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how do you get eyeliner from the bottom of your eyelid?
you can get one of the almay makeup remover pads and fold it in half and use the fold to skim across your bottom lid with your pulling it out. it may work with a wet kleenex too =]
hope i helped!
-jenna
15/f
i need some hair ideas. i've had the same hair forever, like the same cut. i have medium, lenght but past my shoulders hair and side bangs. i don't know what to do with it. it seems like all there is, is side bangs you know?
i'd say i have an oval shaped face.
across the forehead bangs didn't really work for me.
even if it's a different style you can suggest?
i normally wear it straight because my hair doesn't hold curls well unfortuneately. i scrunch it sometimes but i'm sick of it. and i've tried going short but i really hated it and i'm trying to grow out my hair. i know i sound picky but i don't know what to do! anything you can suggest would be awesome, thanks =D
maybe get some extensions from sally beauty supply :D they are about $70 for a full set but you can get neon little strands for $4 each. I'm not sure if they have a sally's where you live but i'm sure there is something of that sort =]. you could get the same color as your hair, even though it's just straight..it gives it a totally different look. or you could be exoctic and get different colors put in it or a lighter/darker shade on the under layers
extensions are fun! :D
hope i helped
--jenna
I am not an ugly person, nor am i anti social. I have plenty of friends, but unfortunately that's it.
friends.
i always find a way to ruin any interest a girl has in me. i make jokes, and i honestly think they get TOO comfortable w/ me.
idk.
HELP!
aww no i'm sure there's more to you than just friends. everyone does. hmm this is a hard one. maybe you have TOO much of a sense of humor. sometimes, there are moments where you need to buckle down and get serious, or get romantic. girls love that:D. treat them like what they would call "cute". but don't be too clingy at the same time. leave them wanting more, you know? it's hard to explain, but maybe you could change the way you act so maybe they COULDN'T get so comfortable with you, but comfortable enough for them to stay with you, you know?
bleh sorry, that's as much as i can think of right now
come back and ask me if you need anything else!
good luck :D
-jenna
okayy so i went over to my friend, let's call her sally. i went to my friend sally's house and the guy i like, let's call him joe, was there. and i knew this before i went over there. so i got there and he was spending the night, and i ended up spending the night too. soo we stayed up till about 5 in the morning. we didn't do much, i layed with him on the couch and we fell asleep together or whatever. but, like, idk, joe acted like he liked me when i was over there. and he wanted to kiss me, and i knew the guys make the first move. but he was waiting for me too (now that i realize it). and now, we don't really talk anymore. soo i wanna know why he was doing that, (i know you can't tell me really but i'd like your opinion) and what are some good ways i can start talking to him again? thanks!
--confusedd.
woww that's definatly weird. guys are soo confusing like that, i hate it. unfortunatly, their nature is to lead girls on because..you know..theyre just guys! but i'm not saying that's what happened in this case, but there's always a possibilty. or maybe just like he wanted you to make the first move, maybe he's waiting for YOU to talk to HIM. just ask him to hang out again just like yall did that night :D. hopefully things will be the same. maybe the 2nd or 3rd time you guys hang out, you will know if there's "something" there or not.
sorry, that's the best i can do! if you need anything else come and talk to me :D
-jenna
Ok. I've talked to my friend and our friendship is still not any better. She says she did value our friendship, but that it is basically in the past now. I don't know what to do. She was my only friend. My only true friend, or so I thought. But i guess it just turns out that I never really had a friend to begin with. Now what am I to do, in a little town, where everyone looks at me as "unpopular". No one else here will ever accept me.
Please help...
Well you need to tell her exactly what you are telling me. Use the guilt factor =P
But..if she's going to be like that..maybe it isn't worht it at all. And there can't be where no one accepts you, of course people would! You just need to start having a big variety of the people you talk to. It's all goood, just mingle :D
So i have this boyfriend, and we've been together for about 4 months now and he told me he was in love with me, which i can't believe judging how young we are. but we just recently have been talking about oral sex and stuff like thatt. i have two questions though. first would be if i give him head, should we use a condom incase he like splurges? because if i swallow that would be really bad. also, should a girl shave befoe she gets fingered? would the guy be like grossed out? please help! By the way i'm 14. :)
-nervous.
aww well i believe that being in love doesn't depend on age. i am also 14 and me and my kind of boyfriend are in love =P
hmm well first off..don't rush into things too far. you will regret them later in life. i am 14 and i have been with this guy for 7 months now and we haven't even done any of that stuff yet
..so i'm not really experienced in that subject =/ you may have to ask another girl
but as much as i know, usually condoms are just so you don't get pregnant and HELP not pass std's. if he wants to use one for that, he can. but he probably won't want to =P
ehh guys usually talk about how they think it's gross if girls don't shave..soo maybe.. i don't know. maybe you should just ask him an innocent question to find out =P
sorry i couldn't give you the answers you wanted but i tried my best!
