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(15,F) okay so.. i have this group of like BEST friends from camp-- and like, we're all different ages..from 14-17.. and i love these people so much, but there's this one guy. me and him kind of like 'went out' last summer.. and it didnt work (i broke it off) but this summer i like him SO incredibly much much more and i wonder if he likes me too-- i mean we have a really close relationship and he says he's physically attracted to me, but i dont know if he would ever like me again like last summer and i just wanted to ask someone else's opinion who doesnt know us- he's always smacking my ass and touching me and he masturbates to me, and we've made out and stuff obviously... but i just dont know if he would ever be interested in me again.

please answer back

-sincerely,
wish i could rewind

awww =( well this is a really tough one but im going to try and answer it the best i can


Ok i think he has to like you in some way if hes made out with you and all of that stuff, i think your best bet is to tell him how you feel and see if he likes you back, but if your a little shy try flirting with him and see what he does and then tell him because you are never going to find out if he likes you back if you dont tell him, and if he does like you he will probably ask you out again


Sorry if i didnt help that much but thats all i could think of I hope he likes you back =D

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do you know where i can find a magnetic tongue ring for Shay..? i looked on ebay and about a thousand other sites i can find one except the suction ones.. thanks a ton Nikki & shay

idk sorry i know i shouldnt answer questions that i dont know the answer too but it was a provate question and i like to answer them but if you want you can make an account and click get advice and anyone on the site can answer you


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I suck at straightening my hair... like i dont know how to do it.... SO how do i straighten my hair... do i put some up before i do it and leave a lil down or what????

you have to straighten your hair in layers and dependin on what type of hair you have it could take a while but heres what you do:


first you put your hair up but leave some down like you said and then straighten that part (make sure ur brush it) and they keep on gradually put layers down and keep doing the same thing until you're done


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how do i get a link for my column on to my aim profile and not copy the website code and so i can name it was ever i want but basically i want the link for my AIM profile and not the website address thanks

its SOO easy!! =D ok well heres what you do, go to where you edit your profile and click the link button where all of the buttons are, in the first space copy the url code into there in the second one trype what you want other people to see and then click ok or done or whatever and there ya go


Hope I helped!! =D

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I downloaded that blocker checker thing from http://www.block-checker.com and i dont wnat it i tried to get rid of it by add and remove programs but its still there anybody know ow to get rid of it?

thats because it was a virus use a virus scanner and see if that will work


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ok so i start soccer practice tomorrwo.but it says something about scrimmages being scheduled.what are scrimmages in soccer.

its just a practice game


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alriqht we`ll you see my best friend and i have been close for about 3-4 years and shes pretty much the only person i trust. i know she never tells anyone anything i say and i can just tell her anything and i know i dont have to worry about anything gettin out. but heres my problem .. in the summer she qoes to camp for 8 weeks and they qo on daytrips and usually liek everyother week go on trips for almost the whole week. i don`t ever see her once in the summer (seriously) and shes like obbsessed with camp and she might call me once or twice. and she does it ever single summer and usually blames it on me. and like she usually does it in school liek has one best friend and ignores me for liek 3 months and then i get mad and she supposidly doesnt no what im tlkaing about. and i invite her over and shes liek sure and the next day her away will be out with so and so and im not the type of person to hang onto people but i mean shes the only person i trust so its kinda hard not too. and i kinda forgive her when we make-up but i kno exactly whats qunna happen and i mean i kno i cant just forqet about her its kinda impossible. and everytime i talk about her theres no use and everyone knos that she treats me like shitty.and were qoin to hiqhschool toqether (next year) and my middle school qets split up so im loosinq about three fourths of my friends .. ii really need help on what to do.

wow this is a really hard question to answer but i will try my best to help you ok i didnt understand somethings


like when you said she blames it on you?? i mean she blames you for going to camp or something im kinda confused on that


i also dont get when you said, "and i invite her over and shes liek sure and the next day her away will be out with so and so and im not the type of person to hang onto people"


ok well i know everyone says this but its true try and talk to her and tell her how you feel if she is really your friend she will understand and stop but if she doesnt what kind of friend is she? there is still plenty of time to get new friends and you can still keep her as a friend but if she doesnt stop try not to keep her as close or you will be constantly getting hurt



Hope I helped!!

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(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do?

let him tell everyone who the heck cares deney it unless you want to end up with this guy and let him do that to you


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woww i dont suck im just telling you the truth sryy but seriously what else can you possible do

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Im a 13 year old girl .... I dont have THAT many friends in school ...(i still have some though) and i also dont know many people in my classes ... what do i do to make friends ???
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SIGNED CLUELESS

i also dont know like anyone in my classes but i just be myself andmake new freinds and remember it doesnt matter how many friends you have as long as you have good ones

