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ok theres this guy i like and im not sure if this girl whos my enemy is still going out with him but i like him and she likes him and he like sits buy me at luch and will talk to me in the halls and plays pranks on me but he flirts with her alot to but when hes around her hes like different to me but at the movies he was out side and he came running up when i came and hes like hey whats up! so does he like me or not i really like him but if he likes my enemy then hes nothing like me? or not and how could i get him to llike me more oh and hes the alaroud nice guy and hes into sports

~not sure

ok i had this same problem (kinda). now he likes you but hes trying to hide it. he really likes his gf and you have to understand that. but be sure that when he breaks up with her he'll be all over you. but theres nothing wrong with guiding him along the way. be more athletic and make sure he notices that. be funny and an interesting person. it sounds like hes always around and you can use that as an advantage. make him laugh and just have fun with it. now whe he's with his gf and he acts different. thats totally understandable. he still has a gf that he likes and hes like just trying to hide you. (so your kinda like his dirty little secret lol) =D

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ok ever since it turned summer here ( arkansas ) i have been losing weight. in the winter, i was 114 and now that it is summer i am 109. is this bad that i am losing weight?

as long as your not crazy skinny. maybe your diet has changed. in the winter your body fluid stays inside you more. that could be it. its hot in arkansas and its summer. you could have lost that weight. just watch yourself and what you eat.

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ok im trying to figure out why guys dont flirt with me the way they do with other girls. not that i really want them to right now (i have a bf), but i just wonder why they dont. not to sound conceited, but people tell me im pretty, and i've heard of guys saying im "hot". i'm popular i guess (cheerleader, president of student council), i'm in honors classes and get all As, and i'm always nice to everyone and i dont get involved in any drama. guys talk to me and all, but not in the same flirty way they do to other girls. is it because i have a boyfriend? (i dont think so, cuz guys seem to flirt with other girls who have bfs). so what is it? do u have to be a slut to be attractive to guys? not that i'm gonna turn into one... i just wonder.

truthfully some girls DO have to be a slut but you shouldnt. it could just be because you have a bf. you said you were popular so everyone should know. and everyone wants to date a cheerleader! once you brake up with your bf they'll be all over you.

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im 16/f. what are some 'summer essentials' i should get. like makeup & lotions & hair stuff. i cant really think of anything. ideas are appreciated. thanks!!

ok well its summer so no heavy close. this is swim season so go out and buy a nice sexy outfit. get a tan. no dark colors wear some yellow whit and pink etc. no heavy makeup. light bright colors. clear lipgloss for example.

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im not really hairy....but whenever i shave my armpits, theres still little, little black shadow

i want it jsut to look like theres absolutly NO HAIR under my arms and its all just normal skin...

how can i do that?

is there any way to shave it differently or hold my arm when doing it?

hold your arm high. hair grows differently. you have to shave up and down side to side and every which way. but remember armpit hair grows realy fast. use a clean and sharp new razor.

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Maybe i'm just paranoid, but...

I feel like things are crawling in my 'down there' area. I mean IN it. It feels really, really weird, and ucomfortable. I've looked to see if anything is there, but there doesn't seem to be. IS there any reason i would be feeling these things? And what might it be and how can i make it stop?

go get it checked out. their could be a yeast infection or something. dont leave it alone it could be serious.

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How can you tell whether someone is a good kisser or a bad kisser?? Just wondering

when your having fun. and you want to keep kissing. and you cant wait for the next. =D and you feel just HAPPY, you know

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I have a big problem! I have a report on lima beans due on TUESDAY! It needs to be five paragraphs, and I can't find much information on Google. Can anyone give me a site with a good amount of info on lima beans? Or better, can anyone give me some facts?


