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hola anyways i like this guy tons, but some times i get tired of jus being friends i mean he likes me too but, but GOSH!it doesnt seem like were going any where i mean i would like a kiss someitme....... lol .. or a sign to show that he likes me but i dont know?!!?!?. but i DONT want to go out with him, he needs to get more..well just like he cares.....plus i dont feel like dating right now... i hate relationships (link)
hmm...sounds like he's SHY SHY SHY...lol, hmm...maybe he's afraid :-/
just...do ur best to get thru to him and talk to him about it...it's not like keeping quiet accomplishes anything :D
good luck,
-Kyle
( damn i hate dating 2 :-/ )
BUT HEYYY EVERYONE...lol there's this chick named christian...woooo LAWD :D, i hate to date ppl and i'd fo sho date that one ^___^
haha ok im done now...lol
yeye :]


I'm one of those people who won't go out with just anyone. But i get really sick of walking down the halls and seeing people holding hands and making out and stuff and thinking, hmm i wish i had someone. the thing is i just can't find a girl worth my time...should i just try to find somebody or wait for the "right" one? (link)
i think there's a "right" one out there for everyone, and if it's meant to be it will happen by osmosis...so...wait it out i guess if ur havin a problem, hell...that's what i'm doin HA...
:P
good luck,
-Kyle


hey kyle,i have this friend who does bad stuff to herself. like stuff people do cause other people say bad stuff about them...what should i do im really worried (link)
sit her ass down and talk to her about it, that's like the most immature and selfish thing EVER...and tell her that she's doing much more than just hurting herself...she's hurting people who care about her :/.
good luck...
-Kyle


ok, i think u know me but if u dont thats ok but i like this guy named tim. he and i have been friends 4 a long time and i know i like him but im scared if i tell him that he wont feel the same and it will screw up our friendship. everyone has told me "just tell him, he will understand" but its just not working what should i do? peace out chikie doodle!!! (link)
hmm...what if he feels the same way???
GO FOR IT :D
good things,
-Kyle


hmmmm..... i have a guy who is my friend. we've been friends for a while and i think that i like him more than a friend. he's really nice and i see something in him that no one else obviously doesnt see. i mean now its sooo hard for me to look at him and act like i JUST want to be friends. i dont know. i just wish that he liked me a little more.. its so hard to like someone that doesnt like you the same way.

talk to me and help like the coolest person that you are....please. (link)
u should just sit him down and have a talk with him, the worst that could happen was u 2 stayed good friends like u already r, so u pretty much have nothing to lose, but might get ur feelings hurt :-/
good luck,
-Kyle


Jhayot has a question for you, i got this rash and the last girl i was with kind of smelled funny...j/k LOL. But serious we need to talk, why are girls attracted to drama?? Every girl i've been with except my O, i've treated like complete shit...and they love it. The worst i treat them, the higher my chances of banging them go. I don't really get it. Probably cause girls like drama and want someone that treats them like shit, so they aren't bored with their lives. I don't know. It's some funny shit tho. Like the girl im going to fuck this saturday, i haven't called the bitch or talked with her ass in months and i can just magically call her and say lets party. At this i get the reply, "Okay, call me...wait i'll call you" (i didn't call her last time i said lets party...clever girl) LMAO. I'll give all men advice, women do not want a good guy. That's why you're their friends and that's it. They treat you like the gay friend, ignoring the obvious, that you are not gay. They get advice from you to help them with assholes like me. Hint hint...Become an asshole. Women don't know what the fuck they want, i learned this the hard way and now look at me. I'm man whoring across two counties, got sugars down south and mommas up north wantin for some. Save yourself 5 years of your life and the repetition of asking yourself, "What the hell does she find in him? I could treat her sooo much better." PEACE, ohh and ladies, but your number on this forum, cause i'd sure love to date ya, holler at cha when i come up north! (link)
the man has a point!
lol jon is mah nub ^___^
-Kyle


Hey Kyle,

I have this bf and i dont like him anymore and hes soooo in love with me and i dont have the heart to dump him so i dunno what to do... have any advice..... thanx much!!