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Hey yea i ment 4'11 lol not 5'll lol sorry bout that 1 love sammy

lol okk yea then thats a perfect weight =D

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ive been wanting a cell phone for so long. and dont think i havent tried getting one. ive had the money and saved it, i even offered to pay for one. i wrote a whole 1 page essay on why i wanted one, how i used it, and if i did something wrong they could take it away. im on computer like 24'7 so i told them it would occupy my time and i wouldnt be on as much. but NOTHING has worked.
is there anything else left to try!?
~hopeless

well this is what i do, everymoth i do chores like mowing the lawn doing things for my dad and stuff and he pays me for them so I pay for the phone EVERY month try that if you are willing to do it, its really not that bad, well thats all i have so hope I helped!! =D

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whats the song called? (i'm not sure if i heard the lyrics right)

you and me and all of the people with nothing to do, nothing to prove and its you and me and all of the people and i don't know why but i can't keep my eyes off of you

its called you and me by lifehouse

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ok im 14(f) i live in New jersey. Alot of people in my school have boyfriends .... but i dont . I have my eye on a few people but i dont know if they like me or think im weird or w.e I am very outgoing but idk how to act around boys to make them like me or anything i dont know ? Also i dont think of myself as "HOT" and i dont know if they feel that way to or if they think im prett i realllllllllly want a boyfriend! what do i do to get 1 and also what do i do to look good around them (like what do i do to my hair what type of clothes and how do i act ect.) I rate a 5 =].
Signed boyless

ok well you should really care about your looks that much because you deffinately want a guy for likes you for who you are but looking pretty is good too =) now you might be pretty but dont think you are a lot of people think that and i cant really help with the hair because idk what kind you havve as for the clothes try some preppy cute ones like abercromie even though they are reallllyyyy expensive so you can try aero too


and when you are around guys just BE YOURSELF dont be shy be you and maybe flirt a little and hang out with them its really all you can do if you dont want to act like slutty so


I hope I helped!!

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hey im 13 (fenale) im about 5'11 or whatever and i way about 80 - 87 lbs. is that good cause im afraid im gonna gain alot of weight thnks =)
LOVE sammmy

wait do u mean 5'1 or 5'11?????? If you ment 5'1 yea thats a good weight maybe even a lil underweight depending on ur frame but if your 5'11 thats WAYYYY too skinny but i dont think uu ment that rite?

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im 14/f - 5.5 - 115 - i think im totally fat! i cant help it.. and the problem is .. is my hips!! and that leads to my theighs!! omg i hate them soo muchh!! my hips stick out soo muchh! and my friends are all flat on the side! and i think my theighs are huge! but they arent that big.. but the thing is .. is when i wear jeans my hips stick out alot!! and it looks like my legs/theighs are huge! and i hate it alot. i wear a size 16 in abercrombie & fitch .. and a 1 or 2 in other stores.. and i think im soo fat!! can someone please help mee!! i give 5's !! =]

ok wowww your deffinatly NOT FAT AT ALL!! 115 is probably underweight im like 120 and the same hight and my doctor said that perfect and i know this isnt what you want to hear but what u think isnt alwasys true ya know?? trust me your a perfect weight

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need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high

deffinatelly a puppy!! you will love it forever though you may get bored of your laptop afer awhile

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is having sex before marriage a sin

yea its a big one

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Hey, me and my friends are always bored! we are always sitting in my garage and keep repeatingly keep saying "what do you wanna do" ! do you have any ideas that we can do!? please suggest! i rate high for good answers!

Ha i know EXACTALLY what you mean well if your mom can drive you somewhere there are plentyy of things to do for example:


- go to the movies
- go to starbucks??
- go the the pool if you dont have one
- go to the beach
- go to the park?


Here are some things you can do at home:


- walk around the block
- go in the pool if you DO have one
- play truth or dare??
- watch a movie at home
- make up a dance
- bake something??


Well thats all I can think of for now!! Hope I helped!!

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ok well here it goes:my sister was a baby sitter for my next door neighbors,she is lyk 18 now n doesnt have tyme to do it nemore so they asked me to bee the new babysitter so i did for 2 days straight. but then they started asking my sister to do it agen then asked me n sed ur our new babysitter i was lyk but yoo sed that bee4 n it was a lie. im mad that they keep on getting me excited for nothin cause i luv kids n also they pay good lol. n also another thing they ask me to babysitt n i say yes wen i alredy have plans but i cancel them juss to babysitt then they cancle on me n say they alredy have mii sister n im really mad at them! i juss need to kno if i shood say sumthin to them or let it slip until another tyme!thnx bye!

i see why you asked on here because I wouldnt really know what to do either in this situation, but I'm going to try, well I think that you should talk to your parents and ask them what to do before you take my advice because I am not completely sure, but then after you ask them maybe you should nicely talk to your neighbors, dont be rude but kind of ask if you are their permanent babysitter or not because they keep asking your sister or just kind of ask, why did you ask my sister if you said i was your babysitter? but be nice about it, well thats really all I can say


I hope I helped!!

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i'm 14/f, and i need new sneakers. can anyone recommend me any brand of sneakers(not nike because EVERYONE has them) or any kind of sneakers that they think is really good and looks really nice?

well i dont know if you have a price range but the puma shoes with the straps are really pretty but they range from like 70$-100$ and a lot of people have them where I live.... but yea and also saucony's are also nice and they are like 40$ aand if you dont wantwhat everyone else has both brands make different styles that are also nice

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