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Hey everybody! My name is Ann, and I think I give pretty good advice. I am nineteen, my favorite color is orange, I love pasta, am the oldest child out of five, am Catholic, and am a music education major with flute as my principle. Feel free to ask me anything, and I'll do my best!

advice

Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year?

I think that your crush just proves that you still are feeling stuff for him. It's very good news. Your relationship is still alive and you never get bored. Enjoy it sister.

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I am really sick and tired being made fun off when I talk because of my accent. I always feel as if I can stand up for myself, that is until I face the problem. I am cool with most people or so, but i feel as if i need to find this one friend i can share everything with. But there is no one who I truly trust. I try to talk with my mom but she nevers sees my point. Sometimes I am just afraid to tell her somethings because of her way of taking things to seriously. So I try to talk to god it helps but I still feel as if I need let it all out to someone physically. I try to be true to myself but sometimes that gets hard especially being a freshmen. I am afraid to go and find a guy because i don't like rejection. I feel as if I just can not be myself infront of my peers. Even though I am very outgoing and I never get boring.
If anyone has any advice or suggestions on how to feel confident around my peers despite the way I talk, or how to stop myself from always feeling rejected, please say so.
P.S. I tried writing, it doesn't help.

First of all, don't let them know it bothers you...unfortunatly people feed off our pain. Be proud of were you come from, and your friends shouldn't care about your accent anyways. As for the Freshman part. That will end soon enough...everyone has to go through that at some point. Find your true friends and stick by them.

Luck,
Ann

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i need good way to study because the way i study doesnt work and i cant afforid to lose a another test this semster.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

Well, make sure that your study environment is calm...try your best to stay foccussed. And do not be afraid to ask for help in class.

Best of luck,
Ann

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i have a friend that has been my best friend for like my whole life. but lately she has been deserting me and my(and her) other friends and hanging out with people that she either hated or made fin of last year. i have tried to b mad at her, but she just ignores me when i ignore her. what should i do???!!!

I think your friend maybe coming very self-consious and is trying to make herself popular. Just don't leave her. She'll realize soon enough that those people really aren't her friends.

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ok well i have been "best friends" with this girl since middle of 6th grade. I am now almost half way through my 8th grade year. We are one together. Me and this girl share EVERYTHING together...or so i thought..we used to just talk and talk and talk bout things we needed to get out..now i ask her bout them and shes like cant tell you, top secret. I have also noticed that she doesnt chill with me as much anymore, shes usually with her sister...wat can i do to get my BEST FRIEND back to who she was when i first met her?

I totally know what you mean. Me and my best friend shared EVERYTHING for a year. We only hung out with eachother and eventually ate in silence because we had nothing left to talk abuot. I think it is possible that there maybe a very good reason for her secrecy. If she is hanging out with her sister, maybe there are family problems. My best advise, be there for her, and try to keep staying friends. Just remember...To much of a good thing is bad. As for me and my friend. We took a break from eachother. We stayed friends, but kept things low. We are still best friends today.

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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it.

I think that you only stop being a virgin if you have sex. Period.

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yea this homeocming is late but this girl asked me to homecoming to her school and I like her...she just doesn't know...I got no idea what i should do for my homecoming and stuff and its this saturday so yea...

If she asked you and you like her...THEN GO WITH HER!!! You guys will have a lot of fun. As for what to do...just go to the dance, and then go out to eat or somehting. Trust me...it can be A LOT of fun.

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Ok so I want to change my make-up. I have very very pale skin, grey/blue eyes and quite dark brown hair. I look almost celtic. I really want to start using more dramatic make-up like black eye liner and stuff but I'm not sure how to start, any tips?

Ok, I know that is it really hard to learn how to use makeup properly, but recently I attened a great Mary Kay seminar, and I think I have just the right advise.

1) Foundation should match you neck. (I know that you have pale skin so try a light ivory.)

2) When applying eye shadow use two shades. One shade goes from the bottom of the lid to the brow, and the other just goes in the creas you see when your eyes are open.

3) DAB on foundation

4) Instead of trying to make on perfectly straight line when doing eye-liner, try makeing many shrit small ones...it will be easier. Make sure you do it on both the top and bottom of you eye.

5) Lip stick is important. Try a nuetral color...it will look better then you would think.

6) Practice, and get used to wearing it. That will make application a lot easier.

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What Are Sex Bracelets? lol
-->Thanks I RATE :-)

Well, supposedly each color is a different form of sex. If a boy breaks a girls bracelet then they are to have the kind sex matching the color. It's just some crazy idea. It doesn't really mean anything.

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I'm 14/f. Whenever I see one of the many guys that I like I start to get really, er, sexually excited if you know what I mean. I just want to throw them down and kiss them and even have sex with them. I kind of a goody-two shoes, I get good grades and have never done anything really wrong. I'm longing to let my wild side out but I don't want anybody to know about it. What should I do about this? Plus I feel like I'm so much more horny than anyone else I know. Am I?

You probably or not. I am also 15 years old, and I know what your going through. If you really have done a good job being a goody-two shoes up to this point, then your will power must be strong. You are stonger then your temptations. Remember that.

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