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I like to help people when they have a problem whether it's about relationships, fitness, style, or how to do something i can definitely answer it all. so if you have a question just ask & i'll give you a completely honest answer. :] heres my myspace if you want to add me: myspace.com/xhollister_chickx
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okay so i had my period, it got over with within a week w/e and then 2 weeks later i started it again? i thought it was kinda unusual that i would start it again so fast but i didnt really think too much of it. when it got over with a week later (this morning) i started again!?? is there something wrong should i be concerned? this has never happened before? (link)
hmm that doesn't sound so good, your best bet is to go see your doctor about it b/c they can help you, no one on this site can tell you what to do about that, I hope I helped:)


Basically, I'm in my first relationship :)

Anyway for the past few months, at the parties I go to...this is going to sound soooo stuck up, but I was the "it" girl. The girl who wasn't a whore, but did kiss a lot of guys. The girl that all the guys wanted to be with. I'm SO SORRY for sounding so stuck up, and I'm not conceited I promise. These guys are desperate :P

But anyway, I got asked out a lot and said no to most guys because I liked being single. But I said yes to one guy, because I really liked him. And we've been going out for a while. I think I might even love him.

Anyway, I would NEVER dump him to be single again. I'm not that horrible, and doing that would lead myself to staying lonely all my life.

However my friend has basically become the new me at these parties. She's the girl all the guys want, and she's the girl loving the attention I once loved.

I'm finding myself really jealous of it. And I feel absolutely horrible, because I'm in a relationship with such a great guy. But I still feel jealous.

Bear in mind this is my first relationship ever, so I'm not used to the transition of going from single to a relationship. I'm happier in a relationship than I ever was when I was single, but I still have times where I'm really jealous of my friend for being the new golden girl, and I sometimes miss being single.

How can I get the hell over it? (link)
jealousy doesn't get you anywhere, and imagine how she must've felt when you had all the attention. don't let the jealousy lead you to hurting your boyfriend, and don't let that stuff bother you either.


this is really embarassing for me. this happened 6 months ago. i got super super drunk, to the point of not remembering the whole night. i guess that i said 'i haven't hooked up with anyone in so long. i need to hook up with someone' and i kept screaming it. this isn't embarassing to most people but i can't get over it. boys still make fun of me about it and i try not to act like it bothers me but i can't get over it.. how do i forget? (link)
in a few years, you're going to end up laughing about it. so why not laugh about it now, it happens to the most of us when we're drunk anyways:) just laugh it off and move on, by doing so, they will also move on.
hope I helped:)


which tour or concert was it when hannah montana and jonas brothers were performing together with the song "we got the party" at Memphis, where miley kissed Nick jonas, she wearing hotpink..


anybody know? (link)
Memphis Concert.
:)


My handwriting isn't the neatest. I would just like to define it, make it smoother and rounder..but also neater...so it doesn't look as scribbly.
What would be the best way to ''define'' my handwriting?

Thanks! (link)
well always make sure you have a nicely sharpened pen or pencil. Decide how you want your Handwriting to look, it should probably reflect you personality. With sharper letters, pen works best for a writing utensil. For curvier, rounder letters, pencil is usually best.


Is it illegal to use a taser during a fight? And how much money do they range from? Plus what does it feel like getting tased? (link)
Getting into a fight can get you into enough trouble already so why use a taser and get yourself into another situation. Tasers are illegal in most states, so it depends where you live.


hi i'm a vegitarian and i do it because i love animals, its better for the earth & your body. but i was just wondering why do people become vegan? i know alot of people who are vegan, and they are really sick now. (not saying that happens to everyone who is vegan, just some people i know.) so i was just curious, why be vegan? (link)
Most vegetarians claim that they became a vegetarian for one of three reasons.

The first reason, which most vegetarians claim, is that they have ethical problems with eating meat. Most disagree with how chickens are debeaked, forced to live in small cages, and are then slaughtered when they do not produce eggs fast enough.

Most vegetarians also disagree with the crowded and stressful environments animals are forced into; and the hormone-laden feed used to make them grow faster and produce more.

