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okay, last year [my sophomore yr now im a junior], i had A TON of friends in each one of my classes..and i got to be REALLY close with them.like in each class i would have like 1-2 really really close friends who i didnt really hang out with at school outside of that class but in that class we always would talk and sometimes we would hang out on weekands...they would always tell me their boy/fam problems, and i would ALWAYS be there for them and give them adivce..i would even call them after school alot to make sure they were okay.....this year i dont have classes with alota the girls and its like they dont even care about me? theyll walk past me in the hall and smile and say hi but nothing big at all..theyre so unappreciative.. i mean i helped them on sum pretty serious issues they had...i feel so unappreciated and i feel like everything i ever did for them last year was a waiste even though it really helped them...how should i handle this? (link)
You will always start to get separated from good friends...I have an awesome quote that a lot of people like... "As we grow up we learn that even the one person that wasnt supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once- and its harder every time. Youll break hearts too- so remember how it felt when yours was broken. Youll fight with your best friend. Youll blame a new love for things an old one did. Youll cry because time is passing too fast- and youll eventually lose someone you love. So take many pictures, laugh too much and love like youve never been hurt- because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you can never get back.."


MY STORY...
I went out with this guy and i lost my virginity as so did he. we are now not together and havent been for about 3 months but it was just reciently that he is not talking to me because of something so0o stupid but anyhow i am trying to talk to other guys and what not and i was today when a mutual friend of ours came up to me and the guy that i am crushing on and said that riley talks about me 24/7 and what not ant now the guy i like wants to back off cuz he doesnt want to fight cuz he is not aggresive...ok thats fine i guess but my EX doesnt talk to me he just talks to my friends about me and like its so0o fucking annoying i want him to get over his self and talk to me, i have tooken the anishitive twice but it was me doing most of the talking and it was on the computer so it doesnt count. i am really confused any ideas or comments

thank you so much! :)
Lisa "socalblondie"
AIM me socalblondie0202 i love meeting new ppl (link)
I had the same problem, boys need to get over something before they can start dealing with it again, I hope you get that because I know it sounds confusing. Only talk to him once in awhile because otherwise he'll put up a wall and won't want to hear what you have to say, and that's not what you want right?


Okay i`ve lived here in *fL* for 15 years..i love it here and my dad has had over 20 jobs in the past 10 years. He wants to move somewhere else like southcarolia...or north carolina..that means i'd have to leave all my friends that have been there for me..my boyfriend that i have the best relationship with..and i also lose my scholorship AND my mom loses her retirement..all for a couple more dollars a month. Okay i am in my EARLY years of teenage years and he`s taking everything that a teenager reallllly needs away to a place where i don`t know ANYONE!...anyone have any suggestions to say to him? =( Plz help! (link)
I really think he would understand you more if you sounded like you were thinking for him too, like offer to do something simple to help him get work done maybe. You never know...maybe he's just stressed and needs someone there to help figure stuff out with him...give him a whole bunch of reasons why you shouldn't move.




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