--jenna
not a stupid question just PLEAAAAAAAASE. I DONT GET GIRLS. im 13 in 7th grade shes 14 in 8th. catholic school. im mature im the kind of guy shed like but why wont she? same music same style. shes so hott she thinks shes ugly. she dresses all gothic and emo. shes the funnest girl youd ever meet but then she ends up so depressed and mad. ive been to great skate and kinda stayed with her once she thinks im hott but she dont like me she likes a dork. shes just soooo cute. she doesnt try and follow everyone like everyother girl at my school. she trys to stand out she tells the robots as she calls them to just fuck off. she does what she wants and it works. she says she only likes this one guy who at the moments i hate to much but i dont even know him they are always with eachother their like their best friends not dating. she plays electric guitar. she loves photography and is so good as im told. she sings so good. her favorite bands are marilyn manson and evanescence. she loves partying. i doubt she even knows i know all this about her or my name. she says im a player tho. i have a girlfriend but i still like her shes just the girl of my dreams but this years almost over and she might move shes goin to highschool maybe down to mexico. i just dont know what to do!!! just please help me!
hmm well it sounds like you need to get to know her better
ask her to hang out, start talking to her..or something
how can you know all this about her and who she likes and she has talked to you and not eve know your name? of course she does!
ehh dressing like that just means that is the kind of style they are into, not that they are depressed and want attention so don't worry =P
that's good you are having a good confidence and thinking you are better for her than that other guy :D
but if you want a chance with her..try actually talking to her and getting to know her. but honestly, be VERY careful. you don't want to get TOO attached (if not too late) and then her move and it be even more devastating. you really have got to watch that
but it sounds like you totally dig this girl =P and she seems really great. but there is more to it than just thinking eachothers hot
if you got a girlfriend..don't forget her!
don't make a mistake I did and break up with someone for someone else and have it totally not work out and think you can go back to them..that is the worst feeling ever
but the gyst of this is...TALK TO HER! :D
good luck!
ask me if you need anything else
--jenna
i dont like men but i get a big bone bone when im around them but i like girls but i dont get a bone bone when im areound them... and i love 2 girls one cup... its so cute :] what do i do??
hahahha nice bill :D
but I think this is a sign that you're gay ;P
Well, the thing is she comes to my house and hugs,kisses, and totally flirts with my brother. She laughs at me and laughs with him. She comes over every spare second that she has and just does stuff in front of me or spends hours on end in my brothers bedroom. Its basically just annoying knowing that i could of had that laughter with her and it will never be the same again. So even if i talk to her and tell her how i feel about us not being friends, shes still going to come over until he finishes high school to see him, and she is still going to cut me out of the picture.
Woahh, you definatly definatly need to talk to her about it! That's just out of line
How do you upload videos onto Youtube?
Well, you have to be a member first
So sign up/log in and then at the top, go to My Account and then about an inch under that hah it will have a button that says upload and then just fill out the title and description and find the video in your files
Hope I helped!
--Jenna
Okk well there is this guy that I'm dating and I'm like reallly scared to kiss him but I know for sure that he reallly wants to kiss me sooo jenna what should I dooo?
Guys are usually supposed to make the first move =P
You can kinda of get him in the position to
But mostly...you just kind of got to wait for him and when he is ready =P
It should happen soon
Just sometimes, get really cuddly and close to his face and if he's comfortable with it...he will just lean in an kiss you :D
Hope I helped!
--Jenna
ok well I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 4 days....and idk if I should kiss him or not...and his friend is trying to break us up by saying that he wants to break up which is bullshit soo what should i doo?
Hmm hang out with him this weekend and see if yall like "click" and if it feels right, kiss him ;D
Don't listen to his friend, but make sure you talk to your boyfriend about it because his friend might be telling him that you wanted to break up and stuff. Just make sure yall both know that you don't want to break up =]
Good luck!
--Jenna
how do you makeout???
Ohhh geez, this is hard one =P
I know you like freak out because you feel like you won't know how to when it happens and you don't believe people when they say that it comes naturally. But it really does. My first time, I was totally freaking out because I didn't know the flow of it. Mostly the thought and doubt of OH MY GOSH I AM GOING TO MESS UP, will probably make you mess up. But right when it happened, I already had the hang of it. Just let your partner take the lead if you don't know what to do :D.
But mostly it is just little kisses and then you open your mouth a little and let yall's do the work =P. And as you progress, you can do little things where hmm well I have heard people say like spell the alphabet with your tongue but I have never tried it because it sounds a little weird but it would never hurt trying =P
Good luck, hope I helped!
--Jenna
Oh P.S.
