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A little bit about me...
*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
*Height 5'4
*Hair brownish blonde
*Eyes drk brwn
*Location H-Town
*Stats SINGLE!!! all the way baby!!!!
*SCREEN NAME QtWitABooty00721... if someone is on a different sn other than QtWitABooty00721 pretending to be me... then YOUR NOT TALKING TO STEPHANIE NJUNURI your talking to an IMPOSTER!!
I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
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Last Update: December 16, 2004
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what are some really summer-ey and awesome smelling perfumes or body sprays?? and how much/where do you put on? (link)
Try peach paradise or love spell, they smell so sexy! you can get them @ Victoria's Secret for like.......$15-$25 their REALLY worth it. * you can try the sample before you buy it*

~KiSsEs~


I am 14 and i am a female. I like this guy and he likes this grl that everyone likes bc she has a butt, a tan, and she is pretty. She is a ditze and sometimes has no clue about anything. She has a boyfriend but is having trouble relizing that he treats her like crap and there r tons of guys who will take her any day. me and this guy r friends and when we were in school, we flirted alot. now that we r out of school we talk online, but dont flirty as much. the most he ever say to me is "OK?'. I wonder what has happened and what i cna do 4 him to pay more attention to me and get things back to normal. pleez help!!! (link)
Tell him how you feel and be honest and stright forward. Remember to be your slef and don't compare yourself to others.... you are who you are, so work with what you got.

~KiSsEs~


im 16 year old male and i hhavent kissed yet im doomed wat do i do its not like im not attractive i juss never kissed (link)
First kisses are always the ones u remember, just be patient because the right person will come sooner or later!

~KiSsEs~


See i have this friend Stephanie Njunuri n i dunt kno how to tell her- dats shes doin a GREAT job givin pplz advice! i love ya muchos stephy galz!!:-d

~**~nay~**~ (link)
just b straight ^ with her and tell her how u feel. I'm sure she'll appreciate your support! i love you too Nay.... thnx 4 everything

~Stepahanie~


What would u do if U had a b/f or g/f Break up with u ??? me well I have too boys on my mind how do I get themn out??!!!! Jenipher (link)
Just be more active and keep yourself busy because thinkin bout boys constantly can make you go boy crazy! but there's not really a way to keep someone from breaking up with u. I guess u should just really try not to hurt their feelings by cheatin, and other crap dat might make them feel shity! *HOpe i helped*

~KiSsEs~


Hey do u think that u should show off your bra straps or maybe even more (link)
YA!I think showing off your bra straps can be SEXY! i do it alot, just make sure you dont look sluty and trashy then its not attractive. Showin off more than your starps might make you look whoreish!

~KiSsEs~


my friend steals small things like keychains and stuff and i dont really care but she stole from me twice! i dont kno wat 2 do i dont wanna confront her cuz its been a while and i dont want her 2 get mad at me cuz she is a really good friend except for the stealing from ur friends thing... so wat should i do? (link)
Tell her how you feel and be honest, what shes doing is a crime and if someone dont let her know now then it'll be worst later. If shes a true friend she'll apologize for what she did and try and change, and not just 4 u but for herself too!

~KiSsEs~


Hey there,
How can I get my mom to like this guy that I'm starting to get real close with. She's only met him once but I can tell that she doesn't like him. She thinks that he is meaning something different when she asks him a question. Like he said how people at work like him because he always talks to them so she thinks that he's just charming me too. How can I get her to open her mind a little bit more because he's completely opposite from my last boyfriend... (link)
Tell your mom about his personality traits and what yall have in common and what you like about him. Just tell her tyhe truth because if she cared about your happiness then she'd at least ettempt to like him. But if she doesn't then let it go because you shouldn't let the way other people fell n think affect the way you do.

