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Age: 14
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There is a guy that I know. He is a grade higher than me but two years older. I think that he might like me but I am not sure if it is more than just a friendship. I have talked to him a lot and gone tubing with him and all sorts of things I just never get the nerve to ask him...he asked me to dance at one of our dances and that was when I started to really like him but that has been a while ago....what should I do?!?!
Lumpa22 (link)
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Well he does sound that he could be very well into you, but he sounds just a little shy. Think about why you like him, and when you're ready ask him.
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Ive had depression for about a year and i have reached my breaking point. I constantly feel that my place in this world should be filled by a more worthy individual. I'm always paranoid and stressed even over the most insignificant things. I take medication but it isn't working that well. Mt school situation isn't much better. I'm constantly hassled for my appearance and the lack of male friends i have. I have trust issues as well which would fall with paranoid. Any advice helps on the subject..... thank you.
-Dakota (link)
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Dakota sweetie don't give up. Remember no mattter what you think, there is always going to be a huge group of people that love you. Set a couple of dreams and goals for yourself ans that will definatly keep you moving on. And at school, they're probably just jealous believe it or not. Don't care what they say because it won't matter the next day anyway. One point I want to make out is that if you have a lot of girlfriends, that may be why they're jealous.
Love,
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ok my boyfriend says he loves me but he won't show it. and i dont know if he beleives me when i told i love u and ur my world. what should i do? (link)
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Dear he might just be shy, or (I hope this isn't right), he's just not that into you. Or, maybe you're just going to fast for him. Look at his signs, and confront him. If he doesn't respond to you like a real man would, dump his ass. (Sorry for language.) If you love him enough but he doesn't give the love (honestly) back, forget him, he just not good enough for you.
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So I'm 18/f.
I'm in a long-distance relationship right now, with an amazing guy. He's coming to town for a week on the 14th and I can't wait to see him.
But my mom is being a huge hassle. For one, she's making him stay at a hotel on the other side of town (which is 60 bucks a night.) Plus, she read his blog on his myspace and made him add her as a friend on facebook just so she can "know what this kid's all about". I find myself repeatedly apologizing to him because of her invasion of our relationship (she's always asking me what he meant by blah blah blah or teasing me about what I'll leave him for a comment, etc.) It's getting so annoying. I know she means well, but I feel like I'm under constant supervision.
She's insisting on driving me to the airport to pick him up when he flies in, and she even refuses to wait in the car when I go in to find him. All I want is to say hello to him without her supervision, since I haven't seen him in person since December. How can I convince her to just back off?? Help! I'm desperate. (link)
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I'm sorry but your mom does have a right to do this. I'm not trying to bring you down but she's only trying to protect you in case this dude is not what he wants you to think. The world wide web has a lot of creepy people and I cheer your mom on for doing this. I'm only 14, and I'm talking to this foreign guy who I think I'm falling in love with. Maybe you're just infatuated with this guy that you think you love him, and it's going to be terrible IF, and that's a big IF he isn't what he says, he may be a predator, and that's your mom's biggest fear and it's very simple and obvious that your mom loves you and cares about you and that's why she is doing all of this.
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Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads? (link)
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I'm a natural redhead with pale skin and freckles but my hair isn't frizzy. The reason why guys don't usually like redheads is because guys are basically intimidated by them.
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Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair? (link)
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If the guy doesn't like you, forget him. If he doesn't like you, you obviously deserve wayyy much better. I don't think red hair is ugly because I'm a natural redhead and I think that the reason why most people don't like redheads is because red hair is that it's a symbol of power and he might be imtimidated by redheads so he doesn't like them.
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well i went to one of my bff's b-day party today at this place and there was this really cute guy and i know tht he goes to my skool. but the thing is, is that he;s in the 8th grade and im in 7th [and yes im 13 i just turned 13 this year] and like my friends told me tht they told him i liked him and he smiled but idontkno if he just means im cute or like he acctully* likes me. and i dont see him much at skool. and when i left with my friend he like waved by at him and he waved bye backk. idontknow if he;s just being nice because he knows im in 7th or he thinks im cuttttttte. (link)
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It's always kinda hard to tell when a guy likes you or not. The best thing to do is to don't go headstrong with it. Don't let your friends handle anything either or he'll misunderstand you for who you really are. So keep it cool for now and try to be yourself around him. If he doesn't like you for who you really are, forget him, there are much more delicious fish in the sea.
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i sooo a wanna be prep its sad but idk what kind of shirts to get i know most of the preps wear AE, hollister, aeropostal....etc....... im a redhead so i really look good in green n purple is there anyplace i can find cute shirts?!? (link)
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There's two catalogs named Alloy and Delia's they have a lot of cute clothes and they're not that exspensive.
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15/f
you see im about 5'6" and i weigh about 120 lbs and my measurements are 36"26"36" and i can wear a size 5 in juniors, and i wear a 36DD. everyone thinks im pretty, not hot or sexy, but not ugly either! i also have naturally wavy red hair, but the down side is im deathly white so i guess if i ever got into a modeling carrear id have to fake bake (cauz redheads dont tan)!
out of all this info about me is there any hope of for me to ever become a model, or even just having a slight chance to make it? (link)
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It really shouldn't matter what you look like to be a model but they make all these rules and regualtions anyway and I think it's ridiculous. But I'm a pale, 5'8, 168 pound redhead and I do some modeling for Barbizon. You should try out for modeling because if it's what you like to do do it. Don't let anybody stop you because you're a Ginger :).
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