Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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Age: 23
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i had oral sex with my boy friend and i swallowed his sperm,does swallowed sperm get one pregnant. (link)
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There is no way that it can get you pregnant. You are safe if you are doing this. Just make sure if you get cum on your hand or he does and then immediatly put it into your vagina, there is a small chance that you could get pregnant from that.
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okay so im 14 and most of my friends hav gotten fingered, eaten out, gave hjs and bjs, but ive only made out... like its just not my style. i only like to really makeout if i like the person.i just dont know when im ready to give a hj or bjor anything related to that. any advice/opinions would be great :] (link)
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In my oppinion 14 is too young to be doing anything besides making out. You are a very strong person to be not getting into these actions, once you start them it is very hard to quite them. I think that you need to keep it this way, you will know when it is time for you to go farther, to me you aren't going to be in a very serious relasionship at this point of your life. Also if you are starting these actions now, it might get out that you are easy, a slut..... and so on, I dont know how big of a deal it was then but, I made alot of mistakes when I was in high school and got pregnant at 17 and I got alot of crap when i was in school. Every one of those things can lead up to sex. Trust me you do not want to go through having a kid when you are still a kid, leave these things to adults:)
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please help me im really confused about my sexuality. i came out to my family a few months ago but started to feel it was to soon. i really fancy a girl i know but seriously get aroused over men . when i masturbate i think of men too. what am i???? (link)
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You might be bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with that either! After you date around with both sexes you might find which one that you feel safest, most comfertable with. Just give it time, do some searching in yourself, and find out who you really are. You may be supprised what you find out. Good Luck. If you need to talk about it or tell something more for someone to help you out, come talk to me. I will help you as much as I can:)
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that teenagers are having sex earlier and earlier...
I sure dont want to have sex any time in high school...but I know lots of my friends are ready. to be honest it just all freaks me out...
yes, i'm afraid of having sex...and i just don't see how it would be pleasurable.
any comments or advice would help!
thx.... (link)
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Well I think it is very good that you are not wanting to have sex in high school! That can save you from a lot of problumes, such as pregnancy, std's, and just being known as the slut or being easy or something like that. Your friends may talk about it but really it is a personal thing that you do not want to have sex. If you were one of my friends in high school I would have so much respect for you! It takes alot of stregth to be not pressured into it or to not want to do it. Trust me you will want to keep from having sex until after high school and better yet after marriage!
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im 5'6 and im like 117ish pounds. i really want to lose some weight but everytime i try i just end up eating more. does anyone have like a specific meal diet plan to follow that i dont have to pay for?
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You do NOT NEED TO LOOSE WEIGHT!!! You sound skinny to me! I am 3 inches shorter than you and weigh about 4 pounds less, I would say you are at a pretty good weight! But if you really do think you need to eat healthy food don't eat alot of snacks work out for atleast 30 minutes everyday and leave yourself a little hungry at teh end of every meal and ignore the hunger, if you are extreamly hungry drink a glass of water.
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ive heard that instead of throwing up some people tend to get the poops (usually, i don't mean when they're pregnant) but i was just wondering if the same thing could occur with pregnancy? my boyfriend and i had sex almost 2 1/2 weeks ago and with no condom well not sex he was just inside me for a little, we're not sure if i am pregnant or not. i haven't thrown up in like 3 years, but i have been going to the bathroom a lot (in both cases #1 & 2 :P) my boobs have hurt for the past week, very tender, and i have had really bad heartburn. I was going to take a test a few days ago but my boyfriend said it's too early bla bla. So i was just wondering if that could be a symptom (getting the poops) especially since i've never had them so bad, it's like wen i wake up i have to and during the day i have to a lot.
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You could be pregnant. I don't know about having the poops, but it could happen I would think. I have never had it with any of my 3 kids. Also it is not to early to get a test either. I would get like 3 or more, they are not always accurate. But if your not then you got LUCKY!!! If you are and you need help or anything please come and talk to me! I got pregnant at 16 so I know what it is like to talk to the rents and all if you are younger! Also to go through h.s. and all so feel free to come talk to me.
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alright so my boyfriend and i have bee going out for over a year, anyways we've thought about having sex awhile. i love him and he loves me so dont give me you're too young crap. we were both virgins till today. haha anyways he went inside my vag, and it hurt ALOT. he stuck it in more then half way but not fully, then took it out. the condem had a bit of blood at the tip, but not alot. now, does that mean my cherry popped fully?, or whatt is there suppose to be alot of blood? thankss for readingg :) (link)
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Yes, It is popped. I would agree that you can be in love with your bf. One thing, if you keep having sex please always make it protected!!! Don't go once and be like i'll be fine haha i learned from my mistake 9 months later. :)
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I made my high school's jv cheers team this year.