People who become vegetarians for this purpose often draw ethical boundaries in different spots, depending on their personal beliefs. For instance, some staunch vegans won't consume yeast, wear wool, or even eat certain vegetables, such as carrots, that require killing the plant to harvest.

On the opposite side of the spectrum, some vegetarians -sometimes referred to as pseudo-vegetarians - will actually eat fish and chicken on a regular basis.

The second biggest reason vegetarians claim for not eating meat is that it conflicts with their dietary preferences. Some of these vegetarians simply do not like the texture and taste of meat; others do not eat it because it is high in cholesterol and often contains high concentrations of hormones and preservatives.

The third and smallest group of vegetarians cite environmental reasons for not consuming meat. They complain that consumption of meat causes farmers to continually deforest land to create grazing land for cattle.

In addition to these three major groups, there are a number of other smaller groups of vegetarians who stopped eating meat for entirely different reasons.


sorry i didnt know under which category to put this.

erm so some ppl say that in year 1012 the poles are shifting or smth and that its the end of the world.
is this true???? :[ (link)
nobody really knows, it may or may not, but I am pretty positive the world isn't going to end any time soon. besides, scientists has predicted the same thing around 10 times in the past 100 years and yet the world is still standing, so don't worry about it.
:)


my bestfriend is called chloe she's the best.

but we used to have another friend called paige who became a bully.
she had a cousin called tania that came to my school i thought she was nice at first until the more she embraced the school the more chloe began to be her bestfriend and leave me out of it,like i wasn't alive .Until one day my mum told me that my bestfriend was caught on cctv at a shop stealing sweets i saw the tape and got abit upset because she was my bestfriend i thought she would be normal but no she wasn't.

now she thinks im a bully because i always mention it when we fight.


now i don't know what to do to get my best friend back i kinda miss her she's really funny
please write back as soon as possible.


signed confused subject :) :(
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i think that you should talk to her and telling her that you care about her b/c she's your best friend, and try not to fight with her, being nice will help. let her know that when she does things like that hurts you and that you don't want to lose her as a best friend. but just remember 'communication is key.' and if is a real friend she'll understand you but if she starts acting that way again then I guess she isn't worth being your friend and eventually she might drag you into doing things that she's currently doing & you'll get into trouble.
hope I helped:)


My guy friend asked me out by a note about 2 years ago but I never replied until a few months ago telling him that i still like him but he never replied then i e mailed him asking if we can still be friends because i miss hanging out with him and he said sure that we can still be friends. Now i don't know if anything more will ever happen, like going out or anything. I really do like him and he knows that I just don't know if he still likes me like that or if only as friends. I really need some advice, thanks!!! (link)
ask him out to a dinner or go see a movie with him or something, and when you two are together wait for the right moment and ask him if he still likes you or not.
:)


so a whole bunch of really hip friend of mine invited me to an amusement park, im so excited but here lays the problemo- IM TERRIFIED OF THOSE LITTLE THINGS WE LIKE TO CALL ROLLERCOASTERS!! i need to get over that phobia. any help? pleeeeasse! they cant think im not cool just because im terrified! (link)
ahh i know exactly how you feel, a few years ago I was on a class trip to castles & coasters and I went with my boyfriend, but i was so terrified of going on the roller coaster and my friends started teasing me and saying that they would beat my bf up if I wouldn't go on ( they were only kidding though) So of course I had to take the risk b/c I didn't want him to feel upset or anything and it turns out I really enjoyed it, and after that you would want to go on even more. If you have ever been on the sky diver before then the roller coasters should be nothing.
:)


I've been hearing alot about dry humping. All I know is that it's technically not sex, so can someone please [in detail] tell me what this is. Because I'm really confused? Is it when you straddle a guy, hump him while straddling him and turn him on? I know this sounds stupid, and I'm embarassed to ask it, but I'm just confused.
thanks bunches (link)
well if you go to the clubs or a dance you see people grinding on each other and stuff so that's an example of dry humping, and what the other people below me said.
:)


