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ahhh i dont know what to do!! ok so i need advice and i need it fast.....

last semester i messed up big.... i tried a joint for the very first time (not so pleasant!!!) so after three days (wen the effect was dun) i emailed my best friend who lives in england with all the details... before i say what the problem is i have to mention that i was at a party and i kind of did things my parents would KILL me for. seriously i really messed up the rules and stuff. but before you guys start saying anything i really do feel guilty about them and promised myself not to screw up next year so that i don't loose their trust.... my mum knows about the drug.... though she thinks i've been drugged and thats about it no details. and she's forgiven me.

this brings me to the satan in my life... my sister. she such a brat she's 2 years younger. i don't even know how to begin. she is so righteous. she believes i sold my soul to the devil because i am friends with people not of "our class". anyway, i found out (well she told me) that email i sent to my frnd... i accidentally sent it to my sister. or so she says. knowing her i knew if she has it she wont delete it!!!!
she has three emails as far as i know. 2 on gmail one on hotmail. i dn't know if she cud have sent it to another one. anyway, i need to get rid of them before she decide to show it to my mum if she notices her verbal blackmails aren't working and my parents don't believe her.... i can't come clean with them... seriously they will kill me. how can i delete them??? can i hack into her account or can i hire someone to do it or something?????

help ASAP! (link)
Hacking is illegal, so i dont think we're supposed to tell you how to hack on advicenators. Try this site, http://www.rotteneggsx.com//r3/show/se/139673.html, The fake email sounds great. Maybe your sister would fall for it? Maybe send one to yourself also and then be like "(sisters name) Sis you get one of these? and show her the email. That would probably make her think its real. You can also search something like "how to hack email addresses" on google or something


okay well i need 3 CHEAP [we're talking $10-20 bucks here, 20 being the most] pairs of jeans for school. don't say walmart or target, & i already checked at tj maxx & marshalls. where is a good store i can get jeans from? i'm 13/f and a size 0 juniors or 14 kids if that helps. thankss :] (link)
I dont know if you dont like these kind of things, but i shop at Savers a lot(its a thrift store). They usually have some REALLY cute one of a kind things that you cant get in regular stores anymore. The other day, i got a nice pair of jeans for 3 dollars. If your worried about it being unsanitary, they HAVE to wash the clothes after they get them in to sell them. And i always wash them again after i buy them. So check at Savers or your local thrift store. Theyr cheap and they usually have nice things


i'm going to be starting my first year of high school this year and i don't know what to wear!

i've heard that the high school is usually really cold inside because they always have the air conditioning on really cold. but then it will be really hot outside. so what do i wear?

thanks! (link)
It would help more to know your style and things. But for the first day of highschool, dont dress up too much. Depending on where you live, wear a cute pair of shorts(checkered shorts are very cute right now) and a short sleeved top(baby doll style tops are very cute) if its warm. If its cold, where jeans and layer two different colored wife beaters and an unbottoned sweater. Make sure whatever you were isn't too short(skirts and shorts that almost show your underwear, shirts that almost show nipple, and shirts above the belly button). Most girls do that on the first day of school because they think the upperclassmen will like it, but all that will happen is they will think your trying to look like a whore. Highschool is a lot of fun and i can guarentee you'll love it=] Dont stress over what to wear too too much

have fun!=]]


maybe this is anodd question, but anyways... my boyfriend and i are verymuch sexualy active. and he is always asking if i would bewilling to give him head... i personaly think its nasty, but i do love him a lot, and i like making him happy, and i know that wouldmake himhappy.. i havedone it before.. but im not exactly sure how to do it, like do it well.... how do you do it,how do you do it well and so he will really enjoy it??

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I know this isn't the best answer, but on advicenators, we cant explain in detail how to give oral sex, or we'll get in trouble. Google.com is your best bet for finding something. This is a pretty good site that explains it, http://waferbaby.com/posts/aaearhart/2003/02/20/how-to-give-good-head, but like i said, google it and you'r sure to find lots of stuff to help you if that site doesnt help.

good luck!


