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im 40 years old and had 2 abortions .. i know i made a mistake , i wish i cud get pregnant now..
can anyone help ... will i ever get pregnant again..
anamika
I think that's really something you need to talk about with your doctor.
i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP!
I think you should talk to them about it. They're both your best friends, they should be understanding that you're in a difficult position. You can try telling both that the subject of the other is off limits while they're with you, unless they want to say something nice. If they really are your best friends, they should be willing to do that for you.
my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak?
This link may help, scroll down to where it says "what can I do to help my friend?"
http://www.hazelden.org/servlet/hazelden/go/INFO_TALKTEENS
ok, i named the brown puppy Brownie, i named one of the black ones Walker, cuz its always walking around, and i named another black one Tiny, cuz its the smallest of the litter...there are still two unnamed black ones who are fat and always together, as if their twins....any ideas for THEIR names?
I'm going to suggest the name Dusty. I'm suggesting it for purely selfish reasons. lol I had a wonderful dog named Dusty. I had him for nine years. He was put to sleep 3 weeks ago, so now I always suggest his name when people ask for pet names, as a way to remember him. :)
ok I like this one guy named Ben and he likes me also and weve been friends since the first day of school and Ive liked him since then well it slowly turned into love. And I still am in love with him. Sounds like nothings wrong right>> Problem I just got asked out by this guy named Ryan and I dont like him because most of my feelings are for Ben and Ben and Ryan are friends and Im going out with Ryan. Ryan is so much different from Ben. Ryan smokes pot, hes weird to hang around with, and im never happy around him
On the other hand Ben hes cute,funny, and Im happy when im around him, gives me hugs all the time!! And is such a sweetie. So this should be easy but its not!! I dumped Ryan yesterday (thursday) and got back together with him today OUT OF GUILT and then before 6th period I felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life!! AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I was planning on telling Ryan that I dont want to be his girlfriend because I dont know him all that well and WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY O i dont want to go out with you because Im in love with your friend even though u say you love me Ok bye! what should I do and I would like guys to answer this but girls are fine TOO!1
please dont delete this I really really need help
LOVE Ash
It would be kinder to break up with him now, instead of leading him on and having him develop stronger feelings for you. You can tell him you think you guys are to different(you say he smokes pot, I assume you don't) and he should be with a girl who has the same interests as him.
hey its X Lissa X ..Okay ive felt like crap all day. you know that feeling you get in your stomach when you havent ate anything all day or your really really hungry? well ive had it all day, even now and ive ate stuff too but it still wont go away and it HURTS! idk what could be wrong. does anyone know? and how cani stop it cuz i wont be able to sleep.. thanks a lot.
Try eating simple things like toast and crackers if you do eat. You can also try taking tums or something like that. If you're still feeling bad tomorrow you should go see your doctor.
does anyone know how to fade freckles?
.:~*I rate 5's*~:.
This link might help:
http://www.beautytipsonline.com/freckles.htm
ok theres this girl thats going out with my ex. boyfriend. She took him from me last weekend. But anyways.. Shes going to his football game to watch him in the same vehicle as me. Im going to watch him and another guy i like, well she said if i keeep running my mouth about them(which im not) shes gonna beat my ass. Shes weak and looks like pinoacio. For real she does. Shes butt ugly too. But she wants to fight me tonight. i dont want to hurt her well yeah i do but not if its gonna ruin mine and Chris's family's friendship. Not over an ass like her. Should i fight her. She thinks she can beat the piss out of me. She can't. All my friends come to me if they need help and no one goes to her becuase shes weak as shit. But im thinkin about fighting her tonight. What do u people think i should do?
Signed.. Confused but tough!!
I think the best thing to do is be the bigger person. Ignore her comments, they most likely spring from a fear that your ex will leave her for you or someone else. She's acting like a child with her threats, you can be the bigger person here and ignore her, or try and calm the situation down by having a civil conversation with her. If she says something hurtful, just try and rise above it, and respond with a remark like "We'll never be friends, but I don't see a reason for an all out war between us. Why don't we agree to just tolerate each others presence instead of behaving like children and getting into a fight?"
My mom had bought regular olive oil since my brother says that regular olive oil is much better than e.v.o.o. I can't taste a difference between them! Is there supposed to be a taste difference? If not what exactly is the difference between them? Thanks.
In my opinion extra virgin olive oil has a much stronger taste than regular olive oil.
Can I Give My Kitten Infants Tylenol?
No! Tylenol contains acetaminophen which is even more toxic to cats than aspirin(aspirin is extraordinarily easy to overdose in cats). Never give a cat medications that are intended for either human or animal consumption without the approval of your veterinarian.
Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please!
First of all, you sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders for your age. Don't listen to anyone who tries to call you names because of your situation. What Hayden did is sexual harassment, especially if you said no. If you did say no, and he didn't stop, then you should tell a parent about it. If you're worried about Justin hearing the rumor from someone else, and you trust him, then you may want to go ahead and tell him the truth.
well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled
First of all, you sound like a great friend. You're doing the right thing. It's a sad fact of life that many people will put others down to try and lift themselves up. The best thing for you two to do in my opinion is to try and rise above it. Realize that those people are childish and hurtful, and you don't need to listen to them, or care what they say. If their idea of a good time is harassing a poor girl, then they aren't worth your time(and really, how pathetic are they to harass her in her livejournal?). I wouldn't worry about what they think. It's far more important to be a good person and do what's right, than it is to join the crowd and make bad decisions just to fit in. Stick by your friend. It sounds like she needs you.
My friend amy has a boyfriend named Beau! They are what like 13 years old and 13 years old.. They havent been going out very long, but Beau wants to go n a shower with her n i dont want this to happen.. what should i do
It's so sad how young kids are getting involved these days. If you're concerned about your friend I'd recommend sitting her down and talking to her. Tell her what you think, but do it in a nice way and make it clear that you're telling her this because you care about her and don't want to see her do something she'll regret, or get hurt.