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Hey, the names Jasmina. I'm 17, & a senior. I have 6 months left of school, & then will be attending UMSL. I love sports, & cheering. I love my boyfriend

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Can you use pads with thongs? How do you wear thongs when its your period?

Yes, and surprisiply there's pad made just for thongs. It makes it easy to wear because they're the same shape and everything. It's same as the normal pad, it just it's into the thong, like thick on the front, and for the actual thong part it's reallly skinyy so that you can stick it to that.
Hope I helped. (:

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My period is unbearable. its extremely heavy, very irregular, crampy, ugh. anyway. whats a good way to control it? is birth control the best bet? 15/f. heellpp

Well many say that it helps it, but I wouldn't consider it. With birth control your period is lighter, which means all the other blood that is needs to come out, will not be able to, therefore, it will stay. Which isn't the best thing ever ! I think you should just deal with it, I don't mean to sounds rude, but every girl has it, and the really bad periods only come once in a while, the best you could do is like use a heat pad for the cramps, and take pain killers.
Hope I helped.

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I have severe joint and muscle pain all over my body, what is this?
No other symptoms of a cold or anything else.

Have you been doing something that like your body isn't used to. For example exercising, or been active. Usually it does this when you do something that you have never done, or haven't done in a long time.
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i really wanna kiss a boy. when i do i wanna be ready so how do you kiss a boy like make out? i dont wanna be called a prude
so instructions on kissing please
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Well there really arn't no steps to kissing, it just kind of happens. I mean when he's ready or when you'ready , MAKE THE MOVE !You won't be called prude, because there is no right or wrong in kissing. If you don't know how to make out, then wait untill he makes the move, and just go along with what he does. Don't worry, and good luck.
Hope I helped.

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is it normal to get an orgasm from dry humping?

Yes ever normal, anything that makes your body feel good enough makes you get an orgasm.
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ok i have a boyfriend and he tried to finger me but it wasnt that great. so i tried it myself and it feels pretty good but im not sure if im like doing it right. once your finger is in what are u supposed to do? and how dou know you have orgasmed? thanks in advance for your help.

Oh well maybe your bf isn't that expirenced.

Anways, when you put your finger in you usually go in and out, and so on. You can also just like play around with your vagina, and like play with your clit, which is like the little thingy on your vagina. You usually get a orgasm if you're doing it right, & it feels good for you, like TOO good to keep the moaning in, so don't worry if you don't moan, it's just your body's reaction.

I hope I helped.

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can you pop your cherry by masturbeting orbeing fingered?

It's a very slight chance to have that happen, usually you can't do it by just getting fingered.
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15/f/highly embarrassed
i've only ever tried masturbating once, and when i did, i just kind of pushed/rubbed my clit a lot,
but it kindof made my head feel funny (wow horrid word choice) and anyway, i felt really embarrassed after doing that.
i've never had my period either, like, i just haven't started yet, so idk whats normal and what isn't,
and me and my family DEFINITELY don't talk about this kindof stuff.
so yeah,
why do i feel embarrassed afterwards?
if i masturbate will i make my period start sooner? D:

I think you only feel embaressed because it was your first time & it was just something you wouldn't picture yourself doing. When you do masturbate, that's basically all you do, but then you could also like finger yourself.
Anyways.. it's not oging to make your period come sooner, whenever your body is ready for it to come, that's when it will.
But I think if you keep on doing this, that you'll get used to it, and not be embaressed anymore.

Hope I helped !

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this is just a random question i was thinking about today;

if you are traveling and are at an airport,do they drug test you?

i would think if they check your shoes for bombs, they would also do this,right?haha i dont know,thanks

Well i've traveled a lot to many places, & never did they drug test me. I mean maybe they would if you were acting like you were on something, or if you were acting weird about it, and they something suspicious, but they don't just do it out of the blue.
I guess the best thing to do is not be on anything when you do go to an airport :D

Hope I helped.

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i smoked weed for the second time last night, and at first it kind of scared me and then i finally calmed down. it was apparently really really strong, and i took at least 5 big hits.

i kept me all weirded out for a while, but then i got sick and threw up all over the place.

could someone tell me what might have been wrong? i doubt im supposed to throw up on weed. -.-''

thanks.

Wow all these people are telling you what you did, you already know, & that's why you're asking. All they're doing is judging you, which they shouldn't be. It's pissing me oofff ! Ugh, anyways you threw up because your body is not used to having it in you, and so it had to get rid of it, I mean if you do continue doing it, your body will then get used to it & threwing up won't be an option anymore.