14/f/freshman in august.


so far, this is what my schedule will look like;

algebra 2
geometry
english 9 AA
world history
biology pre-AP
spanish 9
freshman girl's choir

i think i'm getting in over my head, with two math classes and two honors classes. also, i'm in cheerleading that has practice 3-5:30 daily after school, and i'm in volleyball, which practices 6-8 every monday, wednesday, and thursday.

do you think i should drop one or both of the honors classes? [english and biology] i'm deffinately staying in algebra 2 and geometry, because i love math and i can deal with those.

personal experiences would be great.
thanks in advance. (: (link)
You deffinetly might want to consider dropping one of your honors classes with that schedule. I wouldnt say drop both, because I'm in one honors class and things like that, and I'm fine. But two honors classes, two math classes, and cheerleading is a little much. At my school, honors biology is actually pretty easy. I dont know if its the same at your school, but you might want to drop honors english.

At my school, in algebra one and geometry, all's we had to buy for calculators was just a scientific calculator. We used graphing calculators, but the school provided a classroom set for each teacher, so we didnt have to buy one. It would be a good idea to buy a graphing calculator for homework and things because theyr really helpful, it just all depends if your willing to pay that much(they can run around $100 depending upon where you get it)

good luck!


I was wondering if anyone could tell me what URL you need to use to put a picture as a caption. By the way i'm going to be using Photobucket. So yeah. That would be great if someone could tell me which URL to use from Photobucket. (link)
For pictures as photo captions on myspace, you cant use photobucket. Their url's are too long to fit as the picture caption. You have to use tinypic.com You dont have to sing up or anything. Just upload your photo and copy the code that says Direct link for layouts. Don't forget to put (no space inbetween the quotes and the pictures url)

Its the same with captions on your main myspace page, if thats what your talking about.


please read it i know its long but i REALLY NEED THE HELP. ill rate please help!
when me and my friend went to the movies i took my nano ipod an she took her video ipod. she then decided that she wanted to borow mine and so we traded becuase she liked my music in it. so we traded and it was a while when i saw her. i mean we called eachother buches of time but i was to busy to hang out. well i took her ipod to school oneday and they stole it. i was so mad. someone actually went into my bookbag and stole it. i was crying hysterically and my dad was screaming at me. they still are talking about it.my mom keeps screaming at me and reminding me. i called my friend and i told her she was a bit mad at first and then she said dont worry well fix this. so i told her i was gonna give her my sisters ipod. but my sister didnt want to give her vodeo ipod becuase 1). her pod is wayy newer then my friends and it has NO scratches and my friends had scratches and 2). my sister bought it with her own money. my parents dont have 300 bucks right now to buy a new ipod. so they told me to tell my friend to wait a while ,while i get the money. i told her and she got mad. she told me that she wanted my sisters and my sis didnt want to give hers. so she told me to give her my moms cell number becuase her mom wanted to speak with my parents. so i did and they talked and my firends mom was so eman to my mom. my mom got mad so they closed and her moom said she'll call back to speak to my dad or else this will get serious. i dont know what she meant by that. my friend doesnt talk to me and well i dont want to either because i feel like she traded our friendship for a stupid ipod. and we were so close. we had so many plans together for the summer and my mom says now that im not allowed to hang out with her and i doubt it that my ex friend wants to be friends. what really gets me mad is the fact that i wanted to give my friend her ipod 2 times! first we were at the mall and she said no keep it for longer and the second time was when i was near her house and called her but she was tlaking to her bf and sed she would call me bak but didnt! i dont know what to do! please help any adive comments? anything?. oh i cant trade in my ipod nano which is liek 130 bucks for a video ipod which is 300. thats impossible. thnaks so much!
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Instead of buying straight from Apple, have you thought of buying one off ebay? Usually ebay has tons of ipods for a lot cheaper than Apple sells them. Theres also a website, www.craigslist.com, where you can search for things in your area that are for sale. There are usually lots of ipods on there that are cheap. You could sell your pod for the time being and put that money towards her ipod, and then buy a new one for yourself eventually.