If my answer didn't help, try this :D
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out
or
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out-for-the-First-Time
so me and this guy are really good friends, and probably will start going out soon. he calls me adorable names like sweetie and beautiful and i love that. what nicknames can girls say to guys, though, that arent "girly"??
Aww congratulations :D
Hmmmm cutie, that is one for boy or girls. Babe, baby is a little girly. Hottie, if you like put a "=P" by it or something to just like joke around. Ehh like me and my "boyfriend" just joke around and I call him girly names and stuff but it just depends on the relationship you have with him :D
Hope I helped!
--Jenna
Hey Jenna, I was hoping i could get some advice ;) . Ok, I am 15, female, and from Canada. I have this one friend and she is good and all. Well, she was good and all. We used to be really good friends until one day she decided to start dating my brother. He's turning 17 in December and she is 16 right now. Anyhow, things were going pretty good and then all of a sudden this relationship changes her whole attitude towards me. She starts little fights for no reason, argues, and blames me for all the things that could possibly 'wreck' thier relationship. I'm not even trying to wreck the 'relationship' that they have going on, she just 'thinks' i am. Sure most people would just say 'leave it and move on' because there is more people out there, and i do have other friends. It's just that she won't stop treating me badly, and my brother is treating me badly and is acting like he has the prize now cause she hardly ever speaks to me or pays attention to anything i say. The only time she talks to me is if it has something to do with my brother or she wants help on her work. Overall, she isn't much of a friend anymore... and i hope that things can go back to the way they were. With me and her as best friends as it once was. Anything you have to say will help and is much appreciated, thanks :)
Hello :D
Ahh, that must be pretty hard =/
I hate it when people change like that!!
Well I mean, the most you could do is talk to her about it and tell her EXACTLY how you feel but don't like have a bad attitude just to start another fight, just tell her you really miss the person that you used to be able to hang out with and have a lot of fun with and make her feel guilty and stuff =P
And if that doesn't work, I guess you will just have to let it be. My friend changed too, not over the same reason as you, but I tried talking to her about it...she acted like she would change, but she never did and I feel a lot better off not being her friend because it saved me a lot of stress. So just think about that :D. I know it is really really hard though. But I think the key is just to sit her down and talk about it =]
Good luck!
You can always come and ask me if you have anymore problems :D
--Jenna
How do i get colorful sayings for my buddy info on IM
Ah, this is the best website ever for them
http://www.but-autumn-came.org/
And do the first one with the basket of apples that says "profiles"
Hope I helped!
--Jenna
oh so i really like this guy and he asked me to go to the movies with him this weekend, and well if we go we'll probably end up making out or something.
but my parents dont want me going with "boys"
so idk what to do. if i tell him sry can't parents he'll think ima freak or something.
how do i ask my parents to stop being overprotective and just let me go with him.
i could always lie cause i mean they're not there when i go but i hate lieing...
and if they did find out they would be hurt that i lied....
any advice...
btw im 13/f
thanks a ton
Eeeek that really sucks
I mean, you can't blame your parents...they are weird guys out there. But yeah, maybe try to ask them for a little levrage but don't make it too obvious that you have been ask to go to the movies this weekend. He probably won't think you're a freak if you sound really pissed about it though =P. Yeah...lying would be the best answer and there wouldn't really be any way they could find out. But, some people just hate lying and thats totally fine.
Try talking to them though! And do what you feel is right :D
Good luck!
--Jenna
ok so i have bf and he has tried to makeout with but i dont know what to do
he stuck his yongue in my mouth and i was like freaking out! i kinda liked it though haha.
so i mean what do i do with my tongue when he puts his in mine?
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP MEEEE!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Awww
Just go with the flow
If you don't know what to do, just do exactly what he does and you will get the hang of it =]
Stick your tongue in his mouth, then I guess like hmmmm how do I say it...like I heard people call it "playing tag" with your tongues? I hope that helps. But really, if you just follow his lead, it will come naturally =P
Hope I helped and have fun ;D
--Jenna
Does anyone know any good Screamo bands! I just got into screamo and i likie it but on itunes theres no genre for screamo. So yeah help me
Ooooh some good ones are DANCE GAVING DANCE, Alesana, Chiodos, Enter Shikari, SCARY KIDS SCARING KIDS, Atreyu, All That Remains, Change of Pace, Disturbed, Dope, Flylead, Saosin, Killswitch Engage, Lamb of God, Paramore, Senses Fail, A Skylit Drive
I uppercased my current favorites =P
i have a pink ipod nano, and idk whats wrong with it. it doesn't turn on. has this happened to anyone before ?
and also, if i take it back to the apple store and ask them to fix it or give me a new one, will they ?
without a receipt though, because I don't have one anymore.. i lost it.
ANSWERS PLEASE!
Oh that happened to my newer nano
It the handbook it says to hold down the middle and menu buttons for 30 seconds and an apple should appear on the screen and it will restart
Hope I helped!
--Jenna