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ok, i guess i've decided to let you know a few things about me. lucky you.




Music: Music is life. I live by music. Punk is the best, but pop punk is alright sometimes...when it's more punk than pop (no avril, gc, etc.). A little art rock and classic is okay sometimes. Alternative and ska occasionally show up as well. just lately i've been watching less tv and listening to more music, and i'm so much happier than i was a few months ago. all i need is music. everything else can go die.




Favorite bands: 101ers, 3 Against 1, 4-Skins, 5 Days Dirty, 60 Second Crush, 7 Seconds, 88 Fingers Louie, 999, Action Toolbelt, The Accused, AC/DC, The Adicts, Adolescents, old AFI, Against All Authority, Against Me!, Agent 51, Agent Orange, A Global Threat, Agnostic Front, The A.K.A's, Alice Cooper, Alkaline Trio, All, Amen, American Head Charge, American Steel, America's Hardcore, Angelic Upstarts, Angry Samoans, Anthrax, Anti-Flag, Anti-Nowhere League, The Anti Socials, Apartment 26, A Perfect Circle, A Perfect Murder, Apocalypse Theatre, The Aquabats, Arch Enemy, Arlo Guthrie (not because i think he is especially talented, but Alice's Restaurant was a brilliant album), ASG, Assorted Jellybeans, Atom and his Package, Audioslave, Authority Zero, Avenged Sevenfold, Bad Brains, Bad Religion, Basic Radio, Bauhaus, The Beatles, Between the Buried and Me, Best of Seven, Billy Idol, Billy Talent, Biohazard, Black Flag, Black Ice, Black Label Society, Black Sabbath, Blanks 77, The Blessed, The Blood, Bloodsimple, Blood Soaked Hands, Big Rig, Bob Dylan, Booker T and the MGs, Bouncing Souls (old. they suck now...i mean, have you heard "anchors aweigh'? it's digusting.), The Burial, The Business, Buzzcocks, The Cars {kinda}, The Casualties, Celtic Frost (pre-glam metal days, of course!), Chase Long Beach, Cheap Sex, Children of Bodom, Christian Club, Circle Jerks, CKY, The Clash, Clutch, Code 451, Common Rider, Complete Disorder, Continental Light Brigade, Corrosion of Conformity, Country Joe and the Fish, The Crack, Cradle of Filth, Crass, Cream, Crimpshrine, Crimson Spectre, The Damned, Danger Zone, Danzig, Dark Tranquility, David Bowie, Dead Kennedys, Dead Milkmen, Dead on a Friday, Death From Above 1979, Deemed Useless, Demented Are Go, Demons and Wizards, The Demoted, Descendents, Destruction Made Simple, Deviates, The Die Hards, Dimmu Borgir, The Distillers, DOA, Don McLean, The Doors, Dope, Downfall, Downpore, DragonLord, DRI, Dropkick Murphys, Dry Kill Logic, Easton Legacy, The Eddie Haskells, Eels, Elefant, Elvis Costello, Enemy You, Error, Every Time I Die [some], The Exies, Exodus, The Exploited, Faith Collapsing, Far-Less, Fear, Fear Factory, Fifteen, Fire Parade, Fischerspooner, Flogging Molly, Foo Fighters, Free, Garry Johnson [well he doesn't exactly do music, but he's on a couple comps (like 100% pure british oi! and strength thru oi) with the oppressed and stuff, so he gets counted], GBH, Germs, GG Allin, GOFER, The Gonads, Good Riddance, Gorillaz, Government Issue, Grave Disorder, Grave for the Fireflies, {old} Green Day, Guttermouth, The Guttersnipes, H2O, Half Man Half Biscuit, The Hangovers, Hate Eternal, He is Legend, Helloween, The Hidden, High on Fire, Horny Mormons, Horrible Idea, The Horrorpops, Hybrid Mutants, Husker Du, Iced Earth, Iggy Pop, Ima Robot, Infa Riot, Inside Joke, Interpol, In the Eyes of God, Intro5pect, Iron Cross, Iron Maiden, Isocracy, Ivy League, Jefferson Airplane, Jello Biafra, Jerk and Destroy, Jimi Hendrix, Joe Cocker, John Lennon, Judas Priest, The Kickass, Kid Dynamite, Kill Cheerleader, Killradio, Killswitch Engage, Kill Your Idols, Kineto, Laguardia, Lamb of God, Lars Fredericksen and the Bastards, Led Zeppelin, Leftover Crack, Less Than Jake, Light this City, Like Braille to the Blind, The Living End, Los Kung Fu Monkeys, Lower Class Brats, Machine Head, Madd Hatters, Mando Diao, Maninblack, Marilyn Manson, Meatmen, Meat Puppets, Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, Mental as Anything, Mervyn Albin, Meshuggah, Metal Church, [old] Metallica, Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Mindless Self-Indulgence, Ministry, Minor Threat, Misfits (with DANZIG! fuck anyone else.), Mobtown Hooligans, Mortal Treason, Motion City Soundtrack, Motorhead, Mr. Bungle, Much the Same, Mudvayne, Mushroomhead, My Own Religion, Napalm Death, Nasty On, Nattefrost, The Neccessary, The Needles, Nekromantix, The Nerve Agents, Nevermore, New York Dolls, Nine Inch Nails, No-Cash, None More Black, No Use for a Name, Nuke and the Living Dead, The Offspring, Oi Polloi, Old Man's Child, OPERATION IVY, Opeth, O Pioneers!!!, The Oppressed, Original Sinners, Ozzy Osbourne, PANTERA, Paul Weller, The Pennyroyals, Pink Floyd, Pocket Lent, The Postal Service, Propagandhi, The Q, Queen, The Queers, The Radioactive Chicken Heads, Rage Against the Machine, Ramones, Rancid, Reason to Ignite, The Replacements, Richard Hell, Riddlin Kids, Rikets, Rise Against, River City High, River City Rebels, Robert Plant and the Strange Sensation, Rob Zombie, Rocket From the Crypt, Rolling Stones*, Romantics, Rudimentary Peni, The Ruts, Samhain, Screeching Weasel, Scum of the Earth, Secret Machines, Serial P.O.P, The Sex Pistols, Sham 69, The Shins, Shock Nagasaki, Sick of it All, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Slackers, Slayer, Slide of Hand, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths {a few songs. not many}, Social Distortion, Son of Sam, The Soviettes, The Specials, The Spooks, Steppenwolf, Strawberry Alarm Clock, Stiff Little Fingers, The Stills, Stratovarius, Subhumans, Suburban Legend, The Sugar Daddies, Suicidal Tendencies, Suicide Machines, Sullivan, Superjoint Ritual, Super Sport SPR, Sweet Baby, System of a Down, Teenage Bottlerocket, Teen Idles, Ten Foot Pole, The Actual, The Agony Scene, The Dream Within, Thee Obscene, The Falcon, The Frisk, The Mr. T Experience, The Shocker, The Who, Third Theory*, Throwdown, Tiger Army, Toothpick, Total Chaos, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, Trapdoor Fucking Exit, TSAR, TSOL, The Tubes, The Twilight Transmission, Twist of Fate, Two Man Advantage, UK Subs, Under a Nightmare, The Unseen (wow, they suck now!), US Bombs, US Roughnecks, The Valentines, The Vandals, Varukers, Velvet Acid Christ, The Vibrators, The Virus, The Voidoids, The Weakerthans, White Zombie, X, X-Ray Spex (true, I hate their singer, but they're cool anyway), Year of the Rabbit, and more but i'm getting lazy here...