You said that you tried to give her her ipod back on a few occassions. Have you brought that up to her and her parents? And i know you said you cant trade in an ipod nano for a video ipod, but did you ask her and her parents if she could keep the nano instead? They might go for that.

If shes willing to stop being friends with you because someone stole your ipod, then is she really that great of a friend? A good friend would be mad, but they wouldnt stop being friends with you for something like that.

I'm not sure how old you are, but if your over 14, you could possibly get a part time job for a few weeks, and then you would have the money in a couple weeks. I make about a hundred dollars a week at my part time job working 3 nights a week. So if your old enough, that could be an option as far as buying her a new one. If your not of age, you could do odd jobs around your neighborhood, have a car wash, mow lawns, walk dogs, babysit, things like that. You should be able to buy a new one in a few weeks, especially if you check ebay and craigslist.

Good luck and i hope everything turns out on your behalf!


I live in a residential home and I have 10 days to find a job.I had 21 but those days are gone.I keep filling out apps. but no one calls me back.Theres nothing wrong with me.I have my HSD.I'm over 18 but under 21.I am drug free,no felonys, and I can work any time day or night.Most places my problem is I don't have my DL or a car but other places that is not required.Does anyone know any places in St.Louis MO is hiring? And why they may not be hiring me? (link)
To get hired for a job, you have to be persistant. Don't just handle your application to one of the workers, ask for the manager. Personally hand the manager your application, shake his or her hand, tell hem your name, a little about yourself, and that your very intrested in that job. Call them if they dont get back to you right away. It may seem annoying to you, but it will show the manager you REALLY want the job. It will deffinetly impress the manager and they will consider hiring you more after personally meeting you rather than just looking over your application in a pile of applications and not knowing who you are. Make sure you are showered, well groomed, very well dressed, and friendly when you meet the manager. Smile a lot. This will deffinetly up your chances.


what are some sites that i can watch movies on!?!?
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peakvid.com no www. infront of it. i dont know if its illegal or anything, so be careful. theres a lot of good movies and things on there, but the quality on some of them isnt too great.


well im 16 and i really want a dog, a small one like a scotty dog or something like that. we've never had one, i live with my mom and my 13 year old sister. it would be alone during the day cause of like work and school but im assuming thats normal. it could sleep in my room, and i know it's a big responsibility. i walk anyways so i can take it with me, and i can feed it and i already know how to clean up after it. my moms just worried about it being alone. i want one so bad, what are some ways i could convince her? and does anyone have any advice for first time dog owners? (link)
Leaving dogs home alone for a few hours everyday is perfectly fine. My dog likes being home alone during the day so he can sleep=]. Crate training is a good idea for puppies that are going to be home alone during the day so they dont have accidents in the house and so they dont ruin anything in the house. This, http://www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/our_pets_for_life_program/dog_behavior_tip_sheets/crate_training.html, is a great website all about crate training. After your dog has been home for the day alone or in his crate, he's going to need to go out for a walk to stretch his legs and get excersise, or if you have a good size, fenced in yard, you should let him run around for a little while.

Owning a puppy is hard work. You'r best bet is to get a puppy over the summer, so you can spend plenty of time potty training, leash training, bonding, and all that.

Also, as most people know, Frontline or a smiliar flea and tick preventer is pretty essential. A good bath should be given about twice a month, or as needed. A good brushing is needed around once a week for medium to long haired dogs.

But most of all, have fun with your dog=]. The companionship of a dog is like no other=]


ok. so on the new season of the simple life where they go to camp, one of the episodes i'm super confused. on of of the episodes where that Hawk guy comes and when that one lady kisses him at the end they say what is gonna be on the next show. so on the previews for the next show the guy is like "next time on the simple life..." and Hunter takes Paris somewhere and is like "everytime i hear this song i think of you" and they are dancing and it looks like they are about to kiss. but on that episode, where they actually go camping, that part where hunter and paris isn't on there! and i know there wasn't an episode between those two, so whats goin on?? why didn't it ever show if they kissed? what did i miss?? i'm sorry if i'm annoying or anything, but it just really bugs me that if didn't show that part. please help! thanks! (link)
Me and my sister were wickedddd mad about that too. Most likely, the kiss will be in another episode to come. I don't get why they showed that in the "to come" preview, but they will show it soon. I think it was to sort of build suspense, so you'll keep watching. I lovee that show=]


mi trying to find a photoshop that best to use and has great effects! hELP! (link)
I don't know if you want something free or something you have to buy, but Irfan View is a free phto editing program. It's not the best at all, but its good for basic photo editing, and its free. There's some neat things you can do on it. I edit all my pictures with it. You can download it at www.irfanview.com

