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Q: ive been dating a guy for six months, and im totally in love beyond belief. so was he. he went to camp and met a new girl that he likes and she likes him. he says he loves me. but notas much as before. he also said hes going on vacation to decide who hes going to choose. he mentioned as well, that if we got back together, he might do this again. omg, what should i do? just when i thought i was over him, i had a dream abouthim. im so lost
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He probably luvs u both, but honestly cant choose. Give him time. And respect his decision. That way, if he breaks up with her and cums bak to u, he wont have to remember about u freakin out the last time, cuz u didnt! I know its hard to let people go, but wen u do, it cud mean there's sumone out there much better for u.
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Q: i need help. i like my best friend. and im not sure if he likes me. and i really like him. he says if we go out it could ruin our relationship. but hes went out with almost all of his best friends.i want his so bad. i havnt had a boyfriend for a long time, and this could be my chance PLEASE DONT DELETE I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED!
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He's actually right. If u guys do go out, it probably would ruin yur relationship becuz what happens wen u break up? Despite wat u say, u wont be as close with eachother as u used to be. It's okay to be really close and sometimes act like u guys are going out. That way, u'll be with him, but he'll still have the freedom of being with who he wants. Just make sure he's ok with this. U dont have to ask him, but if he goes along with it, you'll know. This strategy is perfect becuz u guys will still be friends, and no two people are closer then good friends. Keep that in mind.
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Q: i dont know whats wrong with me. my current b/f was my first kiss and ...other things. but hes told me about all the other times hes made out with girls and he suposidly liked me when he made out with one of them at his dads camp. i had liked him then too. but he doesnt go to the same school as me...and his best friend is always checking out girls so he always points them out to my b/f. i just dont know how to stop thinking about it so much. i know he loves me and he wants to marry me(we're 15 but still...)i dont know how to get it out of my head and when i think about it i cry...please help me.
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Talk to him about how he REALLY feels. Tell him that you should be the only one that he loves, and that he shouldn't be checking out other girls.
He needs to be more faithful. I know you probably worry that he's at another school, and he could be looking at girls behind your back, but you should trust him not to do that. After you talk to him, if this continues then it might be a sign that you two should break up.
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Q: ok...here was my question before and thanks to all that answered it. "i was talking to this guy i like (he likes me too)about personal stuff, and he said that he was more submissive. and it was really random...do you think he was trying to tell me something, like getting me to make the first move? or was he just saying that."
well i asked him about hanging out and we've been trying to get together...but we cant find a time. and i dont know what to say anymore. i want to be able to say something like "hey since you like me and i like you lets seriously find sometime to hang out." but im the shyest person ever and dont know if i can bring myself to say that...if you have any suggestions that would be awesome! thanks
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I think he was trying to say something. A lot of guys are shy, too, so he might not be ready to tell you how he feels by a fear of rejection. Continue being friends with him, and casually ask him questions like, "Wouldn't it be cool if we were going out? That would be so funny." Just keep it casual. And who knows, something could progress from there.
*Airie
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Hello everyone. I'm a college student who loves giving advice and helping people work out their problems. I'll always give an honest answer. I have had many life experiences both good and bad, and they will give me insight into how to answer your question. Feel free to contact me anytime and I will do my best to lift your spirits!
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