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Life is confusing and mistakes are only a part of human nature, no one is perfect and sometimes the right answer isnt always clear...but, when you find knowledge and understanding, its what you do with it that defines your character and who you are as a person.For myself, Ive made a lot of choices in my life, good and bad. Yet, the experiences and the lessons that have come from them have taught me to be who I am today, and without the bad times or wrong choices, I wouldn't be the person I am today or know the things I do. Pain and suffering Is something life gives you because it brings out the strength in your character and shows you what you're made of.
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I'm totally clueless on what Hair Straightener to buy. My hair is wavy and it's in between thick and thin hair. My hair is healthy. I want a hair straightener that is at a good price too. My mother probably wouldnt buy me one if it was too expensive. Between $20-$40 is good. Please help me find a good hair straightener that isnt so expensive for my hair type. I dont plan on using it EVERY SINGLE DAY but more than once a week.
Thanks.
A good hair straightner is one that has two large flat sides that clamp together tightly (while you hold it) and it doesn't catch your hair in it either. The brand doesn't really matter too much. JUST A WARNING - Having wavy hair IS SEXY and guys usually find it even more attractive because you stand out among the other average straight haired girls (makes you look a little more exotic which every guy loves). Also, When you straighten your hair too much, the pulling on your hair follicle may damage the follicle so much that eventually your hair may stop growing permanently, so take it easy on your hair and hold your hair at the top so it does not pull on the root. I have long wavy brown hair and I never really knew the beauty of it till now because I always used to straighten my thick wavy long hair until it started to fall out and become thin. Luckily, my hair has grown back but that's not always the case, now I wear my hair natural with a wave and random guys Ive never met come to me and say how much they love it. Also, make sure after you shower to put a leave in conditioner and then straighten your hair that way you won't damage or dry it out as much. Hope that helps because having a head of hair is better than having none.
What is good flirting ways with a boy your not really close with but like alot.
Touching ones ( not sexual) just like on the arm and stuff
and ones that you dont like have body contact
Also what are some good flirting ways with a boy your kind of close to and like a little.
The best way to flirt is to make it not obvious but make him intrigued by who you are. Flirting really isn't a set of rules, it should come naturally. In other words, if you're into him, then you know that awesome feeling of giddiness and excitement that you feel will come through on its own (flirtiness)but control all that excitement at the same time, too much might scare him into something he's not ready for. Let him come to you. You'll know the difference in how you feel with him and the way you act than how you are with anyone else. Its just something you naturally develop, it's called game. Classy is being sexy and seductive in a mysterious way. Never show too much. Putting it on display isn't going to make him want what you have if he already sees what you have to offer without ever having to pursue it. A man wants most what he can't have. Don't be fooled, a guy likes a girl who can stand on her own two feet and has dignity and respect for herself. Being willing to give too much too fast puts you in a slut category NOT the permanent girlfriend category...sluts dont have respect for themselves therefore they're not given respect by men, they're used only for quick fixes and nothing else. So, remember to alway have integrity and make him see the wonderful qualities of a good girlfriend you have in you. They also enjoy intelligence, twirling your hair and biting your lips are only going to make you look like you're trying too hard...and you wouldn't want that. Also, please don't find out his favorite song and then pretend that you're into it if you're really not. You can't fake a personality forever...BE YOURSELF. If someone's going to love you then it's going to be for who you really are and not what you appear to be. A relationship and even a friendship will fail if you believe you met a certain type of person that has the same interests only to find out later that they are not who you thought they were and don't really like doing the same things. The most meaningful and long lasting relationships come from real friendships. That means get to know him first as a friend, that way you'll be able to see if he is good boyfriend potential and if you guys are really compatible. If you don't know the guy yet, and you notice a hot boy OUT OF THE CORNER OF YOUR EYE (wink wink) that he's checking you out, glance over (not for too long), make eye contact, smile (without your teeth showing) and look away. That's all you need to make them want to come over to you and find out what you're all about. Good luck.
is it just me or nebody else where whenever i love someone, they end up breaking me heart. everytime...
Getting your heart broken is one of the worst things in life (or so it feels that way) But, it happens to us all and is part of the process of finding a real Man or Girl that LOVES you. Although it sucks, but if it's not meant to be cut your losses and wait for the next man/girl to come into your life and make you happy. You have to let the bad relationships go in order to get the good one. If it's already not working then chances are its not going to last a life time. Why waste time being sad and confused when the next best thing is waiting around the corner. No matter how bad you feel, you just must find the strength and time will heal your heart and happiness will come again. This is only granted if you treated the other well and did all you could to make the relationship work and he/she still left you. If you did this, don't read any further. If you did wrong in some way to that person, then you have to accept it and take responsibility and learn where you went wrong so you won't make the same mistakes in future relationships and hurt your love enough for them to leave. A relationship always takes two and if you're both not loving to the best of your ability or only one person is then its off balance and the relationships bound to fall at some point. Love is like a flower, in order to make it grow you have to water it and give it the right nutrients given it's the right environment to grow. If it is, then your relationship will be blooming.
me and my boyfriend fight on and off all the time we never het along ne more but i love him i have been with him for almost 2 years and i almost had a kid with him but he treats me really bad. He yells at me all the time and calls me really mean, hurtful names he hurts me so bad sometimes that i cry and sometimes cry myself to sleep he means the world to me but he always makes me feel like i am nothing and puts me down all the time. Ihave tried to kill myself before because he has made me feel so bad about myself. I am so confused and i dont know what to do please help me WHAT DO I DO?
First, you have to love yourself before you are able to be in love and happy. I dont believe being in LOVE is crying and trying to kill yourself...that is pain and suffering, which is not happiness or true love. Being with him for 2 years, it is easy to feel attached to him because your life for two years has been based on you two together, it's easy to confuse love with being attached and the hardest thing you must do if you want to be happy is unattach yourself. 1. You can't find anyone better if you're still with him (and you CAN find better but you'll only be able to find the man of your dreams if you are not with the ass that doesn't deserve your love or know how to treat a you properly...he problly wants to make you feel bad about yourself to destroy your self-esteem because he knows you CAN find better. 2. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Even though its going to be hard, You need to tell him that your not going to take it anymore and if he wants to be with you he's going to have to treat you good...if he doesnt do that then you know for sure he'll never do it. You can only guide someone to love and if they are capable of loving the right way then they WILL learn, but, if they dont', then it's clear they will never change because it is not who they are. If u decide to leave, time will heal and each day will be better than the last. It is also easier if you just cut off contact after the break for a little bit until you find your strength so you won't be dragged back by his false pleas for you to stay with him. 3. The only way to be happy is if you cut out all the negative things in your life that is making you sad. We put too much emphasis on being with someone to make us happy, you came to this world by yourself, you can be happy by yourself too. Its better than being put down and feeling worthless time and time again. Ask yourself if you were happy before you met him...or at least happier, there is always a choice and a way to get there again but you have to find love and strength within yourself and when you do you will be able to get anything you want including a MAN who will treat you and love you the same way you love him, in fact, he'll love you even more. I guarantee you (and believe me I know from experience) that once you have broken free from him and time has healed your dissapointment and broken heart, you will be KICKING yourself for wasting such valuable time in your life with a loser like him. That's life, you have to go through the bad to get to the good. I hope u find the happiness you are looking for!