to ne one thank you and please help (link)
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well what you need to do is find out what the problem is and find out what happened i mean come on if you were doing stuff and she just up and left there has to be a problem just go and wait i guess and find out what happened or you can go up and talk and like ask "that night was pretty nice but i was wondering why ya left"? or something like that go ahead and improvise on the question cause ya need to find out:P
~Dom
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me and my boyfriend were watchin a movie and there was a sex scene and i looked at him and he had a boner. and i dunno what to say to him (link)
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well he was probably watching it and just turned him on i guess or maybe he was thinking about you two and (god knows what:P) well if you feel comfortable you could always say
"hmm i see your excited about something whats up?:P"
although im not sure exactly:P lol i dont know what kind of person you are but if ya can tell me then i can tell you a more accurate answer:P i hope i helped a lil
~Dom
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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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it could just be a phase where you dont like guys for a while it just depends on how you are:P but if you really like girls and if you like guys you could be bi or if you really do like girls only and not guys then your gonna have to find out and if you do find out your a lesbian you could either change how you are or you can just accept the fact your are a lesbian and go with it but if it makes you feel sick and if you turn out to be bi then marry a guy and get a girlfriend and such:P im sure the guy wont mind much(A) lol i hope i helped
~Dom
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if youve never even been kissed how do u know how to give good head and all this stuff? do u watch porn? (link)
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nope never watched porn all my life except for one time and that was kinda weird cause i walked in on my friend which was a girl and she was watching porn:P lol but other than that no but the reason i know how is that i heard other people talk about it and such and they are really good at it and if i heard around 10 to 11 people talk about the same thing and end up with good oral sex then its bound to be good:P
~Dom
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i was at this party the other night and i met this guy. he was really hott so we went upstairs and were makin out and he fngered me and now i hurt really bad...is that normal? cuz i've ben fingered before and it never hurt (link)
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it depends of how fast he fingered you and if he had fingernails or not it just depends its alot better if your wet before you get fingered but if your not wet it might also hurt ya everytime i hope i helped with the advice
~Dom
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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'? (link)
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69 is a sex position and what it means to be wet is when a girl gets all wet when shes horny well i hope i helped
~Dom
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i walked in on y 17 year old brother and my best friends boyfriend having sex. i dunno what to do should i tell my best friend? and should i tell my parents? i dont know how to talk to my brother about it even though i've know that hes gay for a long time. HELP PLEASE!!
P.S. your really hott (link)
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well what you should do is probably talk to your brother just sit with him and just sit maybe dont talk at all just be comfortable with him since hes gay and all and see if he talks to you about it im not sure about talking to your best friend about it but it also may be a good idea it depends its all up to you if you should tell your parents but i should say that maybe your brother should tell them instead and let them get to know it from him
~Dom
p.s. how in the heck do you know im hott?:P lol who is this?:P
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ok i had unprotected sex 6 days ago and i havent got my period. i'm only 14 so i cant tell my parents what should i do? (link)
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well if you missed a cycle what you should do is go ahead and ask one of your most trusted friends to get you a pregnacy test and go and get tested if your pregnant your gonna have to tell your parents sooner or later if your not pregnant then you dont have anything to worry about:) i hoped i helped
~Dom
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how do you know if you have herpes? cuz i think i do (link)
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you get a lot of sores near the genital area and they hurt a lil which you have to go to the doctor for i hope you dont have it
~Dom
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how do you give good head? (link)
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well what you do is go ahead and rub him a lil bit and when you go and suck and lick his head keep on rubbing his shaft over and over while you do it and maybe surprise him a lil and completely put him in your mouth it all depends on the man and for one thing i am not a porno watcher i got the information off a website called
www.ask.com
so dont criticize me!!!! geez!!
~Dom
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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!! (link)
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well your not a slut for one thing, but you got to think of something you went and had sex the first day you guys found out you liked each other you got to wonder since you went and said you liked him first that he might also just say he liked you too just to go and have sex with you im not sure but it sounded like he went and rushed things and also that he just wanted sex at first im not sure if he truely loves you or somethin but ya got to think about it. thats my advice
~Dom
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Ok i need sum good songs to download and i cant think of any so if u have n e plz tell me thanx a lot!!!!
Caitlin* (link)
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Well there are songs by Rob Zombie, Disturbed, Powerman 5000, Dashboard Confessions, those kind of songs. What i do mostly is just download a song and if its good i look who sang it and then i go and look at his albumn. Your choice though:P
~Dom
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i am a 13 year old girl and my parents r over protective i cant have a bf until i am in college i cant go to the mall wit my friends and i cant go to the movies unless i am wit my cusion or parents.when ever my friends call and ask me to go places wit them i never can. i have a bf right noe and he wants me to tell my parents about me and him but i cant?what should i do? (link)
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Well what you should do is talk to your boyfriend about what is happening and whats going to happen if you tell your parents. Or what you can do is have your boyfriend come to visit and be polite and everything for your parents to accept him then later on they will probably go ahead and give you permission and go with him. And also what you need to do is probably talk to your parents and say that you are old enough for to going out with friends and such cause even teenagers have to have fun these days. i hope i helped you.
~Dom
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mmk I got a question. My friend is really really flirty, and is very outgoing and pretty. She talks to my boyfriend, and I didn't know this. I am kind of jealous of her in a way bc my boyfriend talks about her a lot, and I am getting a bad vibe from this. I asked my friend if she liked my bf and she said only as a friend and besides that he likes me. I only hope, but how she said it was kinder suspicious. I don't want anything to get in the way of our friendship, esp. a guy, but I don't know what to do. ;p help pweese (link)
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well what you should do is talk to your boyfriend about this or to another friend. Once your boyfriend knows that your concerned and also that you dont want to lose him could also see that you would want to stay with him, which can pull you two together a lot more than what you have now. If you talk to another friend you can always ask him/her for advice as well and go and talk to your boyfriend then. I hoped i helped ya.
~Dom
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ok well I am Indian and my parents are like WAY over protective..and like they won't let me have a boyfriend until what? like I'm in colege or something!? I mean come on its on like old times anymore..Its like every Indian parent thinks that and it's just crazy...like I can't even have a guy come over...or like go to a guy's house just for FUN...even if they're my friends...HELP! (link)
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well for one thing if your in college and things that means you should be 18 or above in which you can run your own life if your parents wont let you just go against their wishes cause they cant control your life anymore. If you keep listening to them all your life you are going to be controlled all your life. I hoped i helped
~Dom
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