I'm poetic, dreamy, sappy, and pathetic. I like to write, and I like the concept of love...but so far, I've yet to feel it.
Alright, so I have, but...yeah, let's not go into that.
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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please (link)
the rubber band idea sounds pretty good...but you DO need to get help. there are counselors that you can go to, and if you don't want to tell your parents, tell another trustworthy person with a car and swear them to secrecy. they can drive you to counseling. you just have to know that, even though it seems like it does...cutting doesn't help anything.


I'm not sure whether this beinglongs in activsm or not but I think that when the airplanes hit the twin towers on 9/11, the terroists actually thought what they were doing what the right thing to do. I know that they shouldn't have done it in such a destructive manner but isn't that what we're doing now? We're completely destroying Iraq and are we immature enough to say when we all realize that this was an idiotic thing to do, "Well, they started it!" Does anybody else agree with me?

-Insecure- (link)
you make a good point there. we're not too much better than them, we're pretty much doing what they did to us. i don't like bush, so if you were looking for something unbiased, you won't get it from me...but hey..i'm trying. :)


how do u get a better voice? (link)
i've heard milk is a no-no. it makes you produce more phlegm or mucus or something and makes your voice sound gooey (sorry, only way i could think to describe it!). yeah, and voice lessons are always an option.


Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help! (link)
your bmi (body mass index) is 22.1; here's how BMI stacks up... Below 18.5 is Underweight, 18.5 through 24.9 is Normal, 25.0 through 29.9 is Overweight, and
30.0+ is Obese. if you want to see for yourself, go to http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm......and again, your bmi is 22.1, which means you are normal! not overweight!!!


im bored and i really cant call muh friends and every time i get on the phone muh lil sister is always there tellin me to get off its like she's muh boss what should i do she bosses me around every where and everything includin muh fiance' and i dont no what 2 do anymore and i give her so much and the sad part is she understands everything that happens she's 13 plz write me back (link)
don't listen to her. she's obviously alot younger than you if you have a fiance'. That's it...don't encourage her. sooner or later she might see that bossing you around isn't working anymore, and she may stop.


does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???

(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you.... (link)
yeah...i doubt you can get zoloft without a prescription. just a question though...didn't your parents notice the blood everywhere, or the wounds in your wrist?

but yeah..anyway, i've heard that st. john's wort does work, and i think you can get that over the counter without a prescription. even if you were getting a prescription for an anti-depressant, i'd be hesitant, because in some cases it just makes it worse.


does anyone know any ways to get over someones death that you were close to? weird ? i know (link)
ignore the suicide kids. for your sake, and mine. You can't really get over it, but you can deal. Find things that make you happy, don't think about it ALL the time. Go on with your life. Find songs that make you happy, or whatever. All you can do is keep living, like they would want you to.


i went to amifat.com just bcuz i wanted to c what is would say and it said "You are emaciated. Consult your doctor or dietitian!" what should i do and wat does that mean? (link)
i'm pretty sure that means you're WAY too skinny, and you need to see a doctor to find out what to do. You're not starving yourself are you?


ok has anyone seen that movie thats called Thirteen??...well its like my favorite movie and i have watched it like 1000 times seriously!..well anyways...i like the way tracy and evey act,look and stuff...is that bad that thats influencing me ...im not tlakin about the stuff they do...but if you seent the movie you'll know what im tlakin about me and i hope you'll help!!

thanks!! (link)
as long as you take on only their attitudes and styles, you should be fine. otherwise...don't do it!!


does anyone know were i can find guitar tabs for country music????? (link)
i'd think you SHOULD be able to find them anywhere. i haven't checked...but try mxtabs.net or ultimate-guitar.com


hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic? (link)
i'm just like you. i promise it won't look bad, i have invisible eyelashes, and when i wear black mascara, i look so much better. don't listen to the people who say it'll look bad...but if you don't like it...try dark blue or brown.


but black should work just fine.




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