We've been practicing quite a bit on tumbling and we go to a tumbling class once a week. Every girl on my team except a few can do a super great round off. My cartwheel is pretty much perfect, but my round off sucks. The thing is I can't seem to get my other leg around quick enough to land on both feet, it usually ends up turning into a retarded cartwheel lol. I just need some advice on how to get my round off down, and to get my leg over fast enough before I land. I practice a lot, and I'm not scared of trying something new to make it work, so any tips would be great thanks! Also, don't tell me to use a lot of power, because I do that and it doesn't help. :] (link)
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As soon as you push off the ground then you should have your legs together, the power part is through your arms so I really doubt it is there, but I cant see what you are doing but you might ask the coach, for seguesttions.
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i am new to my high schools cheerleading squad. most of the girls are really good at their round offs, i can do mine but it sucks. i can get my feet together to land at the same time, but my problem is that when i land my feet down, my arm is still on the ground, just like they are after doing a cartwheel. what i need to learn to do is when i land to pull my body up so im not bent over still like kind of so i can fly backwards, and also how to pull my hands off the ground before i actually land, because when i try to pull my hands away i lose my balance or get scared that i will fall on my head. sorry if this is confusing, but any tips?! thanks so much! (link)
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I know exactley what you are saying I get girls and guys who come into my gym ALL the time that have this problume, most of the time it is a bad habbit that you started when you were probally trying to learn them on your own. What I do is lay a mat down folded up hard one, and put your hands on it when your going over, make sure your popping off your hand through your sholders. Make sure your arms are tight, and to be able to keep your legs together, put something in them like a bean bag a small pretty flatt one and make the goal to be to be able to keep it in there the whole time. One of the people below me said to see if you are running enough. That is another big mistake really the only time you run in round offs is when you are connecting them to make a tumbling pass. If you have a good solid round off you should be able to do one without running at all. Another thing is after you are comming out of your round off try re-bounding it which it jumping up with the extra power, try and keep your arms tight and in-line with your shoulders and keep your elbows straight. Sorry this is probally really long and confusing. But it is hard to explain while typing and not being able to show you. But if you need more help or anything or are confussed by what Im telling you then feel free to pm me. Good luck!
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My five year old son isn't interested in paying with other kids. My husband is VERY concerned. He will play with his sister and his cousins (all younger, all girls) and an occasionaly older girl who will act as a follower. My son likes to be in charge, he is the 1st born. Do you think any of theses characteristics are a sign that there is something wrong with him socially? He just seems to prefer the company of adults. (link)
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Well I think it is probally that he is just shy. But I am not sure of all medical problumes in kids but I do know some about autism. I cant say that he has it but my sisters little girl has it and when she was that age she usually played with younger kids or was very close by to her mom or dad and got very upset when either left, she didnt talk very much, and she didnt have a vocabulary of what a 5 year old should have. Also they usually dont like to look people in the eye. Like I said before I am not saying that he has this but you might ask your doctor what they think if it is just normal shyness or if he needs to be tested for something. I hope this helped a little bit.
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what are some good masturbation techniques i can do? i dont know why but it doesnt feel good to me if i just finger myself.. thanks.
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I dont get any pleasure from that either the only time I do is when Im doing it with like another girl or if im having sex with a guy. But what I like to do is rub circles on my clit and play with my boobs. Also you can try humping things the the arm rest of a couch and things like that. Also i like to watch porn to get me in the mood more.
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im 15/f and im embarassed to show my boyfriend my boobs because even though i wear a 36d, my nipples are way too small. is it impossible to make them grow more, or have they just stopped growing period? thnx in advance =] (link)
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No there is no way to make them grow. But you probally are done growing with your boobs all together until you have kids or unless you gain a large amount of weight. But your bf really wont care. To a guy its boobs! He probally wont even notice that they are smaller! But dont worry about it!
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Is there any possibility that I could be pregnant even though I got my period a couple days after having sex? (link)
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Sorry the first person who answered was wrong!!! Yes you can still have your period when you are pregnant it does not occur through the who;e pregnancy but it happened to me. The day I had sex I was due for my period like a week later and I got it, this was the time I was 16 and was having unprotected sex, but anyways so I was like yes im not pregnant dont have to worry about that. Well when it came time for the next months it never came then I took a test and it was positive, and I didnt have sex before the last time, so yes it is very possible.
