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So happy valentines day ! We didnt have school today beacuse of the masses amount on snow in NY. So yeah, I invited my boyfriend over... but beacuse of the snow theres no way he could get a ride. Tomorrow we'll be in school but after school he has a basketball game. =/ What can I do to make up the fact that I wont get to celebrate with him beacuse this weekend I have like 3 soccer tornaments and I have to go away. Its bugging me and I feel really bad. Any cute sugestions?
hey, well i know how you feel. i live in mass and there is a lot of snow here too. just like your town, theres no school here either. my boyfriend invited me over his house but i couldnt get there. he cant get here either. so we decided to make valentines day tommorow. im going over his house after school tommorow and were having valentines day [=. wish him a happy valentines day today and making throw in a cute email. whenever you guys are both free, whether its a week from now or not, celebrate valentines day together. it will be extra cute and special because you guys are the only ones celebrating valentines day that day [=.
Ok, so yesterday I got my report card for the 2nd marking period. I knew that I didn't do well so I wasn't exactly looking foward to it coming home because my parents are really strict about grades. So I came home and I saw it on the counter. I looked in that direction for a second and thought I saw a C on it. I go in the other room and my dad was like that's bad. My brother then was like what are you talking about. My dad replied nothing. A few minutes later when everyone cleared the room, I decided to go look at it without anyone seeing me. This way I wouldn't get yelled at yet. I went and it was gone. I looked everywhere. I can't find it. It's like my parents are hiding MY grades from ME. I guess I must have done really bad. Should I ask my parents where it is and get yelled at? What do I do?
hey, yes you need to be responsible for the grades that you got, whether they are bad or good. you need to ask them for YOUR report card back. explain to them that you know that there is room for improvement but you just dont know where. you will only know where to improve if you know where you didnt do so well in.
Lately my three brothers and I keep getting sick. And my parents to. Honestly it's kind of annoying me. Between my bros and I, we have either come home sick or have been sick from school on the last 9 school days. That's kinda sad. This weekend we were all getting sick, including my dad. My brothers are on round two of strep, and I got it about two weeks ago. I've had bronchitis that I can't seem to get rid of after 2 doctor visits in the last 2 weeks, including a chest x-ray. Is there anyway to avoid getting sick and get better sooner?
hey, as for getting better sooner see a doctor and get some medicine. stick with taking it if you want faster results. also when you guys are sick DONT over exert yourselfs. you need to stay put and in bed as much as you can for fast recoveries. make sure that there is plenty of lisol in the house and make sure that you spray it frequently. keep hand sanitizer and wash your hands as much as possible. keep your distance from the sick people but dont shut them out.
Alright...well lately, i think im depressed.
i make the biggest deals out of everything.
i feel like everyone hates me.
i dont think im pretty whatsoever.
i suck at school.
im fat
K well what I think is cuasing this is:
-My freinds leave me out 90% Of the time. (mainy becuase of bball which is ending soon. also, my two best friends always hang out..without me...) This makes me feel like total sh!+. they say stuff like, ur a loser..and lately, ive been taking it seriously...and ic ant help it.i dont feel like i fit in with anyone.
ok i relaly dont think im pretty whatsoever.
ive been getting bad grades in just abotu everything. or, what i think is bad grades; ,more like 70's & 80's. i know i can do better, but i dont feel motivated. i just want to sleep....
i think im fat. im 5'2 & am 125.....
i have a lot of famiyl problems... my mom is "depressed" too...my dad has epilepsy so hes home all the time....my grandfather passed away ( i was very close to him)....and my aunt is in a coma for the rest of her life (i was starting to get close to her too)....
so ... what do you think? am i depressed?
please help me...
hey, well you should talk to your mom about getting help together. go to counciling or even therapy. as for you being fat, 125 is NOT A LOT. thats better off than most girls are today. if your unhappy with some areas of your body then tone yourself up. do crunches, pushups, and even leglifts. as for your not being pretty, everyone is pretty in there own way. people just have different features that are good about them. for your friends, you need to tell them how you feel and how it sucks to feel leftout. have a meeting with them about it. if they dont take it seriously and dont want to change for you, then tehre not your real friends. you need to join a club and try to make new friends. ones that will appreiciate you for who you are and enjoy having you around. as for your grades, once everything else improves so wont your grades.
kind of an awkward question, sorry, but. what do you girls find some of the most pleasurable positions are for you, and also, shaved or not when it comes to downstairs?
hey, well it depends on the girl for the most pleasureable positons. as for shaving, i find it very sexy when a guy shaves.
alrigh can someone please answer before valentines day is over??
i need to send my crush an email (not expressing my feelings for him) just wishing him happy cday in a cute (or funny) way, what should i say?