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aaaaaactually, love takes 2 count em 2 people, haha, uh...and if one of em isn't into it or w/e, then it's not actually "love" it's just a STRONG one-sided attraction, nothing more, nothing less, u get the picture, but anyways, just let him know how u feel, and then break up with him or w/e, it's not dumping him, it's...liberating urself from something ur not into...which is perfectly fine, and if he likes u so much he'll care more about u than himself, and will put ur happiness before his own, so try that and if it doesnt work out smoothly u'll know he wasn't all for it either :P
gooood luck,
-Kyle


ok, my ex-boyfriend and I decided to stay friends and everything, but everytime we talk he only wants to know how far i've gone sexually, how many times and with whom. I've tried to tell him that that's not being "friends" and he gets pissy and ends the conversation, do you have any idea why he's acting this way?? (link)
because he's jealous...of the fact that u let some other guy be ur first for something, and not him, allllll guys r like that haha, sometimes not to that extreme, but it still kinda bugs us, um...let him know who wears the daddy pants and tell him to stop bein a jackass and to support u and ur sexual tendencies ;)
-Kyle


well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss (link)
actually, yes ma'am that'd be a great idea, guys r usually shy and don't know what to say to a girl they like, um...so yeah just go sit by him and be really nice, and just think of stupid stuff to say, guys dont care, they just want to be around the girl they like and talk with them :)
i KNOW he'd love it! specially from u! :D
lol, good luck
-Kyle


Hey you sound like a cool guy to ask advice so here it goes ......
I like this one guy and I told him and he likes me and I just dont get why he wont ask me out what should I do cuz i keep givin him hints and stuff so i dont know ne more

Thanxs (link)
hints never work with guys, we're MORONS lol, every guy i've ever known likes a girl to be assertive, blunt, ya know, get straight to the point, sit him down and tell him how u feel, and tell him u want to get together, and if he really likes u, he'll ask u out :)
good luck,
-Kyle


I recently got to know one of my guy aquaintances better, and we became really good friends. We talked all the time and stuff, and it was cool. I kind of thought he was gay (everyone kind of thinks hes gay) so the whole girl-guy weirdness wasn't an issue---until he started calling and IMing me all the time and walking me to my car and burning me CDs with little personal messages on them. How do i tell him that i want to be friends and all, but i need my space. (link)
um...witness protection program works WONDERS! ahahha jk um....but yeah just tell him how u feel and if he's a good friend he'll understand and back his durty ass up ;) ahahah
good luck
-Kyle


hey. maybe you can help me. my boyfriend is constantly masterbating. is this normal for a boy. he is 12 and i am also and i have cought him doing it twice but he says everyone does it. is that true? his penis is really cute also and i have told him that i would do it for him but he is scared he said. why is that. please help. i dont no what to do! (link)
hmm before i answer, let me just say, LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, *clears throat* ok im done now, um...but yeah it's normal, and YEAH everybody does it, unless it's broken =O ahaha...lol...hehe he's 12 u say? LOL to me cute means little and cuddly, so good luck with that, but um...if u want to, but he's scared, just go after it like a rabbit after a carrot and shit will work out, the only reason he's "scared" is because he's never had his penis anywhere near a chick before lol...and um...maybe he's insecure...?? all guys r at one point in time lol...but um...other than that...my god...lmfao...welcome to junior high!
-Kyle


i was wondering what you prefer to do with a woman...vaginal or anal sex. please advise because i need to know what to give my boyfriend. please describe in detail the best way for vaginal penetration. thank you kyle!! *kisses* (link)
oh wow, lol...um...i'm a virgin, King of tha V club haha, um...but vaginal is always preferred, although most guys wouldn't mind something new, just start out with the good old fashioned vaginal, then move on to new things and see where it goes from there.
lol...that was a hard one =P
good luck,
-Kyle


Hey Kyle....