~KiSsEs~


hi, i am 15 and a female. I am very close to my friends, but lately two of them are fighing and one of them is lying to me. One of my friends told me that the other said something about me that was VERY hurtful. I confronted the friend that said this and he said that he DID NOT say it, but the other guy tells me that he really did say it about me. I don't have a clue who is lying to me and who is telling me the truth. It hurts to think that one of them is lying to me, but i really want to know who's lying to me. Please help :( How can i found out who is lying to me? (link)
Find a way to trap them in their lies that way you can figure ou t who's the honest frined and who needs to b let loose from your frinedship.


~KiSsEs~


Is there anyway that you can make...down there...taste better? (link)
Ya.....keep it clean!


hi. i have a friend and she is about 13 and we have been best friends for 2 years now. we have always been there for each other and we are really close. but just recently she turned bi. and im ok with that cuz she knows i just like guys and i know she would never hit on me or nething like that. but after that she started hanging around the wrong group of people and she has done drugs before and smokes cigarettes daily. i wanna get her help but without her hating me or something. and now shes going out with this new guy matt who is 15 and he just wants 2 get in her pants and has fingered her before already! which is really nasty in my opinion for her only being 13. and she said she would do nething to keep him in her life but there is only one thing he wants. and me and my other friend tried warning her about him but she wont listen 2 us. i dont want to control her life but i just wanna be able 2 help her. what should i do? (link)
Its really sweet how your concerned for your friend, just sit her down n tell her how you feel and what you think about her decisions. Make it clear that your there to help and NOT criticise or control! But she really can't be helped until she helps herself, so if things dont work @ least you tried!


hey, i dont know y but every since i turned 12 (im now 13) i have lost a lot of my self confidence. i think im pretty and all but i dunno sometimes i just wish i could change a lot of things about myself. ne ideas of how i can boost my self confidence back up? (link)
Alot of people feel dat way ery often you just have to stop thinkin about all the negitive things about yourself and think of the positive, i mean no ones flawless! Accept the compliments people give you and dont be selfcontious!

~KiSsEs~


Ya....well i saw your web site and you look soo pretty! i was wondering if you've ever considered modeling because you could be the next Tyra Banks...yall look alike. Besides theres not many african americans that look gorgeous like you and i'm pretty sure that many modeling agencies would be willing to hire you!
-Tanisha Jones - 16 -N.Y (link)
I did do modeling before 4 an agency called "Page Parks" but it wasn't da real deal. Thnx....but i really don't look like Tyra Banks! I hear "she looks like a mini Tyra Banks" at school, in da mall, even @ da grocery store,it's CrAzY!!Y do SO many people keep telling me that?!well if you ever find an agency thats lookin let me know!thnx 4 da compliments!


Hey KiSsEs.... Well the last advice you gave me before was SO helpful i thank you so much for what your doing! Helping people like the way you do is a talent and your talent was a gift from GOD! Keep up the good work and don't let anyone bring you down. Your a beautifull person inside and out and you should ALWAYS remember that.
!TiFfAnY! * Katy * 17 (link)
Thank you......dats soOoO sweet of you but what better way then to share my talent?! God did bless me with what i have and i thank hoim 4 that. I appreciate your comments


Hi my names Jenipher and I really do need ur help, Im 15 and i just got back from Camp . I dated this one boy named Jack and i really do like him , but he broke up with me . And every time I see him with another gurl I go to my dorm and Cry, and I told him but he dosnt care, how do I get over him , Even my Best friend likes him too. How can I find the right guy ??? Plz help me!!!! asap!!!! Thanks WRITE BACK
Jenipher (link)
i think that you should move on because it's not worth you crying every time you see him with another girl.. i know it's not as easy as it sounds but don't put yourself through all this. He doesnt deserve you, he obviously never did! He's not the only guy in the world there's plenty more and better! ~KiSsEs~