Shannon

http://www.foodreference.com/html/flimabeans.html

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how do models and people get their mascara to look like this?

http://a966.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/63/l_63681325b01c091d1c228ac52e0a0245.jpg

volumized mascara. also most models use fake eylashes to bring out their eyes and make them more fuller

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this guy i like is the cutest smartest funniest guy i have ever met. one problem though. he is the most quiet guy i have ever met. hes really hard to talk to becuase he only nods his head in response or something similar. how do i get him to warm up to me? im 14/f btw.

well i had a problem like before to. the boy was funny and cool. but he was still really quiet. so be funny to. be interesting and draw his attention. be cool and breezy adn friendly. smile alot and say jokes. act like your awesome! (bascically have confidence) make eye contact without staring at him. and stay close to him without stalking him

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This is a silly question but I am gettin braces 2moro. And I was wondering, can you still kiss when you have braces? Does it hurt? Thanks in advance.

yes of course you can kiss. and actually boys are drawn to braces. (i dont know why) i guess they think it looks good. the braces could cut if you kiss wrong or are aggressive.

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Friday, the guy I've liked for about a month and I hooked up (as in made out, NOT sex!) Anyways, he's really hot and popular and stuff, but he's the WORST kisser in the world! I don't even understand what he was doing?!?! Like basically what he did was like stick out his tongue and bob it in and out of my mouth... so it was kinda like sex? haha...
Anyways how can I make it so that he's a good kisser because we're basically now going to be friends with benefits and probably make out a lot.
I need advice now and EVERYTHAANNNGGGG is appreciated!

=]

tell him. that sounds realy wierd the way he kissed. if your gonna make out then it should be fun not gross. teach the poor boy. show him what to do. you dont have to be mean if your worried about hurting him. he will be embarrassed and not want to kiss you at the moment but he'll learn. and if he's stubborn and he thinks he's doing fine then tell him now more kisses till he gets it done right =) [that'll show 'em lol}

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A few nights ago me and my boyfriend for a little over a year went further sexually and he ending up eating me out.this was something i swore i would never do because i thought of it as repulsive. At first when he was asking i told him no but eventually i gave in.. after we were done i cried. I dont know why I cried.. i mean i love him and everything and it was my choice.. i dont know whats going on. I need help. why did I cry??

because it was personal and private and something you were trying to save. but you lost it.

yoy could be releifed and happy that you shared it with your man though. you could be feeling happy and just letting your emotions all out.

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ive never seen shrek the third, but in a commerical i saw him and fiona in a bed and it looked clear that shrek was naked.. what was this scene about? i thought little kids watched this? if anyone watched shrek 3, can you please explain this scene to me? thank you!

they were sleeping together (and apparantely thats how fiona got pregnant) it isnt very kid friendly.

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for guys---- any special things you want a girl to do to you when you make out.

for girls------ anything you did that a guy liked?

any make out tips?

neck kisses! (Omarian even said HE liked that)

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everbody(even guys) keeps asking me who i like,but i actully dont like anyone....
how do i get them to stop asking without me having to find someone?

tell them. you dont like som1 and thats all. and if they dont believe you then get mad. they shouldnt be doing that and its a private matter. dont NOT say anything. (like when they say you like someone dont just sit there being quiet. or they'll think its true.) tell everyone that you dont like someone. be serious. dont laugh or smile in a teasing way when you say it. stick to your guns. (meaning stay with the same story) exampple- when somone asks you and you tell that you dont, and then another asks you dont tell him a different story. keep with the original

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What does it mean when someone says " he went down on me"

he had sex with you

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Do guys like girls with small, medium or big boobs. Small, medium, or big, ass? Tall or short? What color hair? And what qualities?

big... it depends on the guy. preps like it small. emos dont care. but the guys i like, like big butts.... i dont know about color hair. i think prepps prefer blondes. most guys would say they like tall girls. boys like girls to be athletic abd a romantic/funny/interesting personality. but the most shallow boys just want a girl with a pretty face

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i want to spice things up a little bit between me nad my man. I want to do something really romantic and sexy. What should I do?

romantic is a movie at home alone (not at the movies). romantic is making it fancy and sophisticated. like make a nice dinner (going all out) then topping it off with a snuggle movie. comedies lighten the mood but not romantic. romance is good but guys might think its boring (and give him ideas). adventures will keep him interested. have a blanket at cuddle with your boo. snacks will make him happy too!

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what does "ride or die" mean?

like when someone says "your my ride or die"

pretty much in the song I'm Sprung 2.

??

it means you eaither do it or your dont. (and if you dont you'll be in trouble)

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