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Age: 14
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My grade will be testing ALL week and we can't bring a backpack to school. I'm going to get my period soon but i'm not sure what day. Ware could I keep a pad ware it won't be noticable since I can't bring a backpack? I don't want to waiste them on days I wont have my period. (link)
hmm well that stinks and is kinda werid that they won't let you bring your bookbag.
But i would say to just bring your bookbag or any kind of small bag. Its not like they are going to burn it or anyhting :)


okay so i had my period from the end of march to like april 4. it was unusually light and i usually get real heavy at least for 1 day. well the next week, i got it AGAIN. it was weird. but it was the same length (7 days) and i don't know if that's normal. should i see a doctor about this? because it was really random and weird. (link)
well periods can be abnormal at times.
If you lose weight then some times that can throw it off.
But some people just don't have a set day to get their period and a set day that it'll end.


in your opinion, should sex wait until marriage or before? (if before, then what age is appropriate) just wondering, thank youu (link)
well my opinion is that sex shouldn't just be something that you do all the tiem, and with random people. However i also don't think it should wait till marraige even if you a Christian i think that would be really hard. I believe that as long as you love and trust partner and if you are willing to make those sacrfacies (like geting pregnat) then you are ready. I also think that you should probably be at least 18. Thats just my opinion


okay, my mom has this friend who has a boy my age and im seeing him this weekend was wondering what i should wear to IMPRESSSS?


13/f :] (link)
pick out a few outfits, try them on and pick the one taht you feel the most confident, beautiful, and comfortable in.
Confience is key :)


So I'm 14/f and my fried is 15/f. I love her to death. I've known her forever and I would never abandon her.

She suffers from depression and is on 'happy pills' but she told me that she doesn't think that they are working b/c she calls her bf of a year a few times every month at night with her suicidal ideas. And then there's the whole body image thing. She's 5' 3" and 98lbs--underweight, I know. I did the BMI thing. But she still thinks that she's fat & sometimes doesn't eat saying that she is 'not hungry' when she skipped dinner the night before and breakfast. Then there is her sister--she's very close to her family and I don't mind that. What I do mind, however, is her sister [18/f]. She basically smokes pot & just does a lot of [random] guys. She's not the picture perfect sister to look up to [although she seems very nice and cool].

Anyways, her mom wants to send her to a nutritionist [dieting issue] but hasn't yet. But that's not the main question. I want to bring into her parent's attention that jer medicine isn't working sometimes and I'm afriad that she is going to hurt herself someday. And I'm afriad that she'll get dragged into the drug world and what not. I'm just really worried about her and I want to help her but I don't know what to do...I mean I doon't wanna be super friend and straighten out everything but I'm just afraid that I might lose her one day (link)
well as a friend i think ythat you should just try to be there for you. I have suffered from depression and the best thing is having my friends right there with me every step. Try to talk to her and let her know that suicide or anything self hurting is a perminte decision for a templary situation.
You should talk to her parents voicing your concerns too. You did say that shes close to her family, but they may not be able to see some of these promblems.
And with her sister as not such a great influence is pretty tuff too. You can't really force poeople to not hang out with someone, so idk what to do there.
Just talk to her, and let her know that your always there for her NO MATTER WHAT :) it helps a lot


f/14 i just broke up with my boyfriend last night because yesterday this guy that i have been liking way before me and this dude hooked up told me that he wanted to go out with me i said no because you are stupid!!!! because the time when i asked him out he told me no because he thought i was crazy but the real reason was that i already had a boyfriend and i practice being faithful so i didnt want so tell him yes while i was still going out with my boyfriend so today i want to go walk around there and get things steaight but i dont know exactly what to say to him????? (link)
Well if i were you i would just be like hey, do you still want to go out with me? And if he says yes, then be like ok well so do i. I'm sorry about the other night and calling you stupid but i had a bf at the time, and now i don't. So i would really like to go out with you :)


ok-
i am like a total break-down right now. my friends and i have this "group" that we hang out in, there's 7 of us. one of them thinks she is so popular and funny, when she is really just plain ANNOYING! i'm not jealous or anything like that. when she makes a comment, and then laughs, then everyone laughs. it's like she's the center of attention. my friends like ignore me now, and it's not fair, what should i do? i've already tried talking to them, and that made it worse. my best friend is in that group of friends, and she loves her as well! should i hang out in another group? (link)
no, i wouldn't start hanging out with anyother group if you like all the others girls but her. Some people just don't get along and you just have to acept that. Just try to ignore her, and act like you don't care, even if you really do. When she makes a joke just lauhg and act like its funny. Also i would try to maybe come up with some jokes of your own or something? So that you can get a little attention for a while.


hi i am 13 years old and i need advice because i need a date to the school dance i am trying to impress this one really cute boy but he doesnt notice me and im acting myself i mean i really like this boy ever since the first day o school all hes interested in is popular girls and im popular and pretty because alot of people tell me but i really want to go with him but hes just interested in girls with big boobs and stuff like that help me please.

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well just talk to him, an just go ahead and ask him. You'll never know what he thinks unless you ask. Most guys can be pretty dumb and actually like you and totaly act like thy don't. You just have to ask and see what he says


Dear Everyone,

how can you tell a guy likes you. i know i should just ask him but i dont really want to unless im sure he actually does.

signs that he likes me?

1. he IMs me first[before i used to IM first]
2. he has nicknames for me [which no one else has]
3. his default pic on his myspace is of me and him together
4. he plays around with me by holding my hand, sitting on my lap, messing with my hair, ect.
5. out of all his friends that are girls, he pays the most attention to me
6. he constantly wants to hang out together and when i have to go he begs me to stay[lol he will hold on to me and not let me go!]
7. he will make certain remarks; did i ever tell you how much i love you?
8. he shares his secrets with me that he has told no one else
9. he hugs me from behind
10. we always get mistaked for being a couple
[the other day a guy came up to me and said someone told him that my friend and i were "together". and when i asked him who told him that he wouldnt tell me. he said he forgot.]

but see the problem with all of this is that i used to like him then i told him and it was a disater because the feelings werent returned. and then i stopped liking him and now i do again. so im not sure about this one.

sincerly,
Emily Williams (link)
yeah i would deff. say he likes you




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