one of my friends (a boy) asked me if he can sleep over my house sometime. He said he knows he has to meet my mom and that his parents would say yes. We havent hung out alot, but we are good friends. he said he can stay in toen longer than. I dont think he is the kind of boy into all "that". I trust him and everything and im really happy he wants to hang out with me and it would be hard for me to tell him no. I already told him he probably could. My mom said my other friend(boy) could once. i dont no if he really wants to hang out or if he just wants to so he can stay in town or for other reasons.....How should i aproach this situation and what should i tell him? How should i aproach my mom with the idea? (link)
If you feel comfortable with him then this is a good oppertunity for yall to get to know each other better. If he's as good as a friend as he sound then i'm pretty sure he's not using you just to stay in town longer. Just ask your mom if you can have a really close guy friend spend the nite and tell her he's trust worthy and you feel comfortable with him. ~KiSsEs~


okay well there was this guy i had liked for about 5 months.. i told him i liked him when i first started to like him and he said that he wanted to wait to go out cuz we went to diff schools.. well the summer comes and he tells me that he likes me and that he thinks were perfect for each other.. then the next week hes going out with another gurl! i was so mad at the time but i got over it and i mean i still have feelings for him but its not the same i use to.. but the problem is when i had liked him he didnt want to be around me.. cause he said he was scared that if we hung out we wudnt have the same connection that we do online and on the phone.. which really made me mad cuz he is like one of my best friends.. and now that he has a g/f he still refuses to see me and now he barely talks to me.. and it really hurts me cuz even if we arent together he said i was still his best friend.. but the other day i saw him and he was actin really weird and wudnt look me in the eye and i thought it was juz me but my friend noticed it too! i tried talkin to him bout it but he said it was nuthin and he juz was ready to leave cuz hed been there for awhile! idk am i over reacting or is he seriously bein weird? i juz dont know wut to do.. i miss my best friend :(.. sorry this is so long but i had to get it all out (link)
He prbably can't look you in the eye because he knows that dating the other girl while trying to hook ^ with oyu was wrong and he just feel guilty. Give him sometime to straighten his priorities. He might have also just said those things about not being able to be together because he didn't want to ruin the friendship because he really cares for you. ~KiSsEs~


my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
Don't let them put you in the middle, tell them their discussing their problems with the wrong person and they need to tell each other.

~KiSsEs~



ok u see my b/f well actually i dunno if i wanna call him that ne more but i still will for it wont be confuseing!!ok u see my b/f was cheating on me with me best friend and i found out he broke up with her then he promised me he would never do it ever again so i believed him i mean everyone deserves a second chance i think and today he was a t his cuzins and his cuzin fren my other best friend was there hanging out well her and her brother was there and my b/f and her were flirting i guess u could call it then they went in his cuzins room and locked the door then her brother walked in on them doing "something" i didnt wanna know wat that sumthing was i stoped my b/fs cuzin which is like my brother but he really isnt and the girl that did it is like my sister and she has a b/f that god she loves him she has been with him for 3 years she would never cheat on him and my b/fs cuzin wouldnt lie to me i hope but my b/f and her are both denieing it and i dont know who to believe!!! help me plz!!!!!!



Confused (link)
Well your boyfriend has cheated on you berore and its hard to tell if he's telling the truth or lieing to save your relationtdhip. You also have to take into consideration like you said that that girl has a b/f of 3 years, if she did something, wouldn't she lie about it, i'm not sure because both your boyfriend and this girl have a reason ot lie! Unless you want your feeling to be hurt AGAIN then belive your b/f's cuzin ~KiSsEs~


OK well.. there is this guy I like. He's 16 (i'm 14). I talk to him on the internet almost everyday. Well we just had this conversation where he was asking me advice and stuff and he was asking about this girl he liked and if he should tell her or not, so i told him to try hinting to her that he liked her. and he said well i just made a major hint. so i thought it was me :\ and i was like well if the person is who i think it is you have nothing to worry about ;) and then he asked me who i thought it was. so i was like well if you are talking about me, i like you, etc etc etc. but he never really responded to that. so i dont know if its me or not, but i feel kind of dumb because we are supposed to go to the movies tomorrow and i really do like him. so i dont know what to do. (link)
I bet it's you. Go to the movies and just act like everything is normal, then tell him that your feelin him or whatever and look for a reaction then you'll know if your that gurl or not

~KiSsEs~




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