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Hey!
Im kalene im 15 years old And i D Love to answer any of your ?`sz ill do the best i can! Ive been threw alot in my life and i bet i could help you through alot..if you got`sz ne more ?`sz feel free to im me or email me or whatveer floats your boat!!
Love ya
--xO KalenE

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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?

say hell no thats not fair to you shes using you bc there is no other guy she can go to move on babe there is soo manii other gurls that could treat you better!! and then smush it in her face..god that bugs me when ppl do that
good luck
-Kalene

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I've been friends with this guy forever...and I really like him. I don't know what to do...but I really wanna go out with him and hook up with him. Sounds cliche: but i don't wanna ruin our friendship. Alternatives?

Ask him how he feels bout you..if he jus thinks of you as a friend then move on there is more guys that i bet would love you..but if he says he feels the same as u..tell him u feel the same and give it a week nd u ll be together!!
good luck babe
-kalene

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I used to like this guy since kindergaten and he's been in my class ever since(except fourth). Now that I'm in Jr. High, I'm not interested in him or any other guy anymore. everyhting has changed since I started. Is this normal?

Mabee your jus not intrested in any guys at *ur school* go around and try to meet guys at other schools and its prob jus a faze its a normal of course it is..hehe hope i could help
-kalene

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Well, i like this kid. I told this other kid that was friends with him and he told him when i didnt want him to. But he thinks his friend was just lieing. He always flirts with me and acts like he likes me. Now hes going out with this other girl and i am very dissapointed. What should i do?
I am a girl, age 13

Okay he has a g/f so i d stay away so she doesnt get mad at you but flrt wit all these guys in front of him nd try to get him like jealous and if he does like you he ll try to come over and flrt too and try to like get more of ur attention then the other guys if he does then he has feelings for you so let him come to you dotn go to him ..guys dont like when u run after them ..figured out that the hard way
hope i could help
-kalene

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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?

This guy all he wants is s e x im telling ya babe dont mess wit him he mite seem all nice and sweet but hes a pervert man.. find a guy a lil closer to your age..i no it sux to hear this but thats way too old for you...thats kinda grose
hope i could help
-Kalene

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Here is the thing I don't want to live anymore sometime because all I am to anyone in my family is there slave my brothers are always coming home and yelling at me to clean there mess or clean up the dog piss and do everything for them. And my mom is always asking me to clean the house before her boyfriend comes over who I can't stand and she won't get it through her thick head that I don't like him and then she trys to buy me stuff and pay me like that is going to win my love for her when I don't even feel like a daughter to her cause whenever i try and talk to her she is with don (her bf) and wants to spend time with him or on the phone with him and it is all about don and nothing about her own freaking daughter all her daughter is to her is someone to clean her house and shit and my dad is always yelling at me and i don't even live with him. I guess my question is what should I do about my family cause my mom won't listen when I try and tell her how I feel and always makes everything my fault? I don't know I just don't want to go on with life anymore and I don't know what to do please help. And don't say you need to talk to someone about it cause I have and it doesn't help and don't say you need to tell your mom how you feel cause i have tryed to nothing freakin works i am on my last string before i do something i am gona regret help!!!!!

wow i have a friend who is the same situation as u well i woudl say you know what mom im not a nanny go on like strike lol say its not fair i dont deserve any of this im your daughter ive been there for you more then don so start treating me a little better just talk to her and get it out to her!

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Ok there is this girl at school..ill call her Kristen and we were like best friends in 5th and 6th grade and the beginning of 7th grade..we are now in 8th grade and i think Kristen hates my guts but im not really sure..but i still sorta wanna be Kristen's friend. My other friend ill call her Brittany..who is still my friend..is like best friends with Kristen. And whenever its just me and Kristen together..shes so mean to me and doesn't talk to me or anything. and whenever Brittany is around me and kristen..like we are all together..Kristen is super nice to me.. i think its because ive told brittany about kristen being like this and kristen doesn't want brittany to yell at her.I want us all to be friends..but i don't know how to because kristen is sorta 1 of the popular girls and im more in the middle and i don't know how to talk to the popular ppl. Sorry it was long..but does anyone have any ideas of how i could become friends with kristen? Or why she does is mean to me usually..but when brittany is there she isn't? Thanks in advance!

this is a hard question i think you should ask kristen what her problem is with you and why she acts the way she does in certain situations and to be honest some times people who r popular are kind of snobby and are mean bc they think they are better then every 1 but if kristen treats you like htat alone shes not a very good friend so i d say just stick wit brittany and she may see your spending alot of time wit her and wanna be part of that if not us leave it go dont try to be all nice to her and liek bowing down to her bc then she has a rite to treat you like that! stand up for your self babe hope i helped
cya
-kalene

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Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go

hey!
Wel...If she went out with you in the past i can almost garentee she prob still has something for you unless you did something that hurt her that she never wants to be with you agian but i would talk to her and be like so who do you like ..or would you ever consider going wit me again then if she says yes say wel i dont wanan rush u into nething but ever since we broke up all i could thin kabout is how much i miss you or something that will touch her heart girls like when you do that i would no i am one hehe hope everything works out
-kay

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