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Q: i have a friend and he is my best guy friend and i had a thing for him awile ago, he knew i did but he was dating someone then. Now he is not,so i wanna get him a gift for V-day,but i don't waht to think i like him becaue i don't. should i get a gift or not?

i think u should get him a gift and when you give it to him say that you think of him like a friend not a boyfriend.

Q: How do I know if the girl that I love, loves me back? I am really confused about how im supposed to know!

First of all,are you going out with her or do you like her?Well...if you're going out with her tell her you love her and if she doesn't say it back then she's probably not ready to say it unless she really means it and feels it.Good luck!!!

Q: How do I clean my computer off? Its running really slow, last time it happened I had a virus. I don't want to get my parents involved. Any free computer cleaning products I can download?

try to get it fixed or something......go to curcuit city they'll get it fixed.I dont know how much it costs but you could try it.

Q: 13/F
Well Valentines day is coming upp..duhh.
And i have a bf rightt. and i have no idea what to get himm. Because he's likee nerdy and stuff..and i wanna get him something nerdy but cute. haaa.
Well any helpp?

well if he's nerdy i think you should get him something like a teddy bear holding a heart and and it says i love you on it.And for something extra buy him some chocolate.Cuz everyone loves chocolate!!

Q: ok so i got this bguy friend and he has a girlfriend
anyways he has hit on my before and said that he wanted to go out (this was while he still was goin out with his gf)
anyways she told mo to not talk to her boyfriend anymore and i did
but now he wants to be friends and i wanna be friends to but i dnt want to make hos girlfriend mad
what do i do?

I think that you should talk to his gf about it.Tell her that you want to be friends with him(if you do wanna be friends with him) and tell her that you have no feelings for him at all and that you would never try to sabotage their relationship.And if the guy keeps hitting on you tell him to stop or else you will tell his gf.Hope this helps.

GOOD LUCK!!!

Q: i turned eighteen three months ago. the guy is about sixteen and a half. i didnt realize he was this young when i first started talking to him. is that too much of a difference?

honestly its not that big of a difference.He'll be 17 years old soon then it will be 1 year age didference and that's not even bad.I hope this helps and good luck in your relationship!!!Please leave a comment.

Q: A few months ago, something happened and I turned the school against me. I'm embarrassed even writing from this because I'm afraid someone from my school will read it and think of me.

I can't walk down the hallway without thinking that everyone there is thinking bad thoughts about me. I feel like everyone judges my every thought, word, or action. I know they don't, but I can't stop the little voice in my head that says they are.

What do I do?
Its making me feel like I'm going crazy.
I'm so concerned with what everyone thinks about me all the time now, its taking over my life.

First of all....you shouldnt care what other people think about you.This happened to me before so I know by experience.Trust me...if you ignore them then they will stop bothering you and you will make new friends.Also....try to let them know that you dont care what they say, all that matters is what you think about yourself.Hope this helps!!Write me a feedback please and thank you.

Q: My best friend got a boyfriend a week ago and were 14 .we ve been best friends since grade 2 and shes had a lot of boyfriends and i havent had one yet and ever since she started to date him shes been blowing me off .She used to pick me for everything and now she always talks about him and is always with him.Eveyone At school is like "when are you going to get a boyfriend " . Ive tried to send her hints that its bugging me but she doesnt see it that it is .

I think yuo should talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel.Tell her that its bugging you that she always leaves you for her boyfriend and that you want ot hang out with her more.Remember...dont let the boyfriend out of the picture.If your best friend understands,invite her and her boyfriend to a movie or something so that you can all hang out.And....I know there is a special guy out there waiting for you.GOOD LUCK!!

Q: Hey , im 13 yearsold , well my moms currently disapointed & upset with me because im in 8th grade and i am failing atleast three clases and shes affraid i wont pass high school , in english i have a 66 in math i have a 56 and im not sure what the heck i have in spanish but that's besides the point, i don't wanna be looked at as the flunk out of school loser who does absoulutely nothing
with her life , i don't wanna be stupid forever , what should i do ? Help me please =(

Well.....all you have to do is study more and dont give up on stuff you dont understand.Just stay focused and dont quit on your studies.Find the right times to study so you could be prepared and your grades will go up in a few days.Hope I helped...good luck!!

