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i still like my x-bf!! hes the sweetest thing on earth!! not that cute.. but still looks dont really matter... hes really nice and everything i ever wanted in a guy.. but i promised him that i wuld go back out with him coming when school starts.. but.. theres another guy that i just found out i liked.. hes so sweet and nice and same interests in everything and not to mention HOTT!!!! we both play the same sports and i told him i would hang out with him and go to the movies with him after our soccer tourney.. but im relly confuse i think i may like him a whole bunch!!! but what about the other guy? what should i do????????
love,
broken in 2! (link)
Dear Broken in 2,
this is my advice u hav to figure out witch one u like most... i no it is like 100000000 times impossible but u hav to decide!! compare qualities about each of them and hoo would better bf things like that.... also y did u and ur ex breakup? that mite sumthin to think about.. good luck with the guys! write sum time!


its in love with a friend n neighbor again!
i decidded to take your advise. how should i tell him, manhunt, sunset, tell him n lean in for a kiss on th echeck or lips or wat? plus itd b my first kiss!!!! uh oh! im so confused plase help me, im crying!!!! thanx so much! luv ya much!
in love with a friend n neighbor (link)
Dont worry about it!!!!!! kissing comes naturally and so will telling him!! after u get it done it will hav seemed so much easier!! U WILL B FINE!! DONT WORRY!!! write me sum time!


how should i leanin for my kiss? should it b cheek lips or wat? i really want him to kiss me back, but how od i pick the rite words to tell him? ill IM u n tell u who i am if u please help me think of sum words, and how i shouldlean in!!! thanx
in love with a friend n a neighbor (link)
Dear in love with a frend n a neighbor for the 3rd time,
lol!! ur title is getting pretty long now!!! i say do lips! and jus tell him w/e ur thinking dont come up with sum dumb speech jus flat out tell him!!! and then jus kiss him!! jus tell him and get closer while u are and kiss him wen ur done! im sure it will all b fine! dont worry about it! good luck! the sn is UGAhottie321 if u need it! write me sum time!


fran, its In Love With Afriend n neighbor!

how should i tell this guy? is the manhunt/sunset thing a good idea? should i tell him in perosn or in a letter? im so confused now! ive always taken ur advise, and it always works, an norm im not shy, but aroun dhim i am, like i start laughing uncontrolably, and he joins in! wat should i do... please help!
luv In Love With Afriend n neighbor!


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Dear in love with a frend n nieghbor agin,
lol personaly i say strike the letter idea! lol i think the man hunt thing would b a really idea mayb tell then kiss him !!! ;-) ;-)!! anyways about the laughing part... thats not a bad thing!! laughing is good, i laugh to much :-D! anyways good luck!! write me sum time!!


i have this really good friend who is so sweet and really nice and is the greatest friend i could ever ask for. but when it comes to guys shes the biggest slut!! she just goes around playin hard to get and made out with a guy in front of me, she didn't even care it was like i was invisible? what should i do??
from,
person!! (link)
Dear Person,
this is wat i think u should do... tell ur frend like exactly wat u jus said up ther! u need to tell her how u feel. jus call her or sumthing and b like ya ur one of my best frends and all and i love u to death and blah blah blah but sumtimes u act kinda slutty in front of me and it kind of bothers me... tel her that u feel invisible and left out and hopefully she will understand! good luck with ur frend! write me sum time!


Dear fran, ive told everyone in school that i despise this guy, well call him "barry", well that fact is... i am like in love with him! 2 of my closest friends like him too!!!! uh oh! well 2 ppl no i like him... 1 is one that likes him and the other is one that doesnt. they both say that hes been dropping major hint, and flirting a lot with me...for like the year that hes been at our school!!!! one day i was using my moms cell, and he asked me if it was mine, i said no n asked y, n he said cuse i would prob need the # to call me later n ask me sum ?s! its confusing! does he like me? should i tell him ive like been in love with him this whole time? im so confused!!!! hes my neighbor too, and hes always hangin out with me. on fridays we have manhunt n he always wants to b on my team! so if i tell him n he doesn tlike me itd b really imbaressing! please help!!!! i REALLY NEED IT!!!!! hes comin over tomorrow to hang out wiht me n sum friends, and go to the pool n swimm n stuff! i need to no by then, caus eif u say i should, well playt manhunt, and ill make it to where were on the same team, and when sunset hits, ill tell him!!!! PLEASE HELP! ASAP!!!! thanx!
In Love With Afriend n neighbor! (link)
Dear In Love a frend and neighbor,
hey hun!! heres my advice to u... this guy DEFINANTLY likes u!! u should tell him that u like him to like PRONTO!! lol about the frends thing... u mite want to chek with them first and make sure that they wont b completely heartbroken if he asks u out and u say yes. anyways tho good luck with this guy~ im like 99% positive he likes u so go for it! hope i helped? write me sum time!