my friends told me he's afraid of emotions and he pushes people away as soon as they show that they care, so i dont wanna be like "happy vday, im thinking about you!" or anything.. id rather make it really funny and FRIENDLY so it cant be interpreted than anything but a FRIENDHSIP note (event though i like him as more than a friend!)
haha, get it? can you elp? thxx!
hey, well even tho people say that he pushes people away i think that you should still tell him how you feel. maybe he secretly likes you but is just extremely shy about it and dont want people or even you to know how he feels. like him know that you like him before its too late. by doing this at least you know that you tried and that you guys werent meant to be. explain in the letter that youve heard that he pushes people away and that you hope that he doesnt do the same to you. also say that you hope that if he has any feelings for you that he will be able to give you a chance.
There's this boy. I've liked him for about three years now. He liked me when I first started liking him, but I was too stupid to do anything about it.
Now that I think about it, he's always been the one in the back of my mind. And lately, I can't stop thinking about him.
I even had this dream that he was going out with this girl (who I hate, by the way) and I was completely jealous. Also, if his name even comes up in a conversation that a girl is having, I get extremely jealous. He's not even my boyfriend.
What does this mean and why am I constantly thinking about him? And what can I do to either a) get him off of my mind, or b) work up the nerve to tell him how I feel?
hey, alright when those are obvious signs that your crazy about him. you need to tell him how you feel before its too late -- if it isnt already. just tell him straight up and dont leave any feelings out. the worse thing that can happen is rejection, but at least you tried and now you know that its not meant to be.
I'm a 14 year old girl and over the summer i go to sleepaway camp. At camp i met this really great guy and we became like best friends. We both started to like eachother and everyone knew it. He tickled me made me laugh...the whole shabang. We never really became a couple though because I had a boyfriend. On the last day of camp we told eachother how we felt and so on...he kissed me. He only lives about 20 minutes away from me and no matter how long ago it was, he means the world to me. Hes not one for keeping in touch though. He tells me he still has feelings for me and wrote a poem for me! But our conversations are about once a month. I keep Iming him and he doesn't answer. I call him...no answer. I don't try too hard to contact him because I know that is totally annoying. But...what gives?? Not talking to him and seeing him hurts and I feel like im the only one giving some effort to keep in touch. What should I do? Ive tried EVERYTHING!! I know he still cares about me...should i give up?
hey, well never give up until you absoulutely know that youve tried everything. you need to go to his house. ring the doorbell and just wait there. if he isnt home tell his parents that you really need to talk to there son and leave your phone number. if hes home explain to him that you have to talk to him. tell him that he still means a lot to you and that you cant just keep waiting, hoping, and wishing for him to come into contact with you. you need to know if he wants to keep talking or what. tell him that you cant live like this anymore.
where do people get such cool layouts for myspace like these ones? http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=53567727
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=121487979
and ecetera? they are so cute! where can i get good layouts in general like these or even better? thanks alot!
- 13-year old girl whos looking for more original, better layouts for myspace!
hey, try http://www.whateverlife.com theres always google if that doesnt work out. just search myspace layouts.
okay i went to american eagle and bought my boyfriend cologne and boxers. -- i dont know how to give it to him . im going to put it in his locker but do what do i put it in? and whatever i do put it in should i throw some hershey kisses in there?
hey, well i would put it in a giftbag. hershey kisses getting thrown in the bag would be cute. yes, put it in his locker so when he opens it he finds it. get there before him tho.
How do you flirt with someone?
I used to be a very big flirt and easy going with the guys
I've had a boyfriend for a while, but we broke up like 2 weeks ago.
There is this other boy in my Spanish class that I have my eye on, he seems really nice and cute.
I don't remember how to flirt, as stupid as that sounds, it's true.
Can anyone give me advice on how I go about talking to him?
I tried today, but I kind of choked on my words.
hey, well guys can smell confidence a mile away -- they love it. if you appear confident to them and just put on a little show, they will get drawn to you. know matter if your confident or not, act like you are. want flirting tips? go to http://www.links2love.com also plenty of eye contact is needed. if you can stare each other in the eye for more then three mississippi seconds, then hes interested.
mmmk, so i have really chinky eyes and i have no idea which colors look best on me without making my eyes even smaller....by the way, my prom dress is colored dark green, if that helps.
thanks in advance!
hey, well wearing eyeliner wear the eyelids are o the bottom of your eye will make them appear smaller. however wearing eyeliner under your eyelashes on the bottom of your eye will make your eyes look larger.
