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heyy, im Rachel and im 15 w/ blonde hair & blue eyes. im a sophmore at RMHS [soon to be junior!].
i LOVE meeting new people & helping people w/ problems, so ask away!!



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hiya.
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I really liked someone and he asked me who i liked...i told him to say first and he named my two bffs in the whole wide world...i'm crushed...please help ASAP!

hey!--first of all, lets call this guy that you like *bob*...i think you should stay really good friends with bob..i mean, it might be better just as friends and then if u guys were to go out, when u guys broke up, it wouldnt ruin a friendship. but really, just stay really good friends with bob!!! i know it hurts to know that he likes ur best friends.. :-\ but we all have those problems and i've gone through it maaaaaaany times. but just stick as friends and later on, who knows..u could go out with him!!!!!! hehe. well i hope i helped! and if u need ne more advice or just want to chat..u can IM me...RachBayb08.
later
much

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hey rachel,
i hav a boyfriend and hes a twin.so u should no who dis is .since we sit a launch together.but we never talk and never c each other.all of my friends think i should break up wit him.but i still lyk him but i dont lyk him treating me lyk crap.should i break up wit him or should i talk it out?

hey! yeah i know who this is....i think that if he's really going to be an a$$ about it and treat you like crap..you really shouldnt have a bf like that...so i think u should probably break up with him and just maybe be friends..but really, if hes going to do that to you..you definetly deserve so much better
hope i helped, much

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see rach theres this guy that i met at summer camp the summer before last and i fell in LOVE with him and people told me he liked me too a few times and idk i guess i started to believe it and i havent talked to him since last october but im still IN LOVE with him , i think, but i know for CERTAIN that i wanna be his friend if anything, and i want to talk to him because we haven't talked in soo long. you know who this is, and i just wanna say i LOVE YOU! and i feel really depressed rite now

heyyy!!!! i love you too to start off..lol and i always will! hehe and i am here for you..
but ne ways, down to business..
well, i seriously think that you should IM him and talk to him!! or..like i said before when i was talking to you on AIM, i could talk to him for you if u want babe..i will always be up for that, and always be here for you!!! i love you soo much and i know what ur going through right now...
:)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
much

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hiii rach its ****. haha i was reading some of the advice u have given and i read jose's one. i was wondering if this is the guy who goes out with karen? he seems sweet .. very sweet. yeah just wondering on that .. lol mmk im outt ! good job on advice n all * xoxo muah

ps if u would be a doll and get back to me on that ? id appreciate it cuutie

hey! no that's not the same jose that's going out with karen..but hey ****!!!!!! lol..ttyl u can IM me if u want..RachBayb08, if u dont already have it..much

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Dewoody this is will. wanted to let you know that i love and your always on my mind. i cant live a day without your dorky smile, your horny laugh, and you use of language. Everyday i tlak to you u make me feel like i have a freind. And i want u to know even though i go with your eneymy leslie;)
if u ever asked for me to come back id be there as soon as my mom got home. lol ;) I couldn't tell u this in your face caue it would seem acward. And i mean this from the bottom of my heart. (but you'll never be better than me in advice!!!!! ;)]

o man u got me there will...
but i'll still win!!!!!! lol

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I really like this guy lets say his name is Mark* well Mark* came over on Halloween and we were flirting ALOT then his g/f came in and he got all like not like he wuz before...i really like Mark* and i think he likes me.. i just dont want to like him if he has a g/f...what should i do?

In Or Out?

hey! i think u should talk to him about it! just sit down and talk about it and explain to him that you like him but you dont want to interfere with him and his gf. but just talk to him, and maybe he likes u back!! but sometimes, its better to stay really good friends and theres always a reason for that :)
hope i helped! u can IM me ne time or ask advice.
RachBayb08 --my sn
much

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i am in love with a girl, she used to like me but she for some reason "stopped"...i found out recently that she snuck out with her friend and two guys and went somewhere and was making out with this guy for like 2 hours and i thought me and her had something, she said he was really nice and they just clicked and hes a sophomore at my school, although me and her "clicked" supposedly and i was nicer to her than any guy could ever imagine being to her...she told me not to be mad at her, hate her, or stop talking to her because that would be fucked up...please dont tell me to get over it and everything...ive tried and theres more to it but im sure youll get bored reading this long page...ill rate a 5 if you give me a helpful answer...WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!

hey! well i think you should sit down and just talk to her about this..tell her how you feel about her and feel about this situation that is going on, and let her tell you how she feels as well. but i dont think u should hate her, just try to work things out with her :)
hope i helped!! much