dear fran
its confused cuz again,
teh thing is, my friend is like overly protective about who i like? idk y but she is. plus she would hate the fact that i even like her cuz! its just the way she is! shes a lsut, no offense to her, and she nos it. she would think im not good enough for her cuz and do nething to break us up if we went out! wat do i do now? thanx
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Hey confused cuz agin,
lol n that case this is wat i think u should do... talk to the cuz first tell him all of that! figure out wat he thinks... that might b why he hasnt asked u out yet n the first place.. anyways tho if he likes u enough he wont care that much and if ur best frend has a problem with it he will bak u up so u hav nothin to b worried about and ur frend will get over it sooner or later if shes a good frend and im guesing she is! hope it all works out! write me agin to tel me how it goes & if u hav any more ques.'s!


well i have/had this friend we grew apart and i noticed now that she had been lieing to me about certain things but i just forget about them since im not her close friend anymore. and with my previous b/f, whenever she would find out something about MY relationship with MY b/f @ tha time she told EVERYONE and it wasnt n e of her business. sumtymes i miss her then other tymes i just hate her and wish she would leave me alone. she talks to my boyfriend a lot because her soon-to-be boyfriend is my boyfriend's friend. everytime my boyfriend and her start talking i feel really pissed and i dont know that to do. i mean he can be her friend its just that i always get a bad feeling considering she was my bestfriend and now she thinks she can "flirt" with my boyfriend that i have now that and she did with my pervious boyfriend. i dont know what to do. (link)
Hey hun,
been ther done that dump the friend and tel ur bf ur worried about it he should understand but this girl needs to lay off and back off and tell her to her face if she wont! u dont need to take shit like that!! anyways hope ya take the advice! write me sum time!


hey, i am always gettin asked to do stuff by my friends, and i do it.. but now im a pushover cuz i dont want them mad at me! so i do w/e they ask! and now its gettin really annoyin! and i just want to be myself and say no, and act myself but im to scared they would get mad at me, so im lettin my friends walk all over me.. can u plz help?!
luv yas (link)
Hey hun!
heres my advice... tell ur frends that ur tired of it and explain wat u jus said to me to them! if they get mad then u deserve SO much better! frends should b sumthin to relieve stress not to add stress! dont b worried about them getting mad at u, they need to no ur not jus sumthin to use ur a person with feelings!! lol!! anyways i hope that helped a lil! write me sum time!


dear fran,
i think one of my friends cuzs likes me, but im not sure! eh keeps flirting n stuff but hes 3 yrs older than me. he asks me thing n understands me, plus he says im really pretty n sweet n easy to talk to. does he like me? and would it b ok to ggo out with my best friends cousin? please help!! thanx ,
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Dear Confused Cuz,
heres wat i think u should do! i think that he DEFINANTLY likes u!!!! so first u should ask ur frend if she would mind if u go out with him i doubt that she will say no but if she does u just hav to think about which u like more ur friend or this guy. if she says yah tho then jus go ahed and tell the guy u like him! he will ask u out for sure!! good luck with him! write me sum time!


I'm a 14 year old girl,and I've never had a boyfriend or ever been asked out,and I don't know why.I don't think I'm ugly,but I'm not drop dead georgeous.I'm not a geek,but just a normal.I really wanna have a boyfriend but don't know what to do?-help- (link)
Dear Confused,
Heres wat i think u should do. try to look around and find sum guys hoo u could like mayb go for ppl like u not drop dead gorgeous but not ugly, not a geek but normal, then start flirting with the guys, those hoo dont show intrest, bak off a little but guys hoo do go for it. also try to be nice to every one u no so then u wont get a bad reputation and no one will hav anything bad to say about u! good luck with the guys! write me sum time!


mii boiifriend is turning 13 and i met him on 4th of july and his birthdaii is on july 26th... ((but)) i have no ideal what to get him.. i dont really kno what he wants cuz everytime i as he says he wants me for his birthdaii... ((*aww*)) soo does aniione have anii really good ideals... i'LL rate you!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx (link)
Hey Amiie,
heres wat i think u should do...
take him out to a movie and dinner then go to one of his fav stores or anywher and get him to pick sumthin out! anything! so then he gets wat he wants and its stil thotful! hope u like the suggestion! wish him a happy b-day for me! lol u dont hav to considering neither of u no me but anyways! write me sum time!


ok i love my boyfriend ok and so im kinda like a lil shy to go somewhere with him like ya know alone like at the movies or the mall so i always have to bring one of my friends and i can tell he kinda gets sick of being around them and that he only wants to b with me i need sum advice on how to b more comfortable around.
signed..
shy girl (link)
Dear shy girl,
my advice to u is to tell him wat u jus wrote ther!!! now that he nos why u bring a friend he will probly help u try to b more comfortable and understand better! hope i helped! write me sum time!


