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Q: what do you do.. when you think ur bf is gonn a breakl up w- u? how do u know
ask him about it if hes that good of a boyfriend then he would be honest

Q: alrite well i have had alot of problems latley i look on the net at porrn and i get soo horny and i wanna have sex.. but i dont have a bf so, i mean i dont have a vibrator or anything so what i do is i ride sumting.. like a able or a chair or soemthign with an edge cause it makes me have that feeling like a vibrator is there something wrong with what im doing.. does i make me a looser? or can it make me sick? please help

Confusedd and geekky
no no your fine it wont make you sick or it dosnt make you looser but if you fall or somthing it can hurt rly bad if you cant get a vibrator or dildo then just fill a condom up with water then put it in the frezer then there u go home made one just do it so that no one in your house can see it that could turn bad if your familys not confortable with sex

Q: Alright, im having a few problems as far as guys go. There are several of my friends i care deeply about that have different feelings for me. Like romantic feelings... And id love to go out with any of them, its just that if i go out with one of the guys, the others will be hurt and i dont want that. And there is one of them that stands out from the others, that id really like to be with. But the other problem is, is that i told my ex that i prolly wont go out with anyone till were together again when things are easier for us. And i love him so much, and ive always cared for others more than myself. This is a real issue... please help me

~Helpless romantic
hey helpless romantic

Do what you think is best if you really like this guy then go for it and just tell the others that you think of them as friends and tell your ex that you are going to go out with other people till you guys fix things with each other then if you think it is right you might go back out with him


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Q: Okay.. so me and my boy friend have been dating for 8 months ! Well just last week we were looking at his digital camera and a picture poped up and he was like oh look heres when they had a stripper come to my dads birthday ! Im Like WHAT ? so i didn't say anything until we got home well when i did hes like its just a joke come on i mean she was ugly and she only danced in front of everyone else ! I was like ok and i let it go away well then today i was looking thru the pictures and i seen one of her dancing all over him !! i didn't tell him i saw it but now its all i can think about i really love him what should i do !
its there job dont get worked up over it
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Q: I crack my back.. not a lot.. but at least a few times a day... i know its bad... but now it's a habbit... how can i stop this and what can i do if i get the urge to crack my back?
just crack it, its not that bad im like that i have to crack most of my bones in my body to be happy
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Q: Hey, im really scared about doing stuff sexually with a guy because of some of the stuff with my body..do guys care what a body looks like? i have stretch marks on my boobs because they grew so fast..and i have little dots on my but..and i dont know why? i just wanted to ask you if a guy cares about what his girlfriends body looks like to do sexual stuff with her.. i havent done anything yet...but im scared of what might happen when we do stuff..thanks!
If he really likes you then he wont care what you look like all he will care about is wanting to be with you
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Q: Well, well, well....umm im having some problems in my relationship. Ya c, my g/f, or now ex g/f wanted to take a break w/ me b/c some peeple were "ruining" our relationship..Well, i love her more than anything, and i kno its the same for her...and your like the last person i would ask for advice, no offence...thanxx for listening

RKO* is GrEaTnEsS
its ok joe i forgive you but you have to understand maybe she wanted a brake did u even consider that if you didnt then maybe you should

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Q: well currently i have had bad thoughts about killing my self and shit like that.. i always thinnk about it and wanan try it wha do i do?




signed fuck life
do what ever possible to stop these thoughts occupy your self call a friend or go on the internet
add somthing to my inbox if you have more problems like this
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Q: If a guy doesn't bust during sex is that a bad thing? I mean we do it all the time and it usually turns out normal.. but the last time he said he was done but he never reached his climax. is it just that sometimes people want to, but they just can't? Or is he just tried of having sex with the same one person all the time? I love him alot and im scared that he's getting bored with me......? Please Help
no thats normal just take a brake for a few days then every thing will be back to normal
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Q: what do you do.. when you feel like life is crashing and burning and theres no use for living... and all you have is urself to live with and a few friends who care


signed-- fedd up
I know life can be bad at times but dont give up just keep close to the friends you have and seek guidance in them
*-* tori

Q: heyy i have lime wire and i have all this awesome music for it yay, but i wanna kno can u burn it on to a cd, and if so how thanxx, ps i rate HIGH! plzz help!
yea u can click on the start menue then my computer then local disk (c)then click documents and settings then what ever user you are then click shared there you go your play list should be in there then just open them with what ever music thing you have

