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Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one.

Touchdown Turnaround - HelloGoodbye

Lying is the most fun a girl can have without taking off her clothes - Panic! at the disco

Polymarous ( im pretty sure thats how you spell it) - Breaking Benjamin

Dear Jaimie - HelloGoodbye

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Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do?

Wear a tampon with a pad .. that way you have mroe protection for those two hours .. and you shouldnt have a problem

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what are those bikini things cheerleaders wear under their skirts? ever since bring it on came out i've called them spankies but what is the real name?

Bloomers

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Hey!
I can never find jeans that fit!
I have really long legs but im not that tall. I know they say abercrombie is good for that, but they're jeans to be are so bulky and they're not a tight comfy fit.
Does anyone know wheere I can get jeans that are long and strechy and are tight? Like almot straight legged but still flare? But not too expesive.
anyone know what I mean?

PacSun .. if you have long legs why do you get 00 Short ? Just wondering .. because wouldnt you get longs ?

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is like right inside of your vagina supposed to have like bumps??

Yes some actually do. I know a few people who have this .. and their doctors all said nothings wrong. So .. if their like little .. barely there bumps .. there probly ok.. if they hurt, or itch or anything .. see a doctor

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Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape

When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?

easy 5's people!

a.) The clique series

b.)Cut ... very good book.. its about cutting .. but you'd porbly like it !

c.) Someone like you , Forever [ judy blume ], The notebook [ Nicholas Sparks ]

d.) Im not sure .. i think its called Stargirl or something ?


hmm.. thats all i can think of right now. Sorry .. if you need more drop one in my inbox and ill check my personal collection.. I have a lot of books that apply

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Ok so i asked a question a few weeks ago about doing something with a rose for Xmas for my girlfriend and i got alot of positive feedback about it.. you might of read it.. had to do with a glass rose? well if not i decided to change it up a bit, tell me how you(a girl) would feel if your boyfriend did something like this for Xmas::
Along with your other presents, brough over a vace we 11 roses in it, and one glass rose, making a dozen roses total. And put a card in there that says, "I will stop loving you when the last rose dies." (for all the not-so-smart girls out there, 'a glass rose wont ever die') Sooo how would you like it? yes? no? maybe?

Lol. YA ! thats soo sweet.. even if you did steal it from a movie. Lol.. shell love it.

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Which of these boys should I ask to my winter formal? I go to an all girls school, so for the winter formal, all the girls have to ask the guys. Vote who you think I should ask:

guy 1: Pretty much my best guyfriend. Hang out with often. Am comfortable with. Nice, friendly, social, and a bit geeky. He's a dork. Mama's boy. Boy next door. Not a great dancer. Haha. Currently has a crush on me that I just found out about from my friend.

guy 2: Older than me by two grades. Friendly, but speaks really quietly. Has recently asked me out to see a show with him but I couldn't go. A bit boring to talk to on the phone. Sweet and laid back. Can actually dance. Never hang out with him in person.

guy 3: My personal crush. Asked him to formal last year and got turned down b/c he didn't know me that well. He now knows me better this year. Funniest guy I know. Always makes me laugh. Sweet and friendly and social. A nerd. But still social and outgoing. My friend thinks he has a crush on me because of the attention he gives me when I'm around. But I don't think so. He doesn't really like to dance. Smart. There's another girl who really likes him. I want to choke her. Well. Not really. Okay, yeah I do.

So give me feedback! WHICH ONE?

Well first.. id go for guy 3 .. since you like him a lot. but if that doesnt work out im thinking guy 2. He seems nice. It might disappoint your guy 1 but if you lead him on and nothing happens.. hell be even more disappointed ya know ? Hope I helped !

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Am I the only one in ADVICENATOR land that isn't a highschool student?
Every question that I read has to do with either a girl or boy in hs who has a relationship problem. I never see any adult questions. Does anyone know of any other sites like this that are more adult oriented?

Actually .. there are a lot of adult questions. Advicenators was made to get and give advice to people who have problems. These are our problems. We all want help and it just so happens that a lot of us are teenagers. Also .. teens are more likley to surf the net and find this site than adults...

