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What are some good songs about a best friends, who like each other, and they want it to be more?

I really like any type of music. But acoustic or anything soft is preferable.

Thanks! (link)
true friend by hm. type it in youtube. i don't like it but it's the only one i can think of


I'm a worthless human being. I've been a worthless human being for a pretty long time, but I've just now come to accept it.

I've decided I want to die. However, I'm too much of a coward to go through with it. Perhaps it's the thought of pain, maybe it's the risk of failing at failing.

In any case, whatever some (Relatively) painless and (Relatively) reliable suicide methods, preferabley accessable to the common 20-something who doesn't work in a hospital? (link)
do you mind telling me why you wanna kill yourself? i no it's dumbbut i've wanted to kill myself for over 2 years now. but like you, i'm a coward. tell me ALL the reasons, no matter how stupid and whiny it all comes out. i swear, i'll listen. it's not stupid and it really helps. i still wanna kill myself, each and every day and if i was given a choice to live a eally happy life or kill myself painlessly, i'd always choose to kill myself. but tell me why you want to. i've survived 2 years. well actually more but i got through. just tell me. will understand, i swear!!

EDIT ---
Okayy so i was thinking about it, and first of all, this isn't euthanasia. secodn of all, if you are still alive and want advice, then just look online. but be careful to check the mortality rates, otherwise you'd be in too much pain, you wouldnt die, and you'd be put on suicide watch which is horrible. i hear laughing gas can kill you easily if dealt with wrongly, and you can get that off the internet. just look it up.


I haven't had my period since the end of January, and it's now April. I haven't had sex, but have done other risky things, so I don't neccessarily think that I'm preganant, but I'm still a little worried about that. I'm also worried about this not being healthy. I did come down with mono about 3 weeks ago, but I still had my apetite so I didn't really lose any weight. Any help as to what could be going on with my body would be very appreciated :] (link)
talk to a doctor or a parent who might know something about it. if your embarassed then look on the internet for related issues which could identify it


im 28 and my girlfriend is 32. she has two girls daughters one is almost 2 the other is 14. the 14 year old has a father that is not in her life. her step dad (father of the 2 year old) who she didn't like past away. she tells her mom that she cannot see me. how could I make this better? we really want to be together. (link)
i kow it's hard but stay away from your girlfriend for a while and start to treat the whole family as friends. let the daughter know that you are not currently trying to pursue her. and i know you probabaly love her but as some one who has had a lot of experience with my (and other) mom making wrong desicion, it really would impact her life, so i don't think she trying to control her mom's life, just making sure that her sister's doesn't get screwed up. she's just being careful about who she let's into her family, because when a person(and by person i mean your girlfriend) is in love with someone, the oftern forget those around them and make mistakes.


15m

Everyone in my french class seems to think my teacher's daughter likes me. Im starting to think so too... One day, a week or so ago, she sat by me in class when she used to sit on the other side of the room, but one day she decided to sit next to ME. Not any one else in the class, cause there was plenty of seats to sit in, but ME.

she is pretty good looking, but im not the greatest looking guy in the world. But i think it would be awkward dating my teachers daughter.. Should i feel this way? if not, then why do i?

Help? (link)
look i'm sure she's smart enough to make her own decisions, so don't worry about your teacher,although stil be extra respectful around your teacher as you would with any potenial date's parents. be sure and maybe go out with her as friends and if you're sure she likes you , go for it!


15/f.
i don't even know if this kid likes me, but here i go. basically, he moved here this year. never really talked to him. this trimester in school, he switched into my lunch and one of my classes. we STILL don't really talk. so one day he started talking to me online, and since then he's been nonstop flirting with me. we've been talking for like two days, and today he sent me a text message 'hey cutie :)' and i haven't led him on or ANYTHING. i've talked to him like i would my friends. also, the other day i told him i was going to be working and what time, and he came in during my shift. luckily i was on drive-thru and he went to the counter, so i was safe from awkwardness. and i don't know, but i have a feeling he likes me.

the thing is, i REALLY don't know him, and i don't really want to. that sounds horrible, but i really don't have any interest in getting to know him.

what do i do?

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okay, either two things are going on,

1) he really likes you but has no idea how to get you to like him. in that case give him a chance and let him know you like guys you are more natural and don't come on too strong.

2) or he's a total weirdo and let him know youre not into him. at all.


I am a girl and i am 13 years old. I am only in 6th grade though because i was held back. Like no one in my class has a boyfriend and its the really spoiled people who do, but i really like this guy and he likes me. BUt hes really shy. Only guys have asked girl out so what do I do? I need advice. (link)
well if you both like each other, what's the problem? why do you need to labell each other as boyfriend and girlfriend? and if you go out and hve a good time that should be good enough. and sooner or later, i'm sure he'll 'ask you out'. just let him know you're into him .


15/f

I have a 'semi' guy friend. What I mean by semi, is that we talk a lot in the halls and laugh a lot and like each others company. However, I don't have his number, only his screenname [he rarely gets on]. I have a crush on him, and really like him a lot. Recently, he transferred out of the one class that I had with him because he didnt like it. There's this cheerleader, and when she saw him in the hall, she goes "OMG [his name]! It's SO GOOD TO SEE YOU! OMG CLASS IS SOOO boring without you! You should switch to my art class" and he goes "yeah I know, [class name] sucks". I was right there, and I was about to go and talk to him. She's always making flirtatious remarks when she's around him, and quite frankly, I think she's obnoxious and a sl*t [she's been with 4 other guys, hooked up with them, gotten drunk, had pics up on facebook semi naked and her in her thong]. I recently found out that this OTHER girl has a crush on him as well. I was a little depressed when I found out that he had transferred classes. We still see each other during passing period, and my best friends locker is right next to his.

I talked to my mom about this and she said that if he's a good guy, he'll realize that I was right there to begin with. The Sweetheart Dance is coming up in early February. I'm a little scared because I think that he will ask the cheerleader to go with him. My mom said that again, he's not a little kid, and will know who the right girl is. He's not like most guys who only try to get in a girls pants. He's not a major flirt, and he's really nice [not to mention cute]. I know that I should probably get over him, but I'm not desperate or anything like that. I want to hang out with him and just be around him more. He only talks to me and occasionally the cheerleader when she approaches him. I want to be the one to make the first move, but my mom said that I should let him do what he wants, and if he truly likes me, he'll go after me instead of me going after him.

Any advice? Sorry that this was so long. (link)
okay, well. try finding him when ever he is alone. i don't mean stalk him, but find a time when he isn't too busy and talk about random stuff. it's best for a guy to know that if he decides to go out with you it won't be all awkard. be friendly but don't make him think you're not into him.


I want to be an interior designer or a marine bioligist . How can I choose between the two? and what colleges should i go to (link)
Well, why don't you decide which one is more fun and you will enjoy learning about the most. personally (though don't base it on my opinion)interior designing sounds like you can be more creative and therefore have more fun working on different projects. why don't you try something like giving yourself an imaginary room to decorate and also do something marine biologisty(really sorry but i have no ideas about that subject) and see which you have more fun doing




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