I Had A ? For You And I Was Wondering If I Could Get Some Advice...

Here Recently I Lived In Tx But Me And My Friends Made Bad decisions and it resulted in me alot of trouble so me and my "mom" got into it and she kicked me out since shes a f...Ing lunatic and now that i live up here alot of girls down there want me to go out with them when i get back for christmas they are all nice but i dont know...
and im having alot of trouble with people down there such as one of them..there dad wants to kill me (and you know who it is) and but i heard she really missed me and she wants me to take her out when i get back altho we had trouble b4 so im wondering what should i do with all this....

Yours Sincerly
A Texan Throwback (link)
dude...just go with ur heart, and if nobody likes it, then they're fag nuggets :D lol, just go with what u desire most, and omit the other stuff, it will all fall into place.
Good Luck Patty ( lmao ) ,
-Kyle


Ok this is the girl who likes the Junior boy. I have given him smiles and waving in the halls, and he smiles and waves back, but if I waved for him to come over and talk to me then WHAT WOULD I SAY?!?!?! When Im at lunch it always seems that he is staring at me and stuff..and i dont know. (link)
guys dont really care just as long as they get to talk to u, lol, we're EASY to please ^.^
hehe...um...yeah that's bout it really lol...if this is the person who i think it is, the the Junior boy would talk to u anyday about anything :-*
good things,
-Kyle


Yeah Kyle. Hello. I have liked this Junior (boy) sicne last year, and he likes me too BUT I have a problem with just walking up to him and saying hi and talking to him. He is always around his friends...which is scary. Since he likes me too he is shy and he wont walk up to me and talk either...We are both SHY! What should I do? (link)
hey there...um...start off with smiles in the hall, and suggestive behavior...lol that sounded bad ooops, but what i mean is, like...let him know u like him, and beckon him to come over and talk to u ;) if he really likes u that much he'll gladly walk over to u and strike a conversation, or at least try, for shy guys like myself it's hard as hell to come up with material for conversation :/
um...good luck
-Kyle :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D D: < lol?


hey i like this one guy and he knows that i like him cuz someone told him that i did, but i dont know if he likes me back.....it would be nice if he did tho. i dont know what to do or think.
signed confused person (link)
just talk to him about it...if he's really all that great he'll be straight forward with u


hey,well i was with the girl i really like and then all of a sudden i get i boner!and she saw!i was soo embarrassed and i had to leave the room.Do you think i still have a chance with her??
-bill (link)
well...yes...she should be flattered that she had that kind of effect on u...so yeah, just apologize or somethin...lol hell idk that's a tough one but yeah...just be honest and then be like...um...oops...
lol so yeah bill i think u do have a chance, nothing should've changed...except i think u 2 might be WAY closer now hahaha
good luck man, -kyle


My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks. (link)
hey i just saw ur question in cassie's advice column...and it doesn't really matter if he pulls out or not...because it's the precum that gets u pregnant 99% of the time...
just thought i'd let ya know
good luck and sorry D:
-Kyle :D


Dear Kyle,
I have dated this guy for 10 years and want to marry him, but he has 7 other girlfriends. Its part of our religion for guys to marry as many girls as they want. I love him so much and cant imagine leaving him but i want so bad to be his only wife. I would hate to have to share my life and family with other women. I dont know what to do, should i just leave him? i know that the other girls dont mean as much to him as i do, but still.... please help me. (link)
sounds like he's a man of many tastes...either that or just a VERY VERY horny person lol...no really it sounds like he doesn't like the idea of being tied down because after he is...he can't mess around as freely as before...i mean i know u probably keep him on some kind of leash but...idk he doesn't sound like husband material to me...sounds like a guy who's passionate about being a bachelor...
lol...good luck...
-Kyle
(J.H.T. i can't believe u posted this...nawty person) :-P




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