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My very best friend smokes. I keep thinking it's my fault. Is it my fault?

no its not your fault unless you offered the cigs ir pott or whatever to her.. its her fault for being dumb enough to take it. dont blame yourself maybe try to help her stop
good luck
-katie

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what would i be if i wore skinny jeans, converse, random t-shirts ex. wet seal shirts and skate shirts??

EMO.
-katie

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How exactly do the orthodontists take OFF your braces..?? im getting mine off in july.. and im kinda freaking out... THANKS

haha dont be worried i had braces twice and its not painful when they took mine off. they basically take the actual braces off which is the part that is the most uncomfortable out of the whole process. they take the glue off next and they take this little like sander tool thing but its worth it cause when thyre done your teeth feel sooooooo smooth so yea dont be worries
-katie

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What is the difference between name brand clothing and designer clothing? What would Abercrombie and Fitch be? Lucky brand jeans?

abercrombie is brand name stuff like gucci coach and luis vuitton is designer stuff
-katie

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while having sex what does it mean to ride on a guy? like i think i know kinda what it is but hhow exactly do you do it? and does it really hurt more?

you basically strattle him like a horse kind of and then you would move up and down on his penis

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ok well i'm young and i'm not planning on having sex anytime soon. but i was just wondering like what you do with your hips. because i've read questions from people that say they move their hips good and what not and i wasn't even aware like how you move your hips. so if anyone could explain or give me a site i would greatly appreciate it

well i dont know if your a boy or a girl so...
if your a boy: if your on top then you have to hump the girl and that does require your hips to move... if your on bottom and the girl is um riding you lol then u just lay there basically... but it all depends on the position.

if your a girl... usually for a girls first time the guy is on top and the girl just spreads her legs and depending on how tight she is she might have to lift her hips up alittle so the guy can get in

hope i helped
-katie

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So i am going to highshool and my boyfriend will still be in jr. high.. and i think it wont work out will it?? there is this guy in my grade that really likes me and is a jock and everything and i am normal?? should i drop my boyfriend that i have right now?? or just see what happens?

if you would rather be with the guy your own age then break up with your current boyfriend and go out with him instead. but honestly my bf and i are both freshman and i never see him so i dont think it would really make that big of a difference that your boyfriend is still in middle school. good luck
-katie

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I want to break up with my bf. I like him and stuff. but i just don't like him as anything more then friends anymore. Theres really no reason for this change..just b/c. But i ahve no idea how to bring it up, its bring be a lot of stress, and i just want to break up with him, but i'm scared of hurting him. and i have NO idea how to bring it up. HELP

ok well if you don't like him anymore then you have to break up with him. its not fair to him. would you want someone to continue going out with you if they didn't even like you?? so i think you shoudl do it in person. i think you at least owe him that. don;t be cruel about it either just say something like i just don;t like you anymore and i think we should just be friends. if he gets really mad and stuff and starts cursing or whatever then let him get his anger out but don't let him attack you ha. but you really have to break up with him
hope i helped! good luck
-katie

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Ive never wore a tampon, ive tryed so many times, but i cant get it in.
I wear pads, and its summer and i want to wear a tampon. I tryed the mirror thing and toilet but its hard. Any other ideas, ( and the box instructions dont work great either)


Also how can i make it cleaner when i wear pads.

i just do it by sitting on the toilet and you aim for your lower back and make sure you get it in far enough... lol good luck hope i helped oh and it helps if you use the kind with an aplicator if youve never used them before
-katie

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my best freind haley is going out with a great guy named steeve but shes so weird with him she will be in love withhim then she will break up with him or cheat on him and liek idk i feel really bad bc i tlka to steve al the time adn he used to love her like relally love her but the worse their relaionship gets the less he caresadn that scares me bc my best freind is starting to give up her player ways for him.. for example he always used to call her and tlak to her every night as long as he could now he avoids her cals and alwaysd calls me .. also when hes on the phone with me he only tlaks shit about her to me .. thne when they are with eachother if she isnt hoooking up with him enough then he will just leve and be pissed at her .. and im always the one stuck in the middle
ANY ADVICE?

i think that you should either have haley confront steve and tell him that she's not going to cheat on him again.. if shes not serious about not cheating on him again then she shoudl just break up with him for good... but personally i think steve shoudl just break up with her and find someone else who would treat him right and who deserves him... because your friend obviously doesnt... no affense but shes a whore.. hope i helped
-katie

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how do i get over a guy and like someone new with the old guy still being my friend¿

well ive had to get over a few people and the only way that worked for me was to just get rid of or store somewhere else everything that reminded me of him or made me think about him... i deleted his number from my phone deleted his s/n from my buddylist... everything.. and i didnt see him for about a month either so i could thoroughly get over him. i met new guys went out with some1 else and then became friends with my old bf again and were really good friends now so i think maybe all you need is time and seperation... hope i helped
-katie

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hii!
im getting my nose pierced in 2 days =]

i got a question,
i read online that it could fall out while your sleeping and the hole will close up, so this one girl said it helps to put a little baindade over it so it wont fall out, but i was thinking that it could get an infection cause bacteria will be trapped and the area wont beable to breathe.

what do you guys think?

