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I am a 16 year old female. There is a gentleman that I am quite fond of and he has been quite fond of me as well. We talked yesterday for the first time in a long time. He is supposed to call back but I kind of doubt he will do so any time soon since he is a busy person.
What are some small (and very indirect) reminders I can give him so he will remember that I exist?
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Hehe, I can understand your wish to be discreet. However, that's the thing about males: they don't catch on to discreetness. The best way to let him know you exist is to be very friendly with him. You're 16, so your horomones are raging by now, so just do what your feelings make you feel like doing...within reason. The idea is that you already know how to attract a gentleman's attention; it comes built in as part of being a female.
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i dont no what to do anymore im obssesed with my diet and when i eat something bad i get depresessd i work out everyday and i keep thinking that im fat im 5'0, 120 pounds is that big? all my friends tell me im crazy and cant be artound me anymore help! (link)
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Don't worry, everything will be all right. First off, your weight is fine. You have what psychologists call "anorexia." You've undoubtedly heard of it before. I don't know what you already know about the subject, but it's essentially just a condition where someone exhibits your behavior: obsession over weight and guilt from eating food. You don't need to stress out yet, you're still at a healthy weight. The best course of action would be for you to see a psychologist or school guidance councelor. You might be uncomfortable with that, but yet find that you're unable to stop feeling the way you do. It's not your fault. You just need some guidance from a professional who has dealt with these things before.
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