Q: What do you think is the most important? Compatibility? Understanding? Love? Destiny? Something else?

I think the most important thing in a marraige is the love the two people have for each other.Because without love their relationship wouldnt work out and they would seperate and leave each other.Hope this helps!!

Q: So I've known this guy since 8th grade when he moved here. We're in 11th grade now and I still like him (yeah, sad, I know).

I don't have any classes with him this year but I see him occasionally in the hallways and I frequently tend to hang out in one of his classes. He's been flirting with be pretty obviously, and I guess I've been flirting back? However, today I realized that he thinks I have something going on with another friend of mine (we don't but people like to assume otherwise). He asked today, "What's going on with you and him?" I told him nothing and that we have never and are not going out.

How can I show him that I'm interested in him as more than just a flirt without looking like a hopeless girl clinging onto him?

16/f

ALl you have to do is try to be more affectionate with him and try asking him to hang out some time so that he could see that you are interested in him.This happened to me before and it worked so try this.Good luck!!

Q: what do u ususally tellk someone on her or his birthday card... i always forget please help me out!

You would usually say "HAppy Birthday,(name here)!or something like "Happy (age here) Birthday (name here)!!And maybe on the bottom or anywhere you want you could put I love you or something.HOPE I HELPED!!!!Please write me a feedback not just rate it.THANK YOU SO DEARLY!!

Q: Does anyone know any good ways to write in big letters very neatly, i get extra points on a poster if everything is hand written.

You should either buy or use a ruler or buy one of those stencil things that have the letters on them.I hope I helped.Write me a feedback plaes and comment it.

Q: i've been searching forever trying to find out 3 things that affect the population growth of either france or guatemala. i cannot find anything and i need help! i just need websites that could help me

you can go to google.com,askjeeves.com,dogpile.com...thats basically all i know.

Q: i had a dream i was walking in the park with my ex-boyfriend

what does that mean?

Well....it probably means that you still have feelings for him.Its okay to have a dream like that.You might be wondering"I dont have feelings for that jerk anymore!"But you are probably confused so if you keep dreaming this then just talk to him about it.Im sure he will understand.GOOD LUCK!Feedback please!

Q: we're getting a new victorian bulldog puppy. any cute names?!

well if its a boy i think you should name it Bobby,dragon,speedy etc.If its a girl you should name it cupcake,cutiepie,pumpkin etc.

Q: My birthday is coming up. I just want to have a little sleepover. I was wondering any ideas of what we could do? I thought of a movie, and ice cream because I love ice cream!!
Any other ideas?
Thanks!

I love sleepovers!!!After the movie and ice cream you can probably play some sleepovers games that you know of and do each other's make up.Then you can have like a little dance off and dance all night long.Hope this helps!!!Write me a feedback,please.Thanks!

Q: okay so i dont wear the ``in `` clothes .i wear what i want when i want.lots of my clothes are tye dye or are pink,blue,black,or brown.i also have a favorite sweater that my grandma made me.it is hot pink,baby blue,white,and a mix of the pink and blue.everyone at school (not teachers)hates it.they say that i should burn it.do i wear it,or do i not wear it and hurt my grandmas feelings?

Honestly,I think that you shouldnt burn iot because it will hurt your grandma's feelings and you shouldnt care about what other people think.This also happened to a friend of mine but I told her to ignore the people who make fun of her and it worked.Nobody ever made fun of her again.Hope this helps.Tell me how it worked out by writing me a feedback,okay?BYE!!

Q: I need a big, creative idea to do for my best friend's birthday.

For my birthday (it was also our 6th months cause we were dating) he filled my room with 180 balloons, one for each day we'd been together, and wrote something he loved about me on each one. When I came home and found them, he popped out from underneath them and surprised me. :) It was one of the sweetest things anyone had done for me.

I need something great to do for him now.

Awww thats sweet...I think you should take him to the place where you guys first met and tell him how much he means to you there.Then give him a big birthday hug and kiss!Im sure he is going to love it.

Q: 16/f/australia

im researching the lionfish for a marine studies project but i cant find anything on google about the diet of the lionfish, can anyone help?

thanks