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i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th]] grade, i was over him. and last weekend we hung out, flirted. he lives next store to me, so were on the same bus and today he sat with me and we listened to his ipod. my plams got all sweaty, and my plams never get sweaty. i was nervous about like what to say and stuff. i neverrr get nervous with other guys! but valentines day is soon, and i wanna like .. make a move on him. i dont know like how i should. how should i? how should i even let him know i like him?
hey, start by asking who he likes. if he likes you he will probably say something like "i dont know" or "ummmmmmmmm im not telling you, then smiles". unless hes outgoing, he wont tell you that he likes you until he knows for sure that you like him back.let him know straight up that you like him when he asks you. cause if you asked him, of course hes going to ask you.
I shaved down there just enough so I could were the bikini I bought, but I got a bump down there afterwards and then it turned into a really dark spot. Does anyone know what that is and how to make it go away and to stop the discoloration.
hey, well its normal to get bumps down there if you shave too much and too hard. the bumps are usually red and look irratated. since its dark, i think that you should go see a gyno/doctor and ask them whats up.
my boyfriend and his mom are at the place to pay for his brothers speeding ticket. but they say they cant let her pay for it unless his brother signs it and he isnt with them. so their out in the car and she keeps telling my boyfriend to sign it for him (copy his brothers which is forging) and i told him no dont do it. and he was telling me she was making him and i just kept telling him no so he was talkin to his mom and was like i dont want to and what if i dont. were both 15 and i was wondering what would happen if he did.
hey, well forging is illegal. she is going to suffer the consiquences(sp?). she is pretending to be someone that shes not, stealing someone identity. she could go to jail for that.
i havnt gotten my period in like 6 months im soo sure im not pregnant cuz i took the test like 3 times and i dont feel like i am and stuff whats wrong with me??
hey, well if you just got your period recently then things are suppose to be a bit irregular. six months is a little long for my liking tho. you should go see a gyno/doctor. explain to them what your explaining to us.
I broke a few-month old Dell Inspiron laptop (don't know the model) at work today. It belongs to my boss, but the company bought it. I dropped it and the lcd is all screwed up now. How much do you think it would cost to fix? what should I do? The first thing I blurted out is "I can pay for it" but honestly it would take every penny I have, and I'm getting married in May, and that money is for the wedding. WTF?
hey, well accidents happen. what you said is the most common thing that anyone says when they break something that doesnt belong to them. you should set up a "payment plan" with your boss. tell him that every week or every month you will give him a payment. explain to him about the wedding situation and how your sort of extra low on cash because of it. you will eventually pay off the cost.
well you guys might know me. im acctaully one of the people who gives advice on this site. but i dont know what to do. so please answer.
so theres this boy, it will be a month of dating next wendsday. but we were friends with like love before. and since we have been going out, things have been going really fast. i know its going toooooo fast. but today we were spose to hang out for valentines day, cause tommorow i cant hang out. and i couldent hang out last minute, and now hes like kinda mad at me, and is being weird. and is like i dont care. and im like about what, and hes like whatever or whatever he says. and then on i just kinda was like if your going act like this im going go so bye. and hes like whatever. i feel like a wreck and i dont want this to end.
i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to say to him. and i dont know what im asking you guys to answer about or whatever. and i dont know what im doing. i have never felt like this before.
please just talk to me.
im sorry this is so long.
hey, well why cant you hangout with him? if your "ditching" him for another friend then thats bad news. this is suppose to be your boyfriend. your suppose to "ditch" other people for him, if anything. if you cant hangout with him because of reasons that you cant avoid, explain the reasons to him. he shouldnt get mad at you if your not going to the other place by choice. you need to schedule another valentines day get together tho. make it for the day after valentines day and apologize with some cutesie apology.
so i have no date to a dance coming friday
and ive gotten my ticket , and i do know what
its like to not have a date .. but it just makes
me so uncomfortablee knowing its kinda like a
valentines dance ):
haah any tippps to not sitting at a table
with friends while a slow song is going up?
hey, well im sure your not the only one out of your friends group that is dateless. make a vow with one of your friends to stick together. when slow songs come on go to the snack bar or order drinks. do something to keep you occupied and un-noticed that your dateless.
Okay,
The guy that i've seriously been crushing on is coming over tommorow and i have a huge red acne dot on my nose and i have tried everything to shrink it.
i've used pro active, hemmeroid cream to decrease the swell, 10% benzoyl peroxide cream, eye drops, not touching it and keeping it clean, hydrogen peeroxide, drinking TONS of water, and tea tree oil. i'm so scared, its valentine's day and my nose is a mess.
i included a picture so you can best judge what to do.
http://img258.imageshack.us/img258/8277/picture03xn0.jpg
please anything that works.
hey, you need to put either basatrasion(sp?) or neosporin on it. basatrasion would probably be better.