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okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...
what other ways can i make a good impression? (link)
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Of cource, say please and thank-you.Hmm they sound British lol. Ok, from personal experience, Ill have to say do NOT laugh loud...try to like..giggle..if somethings funny :D And don't bring religion/politics/world issues or opinions into the convo :D And for the kiss, let them move first, see which waythey go then you approach :D And Good Luck !
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okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...
what other ways can i make a good impression? (link)
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Of cource, say please and thank-you.Hmm they sound British lol. Ok, from personal experience, Ill have to say do NOT laugh loud...try to like..giggle..if somethings funny :D And don't bring religion/politics/world issues or opinions into the convo :D And for the kiss, let them move first, see which waythey go then you approach :D And Good Luck !
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Hey I was wondering if Someone could help me get started on some Anime. I like how alot of it looks, and my friend showed me some..please help I rate high with good feedback! Thanx! (link)
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First thing of Anime- Emotion
Find the emotion you want to draw, AND the emotion you want the viewer to see :)
I do anime also, and heres how i got started..
LINKS!
http://www.xervious.com/elly.htm
http://www.geocities.com/michaelp3000/nosemouth.html
http://drawsketch.about.com/od/learntodrawanimefaces/
Just remember! There is no "normal" anime! Draw the way you want to, it will always be original :)
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okay ive been so self concious about my wieght and all.. im not fat but i have a little gut that i wanna get rid of and i just wanna flattnen my stomach so like whne i just stand up its just like flat but i hate going on diets and i dont really care abouta loosing wieght i just wanna flatten my stomach anbd thin out my legs so they're not all flabby and just tone my body.. but some people told me that i can just eat as much of whatever i want but then at night just do alotta crunches and kicks and excersise and even though i wont loose weight and all.. i'll still be toning my body.. is this true? (link)
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There is no way you wont lose weight :) But if you watch what you eat (no chips, ice cream and all that), and work out like running for 10 minutes and 20-30 crunches right before you go to sleep will do it :) You may also look into Yoga...that helps me at least! And good luck to your tone body goal :)
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Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help.. (link)
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Do not refer anything with "crazy, psychologist, or insane" in the conversation :) The reason people do these things is because theyre
- Not liking how they see themselves
- Sick of Rumors
- Not getting along with someone close to them
And many other reasons!
Ask him one day "You know, you may be going through something now, but you have many years ahead of you. You will meet people, have fun, and have everlasting memories. Do you really want to throw ALL these away, and hurt people around you? Like, your family, or friends, or even me? *do NOT do a puppy dog face, hehe.* Your suicide would kill people, not physically, but emotionally. They'll feel closed off, and unstable, because of what you would have done. Just because (whatever his reason is), do you want to make everyone numb inside?" He needs to think, about his reason. Just confront him saying that (if the reason is small) something so little shouldn't take a life!
*gives you something to think about, when talking to him*
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So many will grieve, so many you will leave.
A loss of brown eyes, don't ignore the help of cries.
Your family...and friends, heart won't break but will only bend.
Whats the use, who will you amuse, no one...
It will be a waste of precious youth.
What is the reason? It won't be the right conclusion.
Seek the ones you love, they'll give you the right shove.
Don't be afraid, they give many healings.
I don't want a flower on your casket, rather the petals in a basket.
You are stronger, hold on longer. You can make it, get out of the pit.
Wake up, Sure, the road will be bumpy, but don't get so jumpy.
Don't let this be the end....
Just ask him, WHY! And Good Luck hun :)
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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-( (link)
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Hmm..well Im not going to say those things :) Go up to them and just say that you'd like to start over, or that it's been long enough for you guys to "cool-down". They were your friends once for a long, great time it seems. So why cant they again? If it is a little fight they should have gotten ove it by now :) And good luck!
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I don't believe in myself..I have very low self esteem..I feel horrible about myself most of the time..How can I boost my confidence..It's not as easy as it sounds..I don't know what to do..I have no friends and my parents (esp. my mom) tells me I'm useless and ugly) I get made fun of all the time..no wonder my self esteem is so low..How can I boost my confidence..All I want to do is feel superior just once..please help (link)
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I'm the same EXACT way. People are out to make others feel horrible. Theres not really anything to go to, Ive figured that out. Best thing you should do is not care anymore. I mean about what they say. It's obvious that when people make fun of you they have nothing better to do or nothing going for them. Just keep your head high and, for the friend deal, go up to someone you see that's alone, or someone that no one gets along with. Friends with similarities are great for support, so meet someone like yourself :) Overall, ignore the talkers, theyre pathetic, and be outgoing and wild!
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My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends. (link)
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Well, it sounds like your boyfriend can't decide "He KEEPS dumping me". If hes having trouble picking one of you guys to have a relationship with, it is HIM who should take a break from one of you, because he obviously is having internal doubts/hopes about you guys. Also, you should confront your friend. But be kind, because enemies about guys is not the best thing to have :). Tell her that your not really liking how she is attempting to make a move at your guy, and you'd really like it if she would slow down in front of him( the flirting ). worst thing to do is to leave something unsaid :D
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