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Q: what does a guy do when he goes to 2nd with you? does he like squeeze them? or like rub them or what? cause my bf wants to go there but i have no idea what it even is besides that he would have his hands up my shirt. and hes already gone there before so i would appreciate being informed! thanks!! :]

They just gently carress them trying to turn you on =] show him you appreciate it.

Q: i am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend. i have never met a guy as amazing to me as he is. he is the definition of perfect in my eyes..and he says hes in love with me. he shows me all the time how much he cares for me and i know its not just some little fling..it cant be. ive just been thinking lately how long can this honestly last? we were best friends before we dated..and we have been dating for two months now..it feels like we have been together forever and things only get better. but i mean ive been worried that things are going to turn for the worse because ive never had a guy like this.. what are the chances that we will stay together? we are both 16..i know its young but i can honestly say i love him and it would kill me if i lost him..it feels so real..could it be?

I feel exactly the same, and thats what I feel like, Im always wondering how long we can last.
The only thing is, when you think this, it brings you down all the time, cos instead of focusing on the good things you focus on the bad things.
Which can cause arguements. Im suffering the same things. Its very difficult, but you gotta think, I love this guy and Im going to make it last as long as I can.

Q: my bf slobbers when we make out and i will tell him he does and its ok we talk about everything and he wants to be a better kisser but i dont know what to tell him to do so he doesnt. even when we arent frenching there is too much saliva! thanks!!

My boyfriend sometimes does the same, tell him to keep his lips close together.

Almost like a polite kiss. As for snogging, Im not sure theres alot you can do about slobber, just tell him to slow down and appreciate the moment.

Q: I'm a big boy and want to know how to date girls like you

Sorry but come again? What do you mean by girls like me? And I will give you advice. x

Q: Lately I've been having some really odd dreams. Two days ago, I had a dream some guy was trying to drill a screw in to my vagina and last night I had one where I was masturbating and it just started bleeding all the sudden. I'm not on my period, or anywhere near getting my period. Are there any weird reasons why I could be having this dream?

If you have recently started your period it could be general worries.

But other than that they are just freaky dreams :) Try and nacker yourself so much that when you go to bed you sleep the whole night through and forget any dreams you had!

Good Luck

Q: I just got my i video working, and i know i can add aim members and mac users. but i have alot of friends who have msn only. Is there any way that i can add my msn friends? Or am i out of luck?

Im sure there is a way but I cant pin point it, I would suggest maybe sticking to MSN or AIM for now, as you can add both to either.

I would also suggest visiting any computer shop near you and asking them, and if you can then they will show you how! Good Luck

Q: Parelli
Pros and Cons?
Is it any good?
How long does it take to see results?

Thankss

The Parelli method allows horse lovers at all levels and disciplines to achieve: success without force, partnership without dominance, teamwork without fear, willingness without intimidation, and harmony without coercion.

Thats what I have discovered.
I would suggest running it through google?

Q: hi is there any physical way to tell If a girl is horny because I know when guys get horny they get a boner but is there any way you can tell from just looking at them

13/m

Less of that! Lol

You can tell in some ways, if Im horny, I tend to hint, or be cheekily rude, or say things to arouse a guy, or touch him constantly.

And sometimes girls generally fidget, but its very hard to tell! Good luck

Q: ok well sometime idk y but my vigina smells...
y is that?

and when i shave down there like all the hair is gone (there's a stubble, how do you get rid of that) but all of it isnt 100%ly smooth...
how can you make it like perfectly clean

and sometimes outta nowhere like i get like wet... i dont know if its cum or what it is...
how can i stop it... im not even thinking dirty it happens at the most random times...

Your vagina will naturally emit its smell, and unless its a really really bad smell, then its not dirty, its fine, its just discharge.

And as for the getting wet at random times, thats also discharge, you could be just walking to the kitchen and it happens, you usually get it towards the oncoming week of your period and for a little after. And other times just randomly!

It can be uncomfortable, but when it happens just go to the toilet, and if your out try and find a public toilet etc etc. Or wear panty liners, however you may not want to wear them all the time, as if we dont go through enough wearing them every month!

Good luck

Q: i want to give my boyfriend a sexy strip dance but I don't wanna look stupid you know? anybody have any pointers? thanks

I wanted to do the same thing but I just couldnt bring myself to! But thats cos Im not confident in myself.

I would suggest the best way would be to arouse him first, with your hands, mouth etc etc, then lighten the mood by getting each other laughing and acting silly, so you dont feel so tense then the laughter and the arousal mixed together with make the strip fun and sexy without too much seriousness so he wont be laughing at you, he will be laughing with you!

Good Luck Marizzle

Q: My Skin down there is covering over my head (penis head), is this normal?

Yeah 100% normal hun.

It does that when the penis is not erect, when its erect the penis head comes out.

Q: does anyone know a good place to get hair extensions around tualatin oregon? i have 18 inch human hair ones right now from sally beauty and i really want 22 inch ones, no clip in please, i usually use the bonding glue with them. if you have any information please share. (=

Uhm I know this isnt the answer to your question but you really DONT want glue in extensions. They have been proven to rip hair out. After you have taken your extensions out, you will wish you never got them. Your hair just falls out.

Clip in ones are so cheap and brilliant when clipped in correctly, they do no damage whatsoever.

you can get them from ebay, just type hair extensions.

you can get glue in ones on ebay to but thats only if you want your hair ripped out

Q: Can the gyno tell if you are masturbating?

Nova I think you should be a bit more 'nice' in your answers.

