my family is very racist and very controlling when it comes to mixed relationships and recently i started goin ot wit an 18 year purtirican/black guy. i am italian/mexican and im 14 my family stilll does not no and i dont no what i should do bout this i wanna be with him but i dont want my family to disown me at all. what should i do ?
ok .. my family is a litl racist too .. i mean evrywhere we go they talk about people who rnt "white" so i fell u on that one .. bt i think u should tell them they might b angry at first but ur family loves u and they will get over it .. nothing can replace a familys love and u wont loose it * hOpE i HeLpEd gOoD lUcK
rAtE mE =)
x|0 CANDICE
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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him?
ok i think personally .. if ur not happy u need to dump him .. i mean ive ran into this situation plenty of times .. and i always ended up dumping them bcause it was lyk .. - living a lie i mean u evn said u dnt care about him that much nd cnt see urself w. him so i think u jst need to tell him .. and im goin into hs next yr too and i kno how u feel u dnt wanna ne extra weight ur gonna b with new people and more oppurtunities .. he'll have more oppurtunities too .. u should jst tell himm .. * i hope i helped GOOD LUCK *
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how do i get my mom to let me wear a padded bra? like a push up one?
..i don't think u need a padded bra .. i mean ppl in my school can always tell nd they always get all gossipy nd stuff nd i mean jst b natural .. boobs rnt evrything * hOpE i HeLpEdD x|0
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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..
YES i think it deffinetly is .. i'm 14 and i wouldnt evn think of it .. we have a lot of time to ahead of us .. u dnt wanna get a bad rep cause im sure he would tell ppl or suttin .. i kno how u feel but i would nevr evn think about that .. u can do a lot more stuff lyk go out .. i mean making out is ok .. but head not yet .. i hope evrything worrks out =)
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im not really aloud to wear thongz but i reall wunna ask my mom but she thinks there really painful n how girls can wear em. also i think she thinks their for hoes n slutz etc. i dont she does. lol. well how do i ask her in a way she might say yes? i already have one but i have to wash it wen shez not home. i kno itz weird but i use it alot. lol. but i wash it! cuz i dont really like wearing regualr underwear that much n i wunna buy thongz n throw away them grnnyz. lol. oh my goodness. lol. okay this is a little embarassing but i dont really wear big underwear like underwear thats even a little losse i call grnnyz. wellz plz help!
ok well .. i was always lyk u .. but i mean jst tell ur mom straight out that its only underwear and u really wanna wear it and if she says no still .. i think u should jst go out nd buy ur own nd not tell her .. nd u could always start to do ur own laundry .. she shouldnt find out that way but i mean im sure she'll say yes if u jst tell her u prefer them .. nd tell her u already own one .. good luck =)hOpE i HeLpEdD
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my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!!
ok i kno how u feel .. this happened to me nd my best friend .. and i lyked a kid nd we went out but then she liked him .. nd wouldnt stop talkin about him while i was tryin to get over him .. so i told her straight out how i felt .. so all u really need to do is tell ur friend how u feel b.c it helped me nd our friendship can't be more tighter .. hope i helped =) and good luck * write back to tell me how it went
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As my mind and my body grows tired,
I find that my soul still remains strong,
Though I have come to the point to realize my fate,
To accept death as it slowly creeps up on me,
To accept the fact I will always be lonley,
To accept my life as it truly is,
And to accept the way things are
that's really good .. i've personallu always loved writting and thats really good .. so u should keep writting .. mayb u can make a career out of it . good lUcK hope i helped =)
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