Q: my friend goes out w/ a boy i like what shold i do?
nothing be happy for her i know its hard but you might have to just deal with this one
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Q: Heyy.....i have this friend, lets say she trys to make people annoyed really bad. Caz for christmas i went to her house and everything and she was like oh look i got this really cute tiffany bracelet and i looked at it and you can tell that it is a fake one and you can tell from far away...i was gonna tell her but then im like wat ever screw it. Then she cames to school one day and was on a field trip..and she had a fake louis vuitton purse, it looked real but i know what makes those kinds of purses fake or not, and she was like what you think i cant afford a louis vuitton purse or something?? I was gonna tell her that her parents probably bought it in China Town in New York caz the purses there look so real and all. Shes living in a lie she belives everything her parents tell and all and im very high mantaince....not trying to be bichty and spound spoiled...but i know about these things caz i own alot of tiffany,luis vuitton, coach, donney & borke and abercrombie and hollister and shyt like that. I really pisses me off when she tells me that i dont know anything and all so what should i do???Ohh yea now she mad @ me caz she thinks that i keep talkin shyt bout her which is not true @ all. Ohh one more thing....me and her are also best friends and i want to know what i should do with this...

"confused"
maybe she thinks that you will stop likeing her if she dosnt have nice stuff or maybe do you get nice stuff that could be it just talk to her and see whats bothering her but dont yell at her for lieing
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Q: after i straighten my hair.. blowdry and straighten. its always staticy.. what can i do so it wont static to my face and hands ect.
add a non friz gell to it it always works just add it in the morning be for you straighten it and after
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Q: On Friday I will be going to a (non-formal) dance i want to know what to wear and how do do my hair and make-up. I need to look hot cuz my crush is going to be there and I'm trying to get him from another girl. I'm 4'6 and have sholder length brown hair and brown eyes. THANX IN ADVANCED!!!
well put your hair up it gets really hot at thoes things but make it so its cute maybe a messy bun with little peacis of hair hanging down and for what you should ware you might want to keep it confortable if your danicing i wouldent want to wear so tight of jeans that they rip when your trying to move and for the top maybe a tanktop or what ever your school allows my school was stupid like that so we had a limmit on what we could wear but add somthing to my coulmn if you have any more questions
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Q: ok im a girl and i get turned on very easily i guess because anytime i guy touches me in the right way or kisses me or sometimes holds my hand i get really wet "down there".. is that normal for girls to get really wet at the smallest things an to even get wet?!
yea its normal alot of girls get like that
*-*tori

Q: Well there is this guy I like at school, I just met him this year and I like him alot. The thing is I found out a while ago that he is dating this other girl that doesn't go to our school. I got really upset and sort of jealous but I'm trying to forget about it but the thing is, I can't get over him. I think about him everyday (constantly) and I just can't stop talking about him. When I like a guy it takes me a really long time to get over them, maybe even takes years. Any advice on what I should do? I been kind of having this addiction for wanting a boyfriend too, but the thing is I never had one before (or you could say a proper one). I don't look at myself as someone a guy would like to go out with considering my outer appearance. But My friends always tell me that I have a really good personality on the inside. I just don't know what to do... if you could help me at all I would really appearicate it. Sorry this is long and thanks
well i think that if this persons in your head then there ment to stay there but if you really want to get him out then stay away from him as much as possible just explane that hes really cool and you love hanging out with him but you feel that you like him way to much im assuming that he knows you like him but if he dosnt then avoiding hims is not the best thing because you might lose a really cool friend but any ways if he dosnt know then i would just see what happens if its getting to the point when you cry because you not with him then talk to some on with a degree in this stuff like at school that should help at lest a little

Q: I want to bring my bf over to my house, but everytime i do, my little sisters (theres 2 of them and theyre 5 and 7) follow me everywhere! Or make kissy faces! This is SOO embarrassing! Ive tried EVERYTHING but nothing works! it hapens with my friends too..any ways i candeceive them or SOMETHING?!
tell your mom to talk to them that usualy works or make them a deal that you can have the living room for how ever then they get it just competmise with them or yell at them but i think that the first thing would work best

Q: For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think?
it all depends on the guy some guys like easy girls and some like girls that dont go around that much

Q: Hi icky vicky .....u kno its ... Exactletters
Well i like this boi n he said sunday he likes me... but wont ask me out n every one asks if i like him n i say yea....n they keep askin did he ask u out...n i say no.... all depressed.... wut should i do we alredy madeout like 3 times n kissed........... n he goes to the ihs right near me and knows my cuzion n my friend... wut shiuld i do Vickyyy???
XOxo
Confussed Shorty(jen)
hey jen
if you say he likes you then why dont you ask him out first write him a letter or what ever or just go up to him and be like yea your hott i like you you like me i say we go out lol i dont know thats somthing i would do

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hey im tori but i have alot of other nick names it getting to the point where i will answer to about most any thing that im use to hearing but any ways i love helping people i applyed to answer qusetions on some other websites but i havent got a email back yet conserning them well thats all that i can think of to have in hear for now if i think of other things then i will add them

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