Yeah they can tell. But its okay cos the amount of people they see is so high that it doesnt even cross their mind, also they do it themselves so they wont think anything of it. Dont worry about it

Q: umm ya well i told my bishop that i needed help that i wanted to live with my grandparents because for the past 5 to 6 months i have had to hear things between my mother and father and it would take forever to write it all down but there has been alot of stuff going on like arguing and stuff but nothing physical like fighting. my parents are divorced.. but see my bishop, my grandparents, and i all sat down and talked about it and well my bishop said to my grandparents that my dad abused us and i didnt say anything like that...he misunderstood me. but see even if that didnt happen i think i made everything worse. they desided that with all that is going on and with my dad being "hot headed" that i should take two peices of paper and write down everything that i want to change and i need to sit down with my parents one at a time and talk about it....well i have been trying for about 3 out of 5 to 6 years to try and get them to listen and change some thing with them selves that would be better for them and everyone. my dad wants me to live with him starting after my next birthday and i dont want to. i've told him but well you guys dont know my dad. he can scare me sometimes he has never tought me but well he is really loud, big muscles, and well everytime we go to church on wednsdays i hid in the church i mean be by friends and stuff because i am afraid he will find out about how i really feel or start talking bad about my mom or sister (she is my half sister and doesnt talk to him anymore). but you guys he scares me and it isnt easy! 14/f

Ive been through exactly the same thing. And my dad again is a big guy very muscly, only difference is that he did beat me, kicked me down the stairs etc etc

He only had to point a finger and I cried, I know how you feel and I sympathise majorly.

I would suggest saying to your Grandparents, thats it I want to come and live with you to give my parents time to think about what they have lost. Once they realise that not having you around is upsetting, such as the phrase ''you dont know what you got till you have lost it''then they will maybe talk like respective adults.

If this doesnt work...then unfortuneatley you have to be cruel to be kind, and its for your best safety, and thats to ring a helpline and talk through exactly whats going on, how you feel about it and they will have hours for you on the phone thats what they are there for, they arent going to send your parents to prison or anything drastic, but if anyone will get through to them it will be them. Or you if you are told how to go about it.

Good Luck heres the childline number : 0800 1111
Let me know how it goes yeah?

Q: I need idea's on what i should get my boyfriend for valentines day we've been together for 3 months he's 15 and lebanese christian and i'm not sure what he's into i know but it's kinda hard to say :S sorry lol any ideas ?

Get him something that will mean something between the both of you, or something that means alot to him.

A game hes wanted for ages,
A model car or anything that hes into hobby wise,
Arrange a day out somewhere doing something he likes,
Treat him all day long, breakfast in bed, tea, board games and things like that &
Clothes, a top they have wanted for a while, or just jeans or socks!

Good Luck

Q: well i went over there 2day and everything seemed perfectly fine and she had her period twice this month so i think thats what was making her that way. everything is good now.YAY!!!!!!!

Yeah that could always be a big stress out. Glad everythings okay for you. Hope I helped a little bit! Feel free to add my MSN for more advice...

MissMarizzle@hotmail.co.uk

MuchLove

Q: What is a cute name I can gall my boyfriend named Ryan?

Theres loads you could use..infact and endless list...but try using something related to him.

I call my boyfriend Bubba, his names ben, but hes my bubba boo..its cute lol.
But try associating a name with what hes like.

If not then try..

Baby Boy
Cupcake
Sugar Plum
Little Man
Cutey
Flower

etc etc...

Q: ok so i include buddy in everything me and sister do and she just doesnt seem to get along with me that well. i practicly LIVE at their house cause im there so much. they have 2 boxers and if i push 1 of them down from jumping on me shell freak out. so the next time they jump on me i wont do anything and shell freak out because im letting them do watever no matter what i do she gets mad at me. i treat her the same and tell her everything i tell sister but she just thinks im over dramatic! help

Well in that case I would say that you need to speak to her on her own, maybe text her saying have I done something wrong because I cant figure out why you are treating me like this and I dont see that I have unincluded you in anything that me and your sister do. Just say if thats the case then if you dont talk to me I wont talk to you. Just act as you normally do and try to block her out unless shes nice to you.
She will soon get the hint when she realises that your only communicating with her for something nice.

Also try spending less time in the house, get out a bit more just with ''sister'', this way ''buddy'' will realise what shes missing out on. Its a typical case of jealousy, let me know if anything happens or you get any further

Q: Hi, i dont want to be judged, but i love role-playing with my boyfriend
I was just wondering if any of you had any good ideas for ones i could do.
it always seems i do the same ones over and over

so if you have any fun ones you have done, or have wanted to do....if you could tell me, that would be great

It depends what you mean by ''role-playing'' if you mean in general role playing ...

Then be creative make a story up etc etc

It you mean dirty role playing, then google it, they have some good suggestions, your aim with role play is to please the guy so suggest everything that he likes.

Q: everytime whenever i have a good sex with my boyfriend, after having sex, i have to go poop even i didn't eat right before having sex, wht wrong with it? everytime! ugh pooping it like i just threw up and poop, but i don't throw up, but i poop after havin sex, i hate it, how can i stopped it? or is it something wrong?

It could be that hes penetrating you too hard.

But apart from that it could be a medical condition, if you dont want to expose this problem to a doctor face to face, then perhaps ring them, or ring a national doctors helpline, where you can explain your symptoms and they can pre-diagnose, or suggest what to do.

Good Luck

bio

Well...

Im just under 6'0, Im a model, I enjoy horse riding, figure skating, and shopping :)

I have blonde hair, blue eyes & Im a slim build.

Im your average teenager who has suffered the same as any other teenage and much more, or maybe much less compared to some :)

Ill give you my answer as I feel is correct, if its a question I have familiarity with then you will get an answer which I find best suited :)