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Hi Rachel it's me Jose...i guess it's time for me to give u something to give me advice to. Well me and my friend Julie we are good friends but she went out with this guy and in my opinion i didn't think it was her type of guy. They broke up and now she's mad at me because i told her my opinion and she didn't like it.She said i was judging the guy without knowing and all these other comments. Well Rachel i need u more than ever on this please help me...i don't wanna lose her as a friend because she's a good one. I really need ur help on this.

hey! i think you should just sit down and talk to her about this...she really needs to know that just because you don't necessarily like this guy, that it shouldn't ruin your friendship. :) hope i helped, much love..
~*rachel*~

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Hey, I heard that if you were born after 1990, you can't get your temporary lisence until you are 16. Is this true?

hey! yeah i've heard that too!! i dont think the law is passed yet though..
RachBayb08---IM me if u want

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Hi i'm a male 16 from Florida. I like this girl called Yani and she likes me...so obviously we should go out...but i have had alot of problems in my past relationship and alot of bad luck.. I don't want to lose Yani because i like her too much but..like i'm afraid i'm going to mess-up Please help me...

hey! well, i think u should keep it as really good friends for now, until u think ur really ready to start a relationship if u think ur gonna mess up. and also, talk to her about how u feel that u dont want to mess things up between u guys if u were to ever go out..and then she'll understand im sure. and you guys can do things together still and be the best of friends! hope things work out, good luck!! :) hope i helped, if u want to IM me or email me..feel free
RachBayb08 or honeybuns530
email: re.dewoody@verizon.net
much

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Okay, so I'm 14 and a female. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago because he 'wanted to stop dating for awhile'. I pretended not to care and all this. My friends ended up getting all up in it and now he knows I still love him and he said he loved me, but I think he was lying. I still haven't directly told him I still love him because he said he didn't want to go out with anyone for awhile and I totally respect his wishes. My friends just don't get this. What should I do? Because I mean, I'd do anything to get my boyfriend back, I just don't think he's really in to me anymore.

hey hey! i think u should talk to both ur friend and ur ex and just sit down and talk to them about this and tell them how u feel and all. then maybe u and ur bf can get back together when u guys work things out!! :) well, i hope i helped, good luck!! if u want, u can IM me..RachBayb08
much

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Okay, so i was going out with this boy for a 2 months. i loved him so much and i still do! but my friends were really mean to him and stuff and so i dumped him because i thought it would just be better for him and everyone else since they like hated him. but then i found out that they didn't really hate him they just like him. But i dumped him before that and then he got really mad at me. Was it right to dump him in the first place? sorry this is long and i hope that made sense!

hey hey! i think u should talk to him about this, and see what his point of view is..i think he'll understand if u talk it through :) i mean, i dont think it was ur fault when u dumped him because u didnt know that ur friends didnt hate him, and u had no idea til afterwards that they liked him..so no thats not ur fault, but just sit down and talk to him about this and maybe u guys can go out again!! :) well, i hope i helped!!! if u want, u can IM me...RachBayb08
much

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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous?

hey hey! ur probably jealous because since u have known him so long, u guys r really really close (im assuming..) so when he has a gf, maybe u think he'll be more close to her and not talk to u

hope i helped! if u want to IM me, u can...RachBayb08 --much

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ok look me and my friend have been friends for about ever since i have moved to here in the U.S.A we are both in 8th grade. But latley my other friend cory Has been spreading rumors that me and my friend are going out i mean she is a cool person and we flirt a lot but we are nothing more then friends. Could it be possible that she likes me i meen i dunno the signs if a girl does like me what are the signs???

greatly apreaciated

hey hey! well, girls flirt a lot..lol i have to admit that, but some signs would be that she talks a lot about u to her friends and flirts LOTS with u..if u have ne friends (girls or guys) that r friends with her, have them talk to her and see what she thinks about u..
well, hope i helped! good luck, much

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okay, i've done out with this boy lets say.. *mike* 2 times. once one year, and once the next. i've liked him for like 3 years. the first time he asked me out, it lasted 3 months, and i dumped him for reasons that werent his fault. the 2nd time i asked him out and he dumped me for my friend but he totally like hates it now. so now this year we both like eachother and i still really like him but should i just give up on going out with him or what?? i dont know what to do? this may sound dumb and i dont really know how to explain it but if you get it then please help me! lol thanx sorry its so long

hey hey! well i think u should sit down and talk to him about this, and talk about how u guys can have a longer relationship, and make promises together. i think if u know him well enough and u like him a lot, go for it and see what happens!! well, i hope i helped. good luck!! if u want to IM me, u can..RachBayb08 --much