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does anyone know any stores to buy beanies? (hats)

You can get them pretty much anywhere. pacsun and Zumiez have awesome ones but if you dont want to spend a lot even Target and walmart.. hmm.. Khols TJ MAX.. a lot of places

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i love the clothes in abercrombie and hollister and all that, but its sooo expensive !
does anyone know where i can qet the same kinda clothes ( besides aero ) that's cheaper ? everyone at my school is like, obsessed w. abercrombie lol and i always loove the stuff. once i saw a tank top in a&f for $80 !!
thankss

The only place I know of is platos closet. I hope its in your area .. they have Hollister, Ambercrombie, Aero, American eagle.. all that good stuff fer cheap.

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does anyone know where you can go online to listen to music... (the whole songs not samples) without having to download anything...
easy 5's for help

Go to xanga .. up in the search bar click blogring.. type in xanga music.. click a group.. pick a person .. and go !

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Does anybody know a website of a place that sells cute women's vintage-style sweater vests? Any help is appreciated.
Thanks

Delias probly would .. and Old Navy

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What's is mean when you like jacking yourslef? or something like that cause one kid at my school said that he saw this guy "jacking himself"? i dunno if that's the write word or not?

Its when a guy masterbating .. its called jacking / jerking off a lot.

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ok i've had my period for bout 5-6 months. And if been at the end of the month but this time if hasn't happen i got it at the end of September but not at the end of October? Is this normal? What's wrong?

Its normal. Nothings wrong, its just not regular yet. Itll regulate eventually. It will most likely be pretty off for a while , so be prapered and always carry pads or tampons with you.

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I’m 13, in the 8th grade, and have a guilty pleasure. I’ve been raised in an intellectual household, with both parents having a Ph.D. Generally, I don’t watch T.V. So I was at my friend’s sleepover birthday party with 7 other girls, and she rented the First Season of the O.C. We watched 4 episodes---and I liked it! I feel kind of guilty, because I know that technically, the show is for advertising and eye-candy with a plot. But I can’t help it. That blonde what’s-his-face that stole a car and set a house on fire is really good looking. And it keeps me at the edge of my seat. Now I’m addicted! What should I do? Am I shallow for liking this?


Thanks

Cheyenne

You shouldnt feel guilty ! Do you know how many people are the same way ? Besides, its just one show and you enjoy it. Its real cool that you only watch a little tv too.. but if you look at other people theres like .. Laguna Beach , Real World , and a bunch more !

You are not shallow ! Its one thing ! As long as you enjoy it .. who cares !

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what is a way that you could be understanding if your boyfriend makes out with another girl while your going out. like how can you be a pacifist..saying like "well i trust him and i know he still loves me" or something idk (thats why im asking)

thanks

Im sorry but i really cant answer how you want. If he makes out with another girl he doesnt truely love you. period. No matter what he says.. people dont do that to people they actually love. but if you do truely love him. Talk to him. Ask questions. Tell him you love him and give him another chance i guess.

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My boyfriend's brother's funeral was today and after it was all over with he wanted to go to Astroworld (an amusment park). I thought it was totally unappropriate because I thought he should have been with his family. But, I went anyways, for him. His brother had committed suicide and my bf never had any room in his life for suicide. Still though, it was his brother, ya know? Do you guys think that it was weird that he wanted to go there after his brother's funeral?

I think .. he wanted to get it off his mind for a while and enjoy time with you becasue he loves you. Also maybe he thinks he hasto take advantage of the time he has with people he loves caz you never know what will happen . Ya know ? I hope i helped but if i didnt drop one in my inbox and ill give it another shot.

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Okay I'm 13 years old and a female. Yesterday I noticed a small bump on my left breast, near the nipple. It sometimes hurts when I touch it but it also looks somewhat like a pimple. I'm really worried that this could be breast cancer. There is no history in my family of having breast cancer. Do you think it's cancer?

Thanks! =]

All advice is appreciated!

Well .. hopefully its not.. it probably is nothing to worry about.. but you shouold tell your mom and ask her to bring you to the doctors. A lot of people are saying you cant get breast cancer this young .. but actually you can .. you can have a tumor before cancer and if the doctors catch it soon enough then youll be saved from cancer !

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

Personally i like adidas .. axe and tag are over rated and over used.

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