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E-mail: poohluvr904@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Glen Cove, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: ButterflyKizzxx3
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 164
Last Update: August 10, 2004
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I have a lot of guy friends and my mom hates that. Bcuz i dont have very many girl friends. I have maybe 2 or 3 that go to my school. So my mom is a lil worried that a have to many guy friends and im spending to much time with guys im mean im not a tom-boy im really a prep but ever since last year i hav had a bad rep bcuz i made-out with this guy a lot. So not many girls wanna be my friend for some reason. How can i tell my mom that Boys are the only friends that i have. Or how can a bcome friends with girls?
-CutieT- (link)
Tell you mom that you get along better with boys. I do I know that. For girls you might have to act different around them. Just start up a conversation at lunch in school or something. Agree with them a lot. Then they'll start too like you. Hope I helped!


HeLp! im thinking about buying NEUTROGENA BLACKHEAD ELIMINATING SCRUB...it says it eliminates blackheads...but i got clean 'n' clear blackhead clearing scrub, and that said it did that also, but it didnt! so, im asking...does the Neutrogena blackhead scrub ACTUALLY get *RID* of blackheads?? i need to know soon because im about to go shopping! thx! (link)
Yes that does work. But also Biore' Strips works much better. They are these strips you put on your nose and then rip them off and the blackheads all come off. If you want all of them to come off first you have to steam your face. Which means you fill a bowl with steaming hot water and but you face over it for about 2 minutes..then put the strip on for 10 minutes and the peel it off. It doesn't hurt and it works great! Hope I helped!


hey. im really skinny so its hard to find tight fitting jeans like i want. i shop everywhere and i cant really find jeans that arent a lil baggy. i shop at hollister, abercrombie, pacsun, nordstrom, marshall fields, some designer stores u havent heard of and more.. and i cant find any good tight fitting jeans. even the slim sizes arent tighter, they just fit better around the waste. where should i shop? thanxx
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When you go into stores go into the petite sections and look for 00. And if your smaller then that try kid stores no offense. But you'll find smaller jeans that will fight you perfectly in there. Hope I helped!


I want to be a singer.. how do I get like a person to MAKE me one!? PLease answer -andrea- (link)
You can get a vocal coach. Look in the phone book or newspaper for a vocal coach. They'll help your voice become better and teach you warm-ups and stuff. Good Luck!


I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?

*Flabbergausted*
i like that word =P (link)
I agree with you. You should wait until marriage or unless you in love but a lot older. A lot of these questions are about sexual things mostly. You know what I'm talking about. If you wanna talk drop one in my inbox!


I have this guyy in my rade and he like one of my guy frends and i started to like him well one of my other guy friends told him that sio now he know and i just got back form the beach and he was on the intronet so i talked to him and i asked him if his feelings have changed and he kinda likd mbut it is not a good time to have a gf cause he wont see me case school is out and he dont live in town what should i do?? (link)
Well you guys probably won't see each other cause school is it out. But try hanging out with him until summer is over, and then when school starts up again ask him if he still has feelings for you. So if you hang out with him he'll probably still have feelings for you! Hope I helped!


i need braces and im most likely getting invisalign. my friend told me that they get dirty really easily n crap... has anyone ever had them? r they good? (link)
First I got real braces, then after I got those taken off I used the invisalign as a retainer which help. They are good, but I wouldn't get them as the braces. Hope I helped!


Ive liked this guy for a really long time and my friend told me that he told her (hah) that he liked me but this was a while ago during school but he never said anything to me or even hinted that he liked me so i dont know what to do should I ask him if he does like me ask him out or hint to him that i like him or what...??? (link)
If you trust the friend that told you, then drop some hints that you like him like on the computer or something, or you can ask him if he still likes you. If he does still like you he'll get it and say something. Good Luck! Hope I helped!


I've been answering questions but I only have one page....No other pages will come up w/ my other questions...so wussup w/ thaT? (link)
It takes awhile for it to load. It updates hourly but it sometimes takes overnight or 2 days. That happened to me at first and it took overnight. Hope I helped!


srry, this is a weird question but its bugging me.... it takes my hair 3 hours to air dry, and like 20 mins to blow dry... is this normal? cuz its realli annoying.. thanx (link)
Yes, its perfectly normal. The air is different the a blowdryer, so it would take longer with anyone's hair. Hope I helped!


how come when i ask a question itll take like an hour or two to actually show up and get answered? (link)
It takes that long because the administators have to look it over and the moderators have to rate them to see if it should go on the page. Hope I helped!


There are a few girls at my skool who have extreme problems with jealousy. They're mean to me and a few other girls bcuz their obviously jealous. i tell my friends that it really bugs me but they just tell me that their jealous and not to worry about it.. i shouldnt worry about it rite? thanx (link)
No just let it go. People have lots of problems with jealousy. Eventually those girls will come around and just realize they shouldn't be jealous of everyone. Hope I helped!


i'm afraid of like all bugs, not like littlemoths, or butterflies or stuff, but of like spiders, and silverfish. I scream whenevr there are spiders in my shower, i have also refused to go in my bathroom because i have found more then 2 silverfish. am i obsessing? (link)
No, that's very normal. Everyone is scared of something, and yours happens to be bugs. Your not obsessing. Just before you go in your bathroom have someone check the bathroom for you for anything in there or you do it yourself. Hope I helped!


i'm almost 13 and I still like watching cartoons, some of my closet friends still watch cartoons, but some of them only watch MTV and stuff. Should I stop watching My cartoons? (link)
No! Cartoons are mad cool. Don't change what you do just because your friends don't watch cartoons. If you happen to put on MTV and find something interesting on it then watch it. But cartoons are perfectly fine! Hope I helped!


me and my friend meet a few guys at an amusement park and my friend and the one guy hit it off right there... but his friend likes me and i dont like him like that i would rather be friends with him... and i'm crushing on someone else.. and i think that person feels the same way... what should i do? should i tell him that i like someone else and i think he's digging me too, should i tell him that i just want to be friends... i dont know.... can you help me?

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Well you just met the guy, so yeah I would tell him you like someone else and that you just wanna be friends. He'll probably back off and be alright with it because you guys don't know each other that well. Good Luck!


Are braces a turn off to guys? Im going into high school this year. (link)
No braces are not a turn off. Lots of people have braces, even guys do. It's perfectly fine. Hope I helped!


I am 12 years old and I weigh 96lbs and i'm about 4 foot 5ish, all my friends weigh about that but on this site i've seen girls my age who weigh more than this, i am normal? (link)
That's perfectly normal. Your probably just built tiny or your family's tiny. Hope I helped!


Well, I log in and it says "Inbox (2 new)". I click, but there are no new questions.

What's up? (link)
The box needs to refresh. It'll take overnight or a couple of days. Good Luck!


how many sheets are in a toilet paper roll? i always wondered everytime i use the bathroom (link)
There are about usually 200, look on the package, it'll tell you.


There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do? (link)
I have the same exact problem. What I do is I ignore him the week he's being a total asshole but then the other times where he's being nice I flirt like crazy with him. That's what you should do. There's no stopping his personality it just happens. If you wanna talk IM me at Butterflykizzxx3. Good Luck!




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