Another really cool photo editor is www.lunapic.com You don't have to download anything, it's just a website to edit pictures. You can do tons of things with it, but it takes a little figuring out because it's kind of confusing. But it's free and has tons of cool efects=]. If you need any help with either of those, feel free to ask me=]

good luck!


concert in idaho falls if they are gonna block the whole in the floor theres this pit

like heres the stage then a big whole in the ground then like 10 inches or 20 inches away are seats im going to the blue october concert and i wanna know if you think that they will fill the whole in the ground just for the concert i dont know but im in the third row and i think its stupid that they have a mosh pit in the ground (link)
I can't say for certain, but probably not. They have the moshpit there for a reason. A lot of people like moshing, and they can't in the seats(obviously lol). So it's there for the people who do like to mosh. It's not going to like disrupt the concert or anything.

Oh, and for that type of thing, its hole not whole lol=p


have fun!


Whenever I try to log into my webmail page to contact my boss, the page finishes loading, but I don't see anything on the screen I've tried refreshing the page and typing the address again... but nothing. I need help, fast! (link)
If all other websites are working on your computer, then its a problem with your webmail. Call whatever webmail provider you have(there should be a number on the website somewhere) and ask if they are having any problems with the webmail. If not, explain you'r problem to them, and they should be able to help you fix it. It's hard to tell what the problem is without a little more info.(your webmail provider, ect.), so just give them a call and they should be able to help you. If all other webpages aren't working on your computer, try a different computer. If it doesn't work on another computer, then it's deffinetly a problem with your webmail provider. Their page could be offline for a little while for updates and things like that.

Good luck!


15 f
i love my kitten so much but she is so fierce. she doesnt like me at al. i have 4 months with her and she still doesnt like me. she only likes me when i have food. everytime i touch her she starts to bite me and scratch me.she wont let me touch her. i never touch her naymore. i dont know wjhat to do becuase sometimes i just want to pet her and she scratchs me out of no where. she has alott of toys and im so nice to her and i always tell her "no!" and she still doesnt listen to me. what can i do? thanks! (link)
this may sound mean, but it doesnt hurt the kitten or anything. keep a squirt bottle full of water handy, and whenever she scratches or bites you, spray her one time with it. cats hate water, so it gets the point across better than saying no if you do it everytime she bites, scratches, or does something wrong. ive done this with all my kittens, and they stopped after a few days of that. you could also mix a little bit of vinigar in the water because the dont like the smell of it, but it makes theyr fur smell bad lol


good luck!


I have a boyfriend(sorta). He's a great guy, and my best friend used to like him(I think she still does), but she doesn't mind that I'm with him. I think about him a lot, and I like to be with him, but the problem is, not in public. He's not "cute" I guess. People say he's decent looking, but not really to me. I am afraid of what people will think because of my better reputation. I guess I'm shallow, but I want to keep my reputation(which keeps getting better), and I don't want a guy to ruin it. He is super sweet, and I know he cares about me(my friends can see it too), but he is kinda weird, and not cute. Help me out please. (link)
Your not shallow, everyone feels this way. Is he not cute in the his face needs total re-arranging, or the not cute as in hes got major acne and bad clothes? because if its the second one, you might suggest to him taking him shopping and getting him some new, better looking clothes? that is if you really like him and you can see you two going somewhere, if he wasnt so weird and not cute lol. if you really cant see you two being together for a while, then theres no sence in going out with him if you dont even want to be seen in public with him. but if you really like him, then try suggesting that to him and getting him into different things so hes less.. weird lol.

i hope it all turns out good!