Well my friend we can call her **Jasmine** she likes this boy named well call him **t.j.** well i kinda like t.j. but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend and so does ** Jasmine ** well he keeps wanting to talk to me on the phone not her he said i am more fun to talk to and him and his girlfriend are about to break up and i LOVE my boyfriend but he said he likes me the other day and ** Jasmine** started crying in my closet well the last time Jasmine tried to get me to talk to her friend she likes he ended up liking me and we went out for like a month (link)
Hey hun,
u hav a tough tough situation here.
the first problem is jus a teensie tiny one. aka
UR BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol sry i had to imphasize that part thers one major ? u hav to ask urself here BOYFRIEND? or OTHER GUY? wel now that we no the answer to that if its bf back off the guy and tell him that u love ur bf and even tho u kinda liek **t.j.** agin u love ur bf! IF u chose other guy aka t.j. u gotta think about ur friend... friends last 4ever guys dont... its the hard truth and hell i dont like it but it is all the same tru. now that wev ben over that u gotta ask ur friend if she would realy mind if u went out with this guy if she says yeah, ur jus gunna hav to drop it, if she says no then go ahead go for the guy! buut remeber even tho i said the thing about making ur friend happy thers one more important thing... u, u have to b happy to so watever u do make sure ur happy with ur choice! hope i helped and good luck with ur situation! write me sum time!


there is this girl that i love more than anything in the whole world, and i know we love each other. but she has a boyfriend that she cares bout. i dont like anybody else but her. but i figure if i wait too long i will be hurt even more. what the heck do i do (link)
Hey dude,
this is wat i think u should do... u need to ask her out now and if she says no then u hav to explain to her that u can't wait cus it will only break ur heart even more so if she says no u need to find a way to get over her... try seeing if thers other girls taht u never really thot about or try to meet new ppl! i no its tough but i hope she says yes! i hope i helped a lil and good luck! write me sumtime!


Can someone tell me what all the positions in the field mean like 1st, 2nd, 3rd, home, and etc? This question is sex wise not baseball. (link)
Hey hun,
heres the bases...
for a guy to do to a girl
1)french
2)feel up
3)finger
4)fuck
aka the 4 F's

for the girl to do to a guy
1)french
2)hand job
3)blow job
4)fuck

hope that helped! write me sumtime!


what are some other ways that i can pleasure myself..other than fingering myself (link)
hey,
im not a expert at this but u could try cyberin or fone sex?


okay well i read alot of ur advice and ur really good.. now can u help me? my best frend that got me and my boiifrend togehter is now wanteting to break uss upp//. and my boiifrend sed that hes not gonna let her between uss cuz he loves me.. but im sooo scared!! what shood i do! please help me!! shood i hate her 4 ever.. or 4 give her.. and she now apoliogises.. but my frends say that its not tru!! help me!!
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Hey hun,
it looks like u hav a tough situation here but bfor i start dishing out the advice u need to consider a few things like 1) do u really love ur bf 2? if so definantly dont break up jus bcus of her cus he sounds like he loves u 2)how long hav u been frends with this person? i think u should forgive her but ask her to appoligize to ur bf to and also i think u should ask her y she wants yall to break up and find out exactly wats going on with her. its alot better to hear it from her then from other ppl. so to sum it all wat i think u should do is keep the bf and forgive the frend if u talk it out with her and decide that she worth being forgived and that she wont break yall up cus no1 wants that to happen! lastly dont b scared!!! ur bf loves u and so he wont dump u bcus of this frined and if u friend is a real friend she will get over her problem soon enough!
good luck with all of this and i hope i helped! write me sum time!


ok...i was in a chat room for my school..and this guy imed me...and he was really sweet and cute//he sent me his pic and we started talking and now he wants me 2 meet him at the beach..but im not sure//wut if they dont even go to my school and wut if hes like a killer? he text messages me all the time and we totally click!! please help me b/c i think he might b the 1!! (link)
Hey hun,
heres wat i think u should do meet him! he seems really nice! but try and meet in a very public place so if it turns out hes a freak thers tons of other ppl ther mayb n cluding sum of ur frends to help u! good luck and hope it goes well!! write to me sumtime!


ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!! (link)
Hey hun,
wat i think u should do is to tell this guy that he REALLY needs to back off! and that if he doesnt ur gunna get ur bf to talk to him! guys like that get scared shitless of bf's!! also jus b like hey i hav a bf i love him wer not breaking up get over it! u dont deserve to feel bad cus of this kid! anyways good luck with the dude! hope i helped! write me sumtime!




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