I have relatively clear skin. I get the occasional pimple on my face. Like every other month. But.. for some reason.. i know this is really gross.. i have acne on my butt. What can I do to clear this up (link)
i agree with the person below me, wear looser pants because wearing tight cloths isn't god for the skin to breathe and that's probably the reason why.
:)


i want someone to love me. i want someone i can love back. someone i can take care of. someone to run around the city with and to talk with into the early hours of the morning.i want someone who will buy me shiny things and fix my computer. someone who can talk common sense into me when i freak out, and remembers small aniversaries. i want someone who loves me because of my imperfections, not in spite of them. someone who is secure of who he is and isnt afraid to stand up for what he belives. i have so much to give and no one sees me for what i could be to someone.

dear advicenators, is this a totally ridiculous wish? (link)
its not a ridiculous thing to wish for at all. in fact, thats my same wish:)but life's long, and you have a long time ahead to find love, the sweet, loving guy you're waiting for will come sometime in your life, you just got to wait for it:)



they've got eyes in the back of their heads
watching shifting
the pearls in their mouths that they brush every night
are sprinkled with dirt and grime
the mute rebels that live in drinks and solitude
are always being seen
the sparkling speeches grinning about their hopes
are just their ways of swatting flies.
our large black trucks will carry you away
to the crimson evil wood. like they should.
the men in trench coats standing on the corner
of the gloomy sidewalk
predictability and deja vu
my views on a sheet of paper
the underlying fear in your heart and soul
just won't ever leave you
the food trucks came at twelve noon
so nothing in this world is wrong
stretch your smiles as wide as your fears
let them touch your ears. fake or not, keep it up.
a twig breaks in the middle of the night
there's no light with a new moon.
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a mafia


well i have been going wit dis boi for 6 weeks and i love and i wanna have sex wit him so bad what should i do help me pleze (link)
it depends if you really like him or not, and if you really like him then you should not do that because he would just think you are easy and that might ruin it for the both of you, and 6 weeks is a bit too early so wait a bit lobger and ask him if he'd want to.
:)


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is that black eyshadow good pigment or quality? if not which black eyeshadow [brand] is? (link)
maybellenes is better is alot better, loreal's eyeshadows smears a lot you wont like it
:)


Its a new techno song. I've heard it on r&b radio stations. Its very trippy and mostly just techno noise and beats. very little singing. I know its not alot of information but any help helps! (link)
do you know any parts of the lyrics? it would help? let me know and maybe i just might know what it is:)


I really need help with my face! It gets red SOOO easily and it makes me look like an idiot! It happeneds to my mum, sister and me and I am absolutly sick of it.
When I am feeling cold, my face will be normal, when my temp. is normal, my cheaks will be pink and when i am warm-hot my cheaks & nose are really red! I always get red at school and I am afraid people will notice all the red, and not my actual face. I wear foundation on my whole face but it doesnt seem to do anything (i also wear mascara and black eyeliner on my top eyelid only because it smudges easily on the bottom).
Sometimes I think of my self from another person's perspective when I am smiling and I think 'Hm i probably look good like this' but then i see my reflection and i am bright red and it looks ugly! It really puts me down, it is like a burdon i will have to live with. But maybe I dont have to live with it if you help me!
So plz give me your best advice on how to make the redness go away, or how to at least look like i am not red. (link)
try taking this medication 'Eredicane' if you wanna know more about it you can always look it up on google, i'm not sure about how bad your situation is, but if you wanna know what the best thing to do to help it is to talk to your doctor or something. hope i helped:)


Rumor has it that my husband has another myspace profile that is blocked that he uses to talk to other people with. I asked him about this and he was like no the only one I have is the one we are friends on. Well I searched and found his other profile, it is blocked and he denies having it but it says the last update on it was a week ago, how can I get around the block and see his profile/pictures? Its just really stressing me out Im scared hes cheating. Help please. (link)
if you really want to find out, my idea is, you can make a fake account using a different name and then add his blocked account and see what he's up to, hope it works for u! :)




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