Okay I started using tampons like last week and now -below- hurts when I go to the bathroom and cough sneeze stuff like that. I dont wanna start using pads again they suck so am i using to pig of tampons or something? Im a virgin if thats important to anyone.. and i dont do anything to myself down there either.
And at the moment im feeling a sort of numbness..
this cannot be normal. (link)
hmm. thats deffinetly not normal. what size tampon are you using? when starting out, its best to use the smallest size, like slim fits. try switching the the smallest size of tampons, and see if that works. if your parents know your using tampons(some people dont like to tell their parents if theyr not close and things) then tell your mom or dad, or a really close older female, and they can take you to the doctors if this persists, because a numb feeling deffinetly isnt good. also, how long are you leaving them in for? you should only leave them in for like 4-6 hours, any longer than that isn't good. you run the risk of getting Toxic Shock Syndrome.

best of luck!


so basically i want to get a myspace and want to have my parents permission. ive asked them both to have a "meeting" so i can convince them that i should have one. basically they dont want to hear everyone else has it and i can keep in touch with my old friend.. etc. so im going all out and presenting them with this whole thing of reason why its safe. and how i wont do this yada yada yada ik it seems over board but i really want it. so i came across that you can message people you are not friends with and i wanted to know i there is anyway to block that feature. also if anyone can bring up good "topics" that can help me, those would be apprieciated. any thing that would convince them would be helpful. also if you have info i need proof like internet pages that states these facts would be nice. thank you so much in advance. (link)
You can tell your parents that there is a privacy feature on myspace where you can set your whole page to private so only people on your friends list can see your myspace and your pictures. This can be found on the myspace f&q i believe.

Also, you can tell them that you wont put pictures of yourself up, you wont post your age or your location, things like that. You can tell them that your a smart person, you know not to talk to people you dont know or to meet up with anyone you meet on myspace(as im sure you are smart and wont do that stuff). You could also tell them that they can monitor your mysace. They can read all your comments, messages, all that stuff, whenever they want.. but i'm not sure if you'd want to do that, for like privacy reasons. But it could be sort of a selling point to get you a myspce, if you know what i mean=p


My family doesn't like my BEST friend, and I have no idea what to do.. I mean I love this girl with all my heart and soul.. and my parent's don't approve simply because her taste in music and guys.. and her style in general. What do I do? DO I stop being friend's with her like my parent's want, or should I just go with my own inxtinct and stay friend's with her and try to sort something out with all of them?
PLEASE HELP :[ I REALLY NEED IT. (link)
If you really love this girl, like a sister, like you never want to lose her, deffinetly DON'T stop being friends with her. Don't let your parents not liking her break up your friendship. If you dont have a problem with her taste in music and boys and that stuff, then theres no reason to stop being friends. When you guys hang out now, just hang out at her house so your parents dont have to be around her. Or sit your parents down and tell them exactly how you feel. Tell them that she is your best friend and that you love her, and that her style shouldn't matter. But deffinetly don't throw a friendship away because your parents don't approve.



Also, for future refernce, saying i need help isn't a good thing to put in the subject of a question. on the f&q section, it says that they can delete your question if you do that. I wouldn't want to see your question getting deleted just because of the subject=]


The problem is, is that I'm too skinny and it's hard looking for jeans/shoes that fit! I'm 13/f and I usually wear size 12 slim in jeans and it's too big in the thigh area. I also wear a size 3-4 in shoes and it's really hard to find a decent pair of shoes that I really like in kid sizes :| Also, I can probably wear a size 10 reg/slim in jeans but it'll be too short. I'm sure that I'm not anorexic but I'm pretty boney and I hate it, so any tips on gaining fat? (link)
have you thought about getting your pants tailored? they can fit the thigh area, or any areas really, of the pants specially for you.

but if you want to gain wait, deffffinetly dont just eat a bunch of fatty foods. try to eat healthy, but eat more healthy food than usual. instead of eating 3 meals, eat four. or have bigger snacks inbetween meals. just remember, dont eat a bunch of fatty foods, because that will make you gain weight, but you wont be healthy

good luck!




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