I don't think your bad because you do it, it's your life & you live how you want to live ot (:

Thanks & hope I helped.

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what are some bands like all time low, forever the sickest kids, and the maine??

Blue October
Linkin Park
American Rejects
Boys Like Girls
Sublime
Forever the sickest kids
Say Anything
Dave Mattews Band
Red Hot Chilli Peppers
Cute is what we aim for
Those are just some off the top of my head, Hope I helped.

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what medicine gets rid of stuffy nose?!

There are these things that you stick onto your nose, they're called 'Breathe Right.' It's like a sticker and then you stick it onto your nose, and it really helps.
Hope I helped.

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ive tried to put a tampon in and it just wont go in. what hole does it go in? i need help.im going on a vacation and im supposed to have my period during it and i will be going in the water and i cant use a pad how do i put tampons in?!!?
HELPPP!

Okay, well you put it in the hole that's in the middle. & liek when you put it in pretend liek your about to pee, and like push a little, that way the hole will open up a little more, and be easier to slip it. Make sure to use plastice applicators and not the carboard ones.
Good luck !

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FEMALE
Alright. Soo, I don't shave "down there" or anything.
If a guy was to finger me, would he be be turned off? Like, would he think it's gross, or freak out, or be totally repulsed or something?

I'm not saying a guy is going to do that to me. I am only curious.

Well it just depends on the guy, some actually like it, but MANY don't.. So like if it ever does happen, you should ask, I mean it's nothing horrible. It's better to know, then not to know what tehy like. Right?
Hope I helped.

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how do you give a hickey? like just a small one? ive tried before but nothing showed up on his neck and i dont want to suck too hard cause im afraid it will hurt him and i dont wanna make those embarrasing sucking noises...any advice?

All you basically do is take a small amount of meat, well how ever much you think will be a good sized hickey. & you suck on it, like you take it in your mouth and just like pull it in by sucking, do it for a few minutes, and it will leave a result. And there is no noise involved.

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This guy really wants me to moan when we do stuff togethor soon, he keeps on telling me to moan litterally with everything im going to do. why does he want me to moan so badly..whats so great about moaning. also i dont really see myself as a moaner..haha what if he gets mad that i dont moan..i dont want to make it too fake sounding? eh. i dont even know how to moan haha. i just dont see why he wants me to so badly.

Yeah well believe it or not but guys get turned on by just the sounds of a moan, Yes it's weird, but that's what it is. I mean another reason why is because then they know that it feels good to you, which makes it feel much better for them.

Moaning isn't something YOU do, your body like makes you do it. It's the point where something feels so good that your body can't take it anymore. Therefore, we moan. Ha.

And don't fake moan, if you can't moan, then no problem. Some people can't, it may be because you just can't or your body isn't feeling it.

Hope I helped.

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Male AND Female opinions wanted.
How long do you think [if the people are comfortable in doing so] if your dating someone is a good enough time to wait before giving them a HandJob ? A blowjob? Fingering? Sex?
And the people dating are 16.

I don't think it matters, I think when both of you know are ready to do something like it, then go for it. It's YOUR deicision & no body else's.

Take it slow and easy, try the little things first, and then if your into it, then move on.
It's like baseball, you go to bases (:

Hope I helped.

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I recently just started giving my boyfriend head. I know what im doing for the most part, but what are some things that will really spice it up? I don't want to bore him but i'm not so sure what to do besides the normal sucking and that stuff. HELP!

Well that is like all you do, I mean that's the point of it. But some guys like it A LOT when you lick the tip, I guess it's a big turn on, or even when you are just going up & down, you should like put his penis like on the side of your mouth like the area between or theeth and your cheek. I guess they like it when you do that because it's very tight.. So yeah, that's about it.

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Idk why but I have hairs around my nipples and the lower part of my breats.
1. Is this normal?
2. Should I shave it?
3. if I do shave it, will it just start growing faster and quicker and will i start getting stubble?

Yes it's normal, very.
& No, don't shave it, it will just
get darker & more noticavle.
& Yes it will, that's why you shouldn't
shave it. Just leave it, it's normal.
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When my boyfriends sucking me it feels so incredibly good yet I always am making him stop its like the peasure is too intense. What could be the reason?

Well the reason is because it does feel really good, kinda too good for your body to handle, so just let it out a little by moaning or something.
It's normal.

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