--ashley

hey i got my nose pierced about 6 months ago and my only fell out once because i accidentally twisted it out... it doesnt fall out in your sleep.. the back of the piercing is twisted... its literly impossible unless you really try... hope i helped
-katie

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where can i find jeans with pockets but NO BRAND NAME what so ever on the butt (pockets.) thanks.

umm i think kohls but im not positive and gap

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hey, im 13 and everyone I know has a bf but guys arent even interested in me. any advice????

i would say to become friends with more guys that you would like to go out with or that you think is hot or whatever. show them that your fun to be around.. or even just ask some one out yourself.. thats what i did and the person i asked out said yes so you never know.. just take a chance and ask some1 out or become friends w guys and maybe they will start to like you and might ask you out. hope i helped
-katie

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Hey, i need some really, really good quotes to go in a going-away scrapbook for one of my friends. If you could give me the quotes (as opposed to the website), that'd be great! and please, no cliches!

www.holliesquotes.com is the best... it has just about everything

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I am really a bad kisser. I don't know if it because my boyfriend isn't very good, but when I kiss him, theres only an open space in our mouths, and its just wired. Plus, its really wet. He always wipes his mouth after we make out.

I don't think about it, but seriously! I don't think he even likes kissing me anymore.
Please help.

1. swallow when you need to swallow, just take a second, stop kissing and just swallow
2. it helps that if hes the one kissing you to like follow their tongue, if you like go off and do your own thing he will think that you dont know what your doing
3. do not bite him... thats the worst thing you could ever do.
-hope i helped, katie

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OK, so there is this really nice/cute guy in one of my classes and I can always feel him staring at me. How do.. i guess... "make a move" on him, or get him to notice me or to talk to me. I'm not really an outgoing person, so its not like i would just go up to him.

ok what i would do is maybe do something to annoy him alittle like if he sits in the desk in front of you maybe tap his chair and get him alittle frustrated... if he has a sense of humor do this because then he will talk to you more often if you kind of apologize and smile if he tells you to cut it out.. if not maybe just smile at him or say hey if you cach him staring at you... but if he has a sense of humor just do something little to irritate him... that usually works

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I need some cute little love sayings,
And pickup lines would work too :]
Help please.

i would recomend holliesquotes.com , goodquotes.com or i would go to photobucket.com and type in the search engine cute sayings... they always have good stuff

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ok well, there's this girl; Paige i'll use names because it's eaiser. Well we were best friends since like 6th grade and we got in a fight about a month ago and we're good now. BUT, while we weren't friends she became really good friends with this girl who i hate, Lauren. I just don't like her. I could go on it's just too long. Anyway, i really didn't care because i had other friends too but they started doing EVERYTHING and then they both are going to the same high school- i'm not. They both made a sports team lauren's getting a big head- Paige isn't. Well recently my friend Nick and Clayton ran into lauren and she threatened nick to talk to paige and maybe ask her out. and pretty much grabbed him by the shirt and said ask her out soon or you'll die. Clayton and Nick told me and i really believe them. Nick's scared to death because he doesn't really like Paige. Paige, doesn't know what her new BFF - Lauren did. Should i tell her or just keep my mouth shut? I'm just afraid Paige is going to get hurt...again. and i hate it because somehow it'll come back on me. Please, help!

sorry it's long

ok so basically you have 3 options:
A. you can tell your friend about what nick and clayton told you and hope that she believes you over lauren... which no affense i dont think is very likely since you said that lauren and paige have become really close.you could also risk your friendship with paige if you tell her what nick and clayton told you
B. you could just stay out of this situation all together.. the only down side is that what if paige finds out that you knew about what lauren was doing and you didnt tell her... she might feel like betrayed by you which is never good
C. you could maybe have clayton and nick tell paige what lauren has been doing to them and how shes been threatening them.

if i were you i would go with choice c if nick and clayton are willing to do it if not stick with b and just stay out of this whole mess its sometimes easier that way

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I just asked you a question yesterday saying there was a really hot guy that i liked...
my name is Lauren and I am 13
I was talking to hi last night and he really likes me he would do anything for me...
But theres people who say hes a player and he said he wasnt I just dont know what to do but I do know that i really do like him...
should I take the chance and go out with him and make him promise not to cheat on me or should i say no cause of what other people said? I really need to know what to do thanks
Lauren

if i were you i would take the chance... if people didnt take risks they would be bored as hell and always thinking about what couldve been... if you like him that much then trust him not do do anything and if he does something then break up w him and dont let him get away with it... if he fools you once shame on him .. if he fools you twice shame on you... hope i helped
-katie

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