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k i came across some sex sites and i need to know how to delete it from my computer history before my parents do!
help plz
ps
f/14 (link)
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Well it depends on the type of internet that you have. On mine I have AOL then it is on a strip called history on the side on my old internet which was internet explorer, it was in the tool bar under clear history, so if it isnt in any of those places then just go through all you sections on the top and side and look through them to find them. Hope this helped a little bit, sorry dont know much about computers.
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its beens a month since my last pd. well a month and 4 days
i'm hurtin bad (down south). and i'm only 16.
But i thought i started like 2 days ago but i didnt. but i can see blood when i pee. and i wipe myself i see blood but i put a pad on for 2 days and didnt have no blood on it what so ever.
I don't know what to do. i want a kid but ill get killed
am i preg.
or is it to short to tell
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Ok wow yo sound like I did when I was your age pregnant at 16 baby by 17. It is scary when you do not know if or what ever, but you need to get a pregnancy test try like 2 or more at the store and if they come up positive or even one of them then you need to go to your doctor, I would recomend going any ways because the blood in the pee is really weired and worrying me a little. But if you are and you need help about it like talking to your rents or something feel free to come and talk to me I have been there and done that. So good luck with it. Best wishes.
Sarah
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i just found out i'm pregnant.
i'm very nervous that my water will break out in public, is it alot of fluid or is it not that much.
also i'm nervous about peeing my pants in public.
if i do, like would i pee alot, or would i be able to catch myself and only pee a little.
please answer these, thanks. (link)
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Well for the water breaking in public it can happen and with my first, it happened to me. Well kind of in public I was 17 and I went back to school that week to take my exams and well then, it happend in school it was a litle imbaressing but most people were excited for me and I didnt have to finish my exam lol. It isn't that much water but you will know it plus you will most likely be contracting by then.
For the pee thing it is harder to control you might leak a little but not a whole lot, I wore pantie liners with my three kids. Hope this helps and congragulations!!!!
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im a 15 year old female. i think i might be pregnant but im not sure.. there is no way i can go out and get a pregnancy test. so is there any other way of telling if you are pregnant without the test?
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Well there are signs, like morning sickness, and weired cravings and things like that but honestly there is nothing that can tell you if you are 100% pregnant before you have a test done and a test from a store is not always as accurate as the test doctors give you.
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ok my problem is that i want to know what are the signs of pregnancy, i know one, and thats about not having ur period. but is there anymore? (link)
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There are several signs, most depend on the person but every time I was pregnant i was always very tired and craved very weired foods like I dipped potatoe chips in garlic butter. If you think you might be pregnant, make sure you are not smoking, drinking or doing and drugs that could harm the maybe baby. There are several signs though it really depends on the person, you might have an increase in how much food you eat too.
here is a website that might help...
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/symptoms-of-pregnancy/PR00102
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hi, i have just turned 14 and my period hasnt arrived yet i used to masturbate with pens and dirty objects will this affect it and my friends all have started theirs and talk about when it is and how they have to wear this many pads and stuff i don't want anyone to know my period hasnt started im really scared and upset please help me thank you so much. Will i ever start it?
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yes, you will start! It may not have started for several reasons, if you are very athletic that could have a big play in it, like im a gymnast and when I am in the gym for like 7 hours a day and 6 days a week I never have a period, but even if your not working out that much it can still be because you are active, another is that you may not be developed as some of the other girls, honestly I dont think it is that big of a deal, When I was in high school I did not start until I was 16 so yeah it depends on your body and all but if you are really conserned or think there might be something wrong you may want to see your doctor but give it time!
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i got my preriod very late.. so my boyfriend think that i am pregnant. we went to the clinic for five times and i took five urine test. it all came out negative. i am really scared because my stomach is getting big than it was. after that clinic that i took five urine test, i went to a different clinic. when i took another test. it came out negative.
does this means that i am not pregnant? or the test is just messing up. i've been hearing that the urine test is not accurate and also the blood test. i dont know what to do. they wont let me have a ultra sound so i know if its in there or not.
can someone tell me.. if im pregnant or not. i am really scared and i dont want to have a baby. (link)
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Well, first off I will start of with I am like 100% positive you are not pregnant. If you had your period that means that you are not pregnant. The tests that they do at clinics are usually very very accurate, more than the store bought test. Since you have had 6 tests than I would feel very confidant in myself that I would not be pregnant. The only way that I would be concerned was if you had not had your period.
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