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So me and this guy have been best friends for like ever. It's an extremely complicated relationship. Long story short, we've never wanted to date but we've always been extremely physically attracted to each other. We hooked up for the first time ever last night. It was so random. Literally, we were honestly just bored and did it. He told me he didn't want to tell anyone. And I agree, people shouldn't know but I wanted to tell my girl best friend. He said "no, please, I would be extremely upset if you told her. I don't want anyone to know because I don't want people to look at our relationship differently or start treating us differently. I don't want things to change." and I agree. I don't want things to change. So I told him okay. But I told my girl best friend anyway!! :( and at first I was so relieved. I felt sick not tellig her. And now I feel sick forrrr telling her. And I have this paranoid feeling that she told her boyfriend who is friends with my guy best friend. I don't know. I completely trust her, and her boyfriend is so whipped even if he did know, he wouldn't tell. But I'm so nervous now that he's gonna know I told her and this all sounds so childish and immature but this boy means a lot to me. And I don't want this fact that we hooked up to ruin our friendship. And I domt want it to be because I couldn't keep my mouth shut. What can I do to cover my ass??? (I'm 16/F he's 17/M) (link)
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Well, if "did it" means sex, then I think you are WAY too young to do that, because you are 16...
But, you should stay together. If you two havd been best friends for a long time, and you have feelings for each other, than stay as a couple.
And if telling your friend is uncomfortable, than tell her you were joking. If she doesn't believe you, than ask her if she has told anyone.
I hope I helped :)
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