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Ok, there's 2 people you'll have to know for this there's:

Steph: she's a sweet 9 year old girl, she lived next door to me, and she moved 4 months ago

Adam: He is Steph's big step brother, he's 14. he came every other weekend to Stephs house.

well, I had this biiig crush on Adam,a nd I was soo sad when they left. it all hit me as i watched the moving van drive off, that I loved him, I started crying remembering all the great memories. we've played spin the bottle he kissed me, that was my first kiss. and my last. it was just a kiss on the cheek, but it really ment a lot to me. well, a few weeks after Steph moved, I IMed Adam, and told him I Liked him. we hadn't talken ever since. or at least till yesterday, he e-mailed me. he told me that he really loved me back, and that he was going to tell me in real life, apperently he came over last Saturday, but I was at a biig choir performance. I couldn't belive it, i'm about ready to go nuts!!!I don't know what to do, he lives 3 hours away, I dont' have his phone number or anything. sombobdy please help me, I'll give out 5's!!!

hey! aww, thats so sad but thats awesome that he likes u back!! ask him if u can call him sometime, and then maybe on the weekend if u and him r free, u guys can visit each other!! and if u dont have time for that, then u guys could just talk over the phone (better than nuthin :) ) and IM and email...then once u guys can figure a plan out, u guys should meet up and see what happens!! well, i hope i helped, good luck!! if u want to IM me, u can...RachBayb08 --much

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Ok here is my problem!!...

There is this guy i like.. Lets call him rascal..
He brings me to school everyday and takes me home when he has time. He offers to do this 4 me!! IDK y tho. I like him A LOT!!! he knows that too. But today he asked me to go to the Mt. Pleasant Halloween Parade to watch him. Im going anyways because my little sister is a cheerleader and shes in it too. But anyways.. Does this sound like he likes me? Or what the heck is goin on?
He also told me that hes gonna make sure i c him in the firetruck!! Should i be scared or not?
Then this weekend we're going to this party for halloween. Do you think anything special will happen? I hope.. I like him very much!!
We text messege each other all day while hes in tech. and while i have freshman classes.
What should i do?

Signed..
Alf Alfinator

hey! that's cool!! i think if u feel comfortable, make the first move or let him do that..w/e u feel comfortable with is cool!! but thats awesome..but it seriously sounds like he likes u!!!!!!! :) well, hope i helped and good luck!! if u want to IM me, you can..RachBayb08..much

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Ok so I've liked this one guy for 4 or 5 years, and last year we went out and made out and stuff and then we stopped talking and he started talkin to me at the beginning of the school year and I was so happy because I still like him ALOT and he flirts with me all the time and last week he decided that he wasn't going to talk to me anymore AGAIN, after we already planned a date for this weekend and he told my friend he's mad at me for no reason and i feel kinda betrayed. what should i do? i've tried everything, i tried IMing him like 15 times and all i got was "**** off" and "i dont want to talk to u" and i tried callin his cell but he wouldn't answer. i cried alot this week because of it and it really hurts me.

hey! if he's gonna act like that, then obviously u deserve so much more. a guy like that isnt worth it, if hes going to break ur heart like that. so maybe u should just let him alone for a while and see if he comes to you. if u want to, try to talk to him in person or write him a note or have one of his friends talk to him about it.
hope all goes well!! if u want to talk to me more, IM me or email, honeybuns530 or RachBayb08 or email, re.dewoody@verizon.net
hope i helped, much

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hey. i really like this guy and we went out last year. i miss him soo much! i dont wanna tell ne one tho cuz my friends made fun of me for goin out w/ him. what should i do?

-LuvStruck-

hey! why did ur friends make fun of you for going out with him?! i think that you should tell him how you feel and talk about how ur inerested in getting back together with him. if he doesn't want to go back out with you for some reason, it's probably better off as friends. and also, if he doesn't want to go out with u again, just telling him how you feel and to let it all out will make u feel sooo much better! talk about it with him, and maybe he'll want to get back together!! im sure he will want to!! hehe ---well, i hope i helped!! much love,
~*rachel*~

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i like this boy and so does my BESTFRIEND and like its really weird because i liked him for the longest time and she just started loiking him but she acts like she called him or something and i really dont know what to do ?? will you help me!

hey! you should talk to your friend about how you feel, and ask her how you feel. maybe if you sit down and chat with her about this, she'll understand how much you like him, and then maybe she won't flirt so much if she really knows that you like him that much. does she know you like him?
hope i helped! you can talk to me more about this, or just chat, by IMing me--- honeybuns530 or BehindBluEyes892 or email, re.dewoody@verizon.net
